LAST DAY OF 2017

New Years Eve.  Why do we make so much over the New Year?   Just another day, I say.  At lunch at LITTLE TOKYO's yesterday we talked about New Year's resolutions.  I was "dubbed" as the one with wisdom, since I am the MaMaw and older. You would think I gathered a little wisdom along the way.  But alas, all I have is experience.  Maybe that could be called wisdom?  I doubt it.  Because I made lots of mistakes along the way.  Maybe that is how we gather wisdom.   It is if you learn from mistakes.  O.K. the wizard has spoken.  Make your own wisdom and live.

I just saw a jogger around the Lake.  Must be a visitor. Not many, if any, joggers here.  Maybe some used to be, not now.  We have gained a little "wisdom."  Full day ahead taking care of business.  I have talked myself out of the big New Year's Eve party, although it sounds nice.

Betty Boop

CLOUDY SUNDAY

I am planning to go to Church this day.  I really miss it when I can't go to Broadmeadow.  Brings a little norm to my week.  So much of my childhood and teen time was spent at Grace Church, long gone now.  Broadmeadow brings a new set of memories. 

I had my weekly Jimmy Dean--sausage, egg white, cheese, on an English muffin. I limit myself to one.  I have no idea what went wrong with color and size.  Can't bring it back--so I will close for today.  BETTER TOMORROW!!!!

Betty Boop

SATURDAY

Year almost over.  Seems it just got started.  I was skimming through my devotional book where I keep a short daily journal.  It seems I prayed almost every day for strength. I did have a few ups and downs this year.  Hope for a better year in many ways. Jan is coming today.  We will check odds and ends, visit and have lunch.  Good, Good, Good.  Truman never said "good" once.  It was always three times.  Hey don't make that turn down Memory Lane where My Memory Bank sits.  Don't check out a bunch of memories and then deposit them back.  I do that a lot.  Just keep on going and make new memories. My advice for the New Year.

Betty Boop  

STORMY WEATHER

Another song title "Stormy Weather."  Remember it?  Of course you don't.  I listened to the radio a lot as a teen.  I did not own a record player.  Could not afford one.  The radio in my room was where I learned so many songs of the day.

Bitsy thought all day it was night time and slept all day.  What a storm.  I am gradually putting away my decorations.  Turns out I put out all I had and it is a lot.  Wish I could find homes for my favorite ones.  Nobody decorates the way I did.  Guess someone will toss them when I am gone.  Not "blue".  Just marching on.

Betty Boop

GLOOMY

That is just the weather.  Inside it is cheerful.  Calm after the storm.  What a way to describe Christmas.  I really enjoyed the "storm" of family.  So much to take in. Most of us gathered a one time or other to be together.  After all that is what it is about.  I think Tommy and Jan's tradition of reading the Christmas story, one verse at a time by everyone means so much to me.  All hold hands for prayer. 

Breakfast at my table for two in the Cyber was nice.  Of course it was just me.  I don't care to join in conversation at 7:30.  People respect that.  How nice of them.  My eggs over light, sausage patty, Rye toast and coffee hit the spot.  Nothing planned today, so I will catch up on a few little things I have been putting off.  Know what I mean?  Betty Boop

P.S.   Josh Groban & Michael Buble' sure are good company.

DAY AFTER

Bit of a let down the day after. Maybe not exactly. More of a contentment.  I was so glad I made it through all we planned. It was so good to see most of my family.  Missed Ivy and Trip,  Lindsay and family, and Cary and family, but that is pretty good.  We have like many families, scattered far apart, but only in distance--not in heart.  Everyone cooked their best. Can't describe it all.  Just like most families, it is a time to show your love through cooking our best.   I know, for I have been there.  Today, just like the rest of my life, I have entered a new stage. I enjoy just watching and knowing I did have a part in their  desire to please their family by presenting their best!! 

Much has been planned for the New Year here at SCV.  That I can depend on.  How much I will join in is up to me.  I will do what I can and feel like.  Can't believe it will be 2019.   Lord, Why am I still here?  Not for me to understand--Just trust and enjoy.

Betty Boop

CHRISTMAS GIFT

MERRY CHRISTMAS

 

&

 

HAPPY  NEW YEAR

 

Dot 

LET THE PARTY BEGIN

It began at Tommy and Jan's house after Church, with Florida, Jackson, Madison, Michigan, family.  The excitement was still there.  I felt good and enjoyed the first round. To get hugs and sweet words from everyone is what it is all about.  Food was 4 kinds of our favorite soups and 2 kinds of sliders and a fantastic array of cookies.  Perfect.  Tonight the second round with our traditional Eve party with a salute to my Mother(fried chicken),  which she always cooked herself.  Today her daughter, me, depends on Mr. Kroger.  That is just the centerpiece.  My nieces Karen and Kathy and members of their family always join us.  What fun we have at Paul and Sophie's most interesting and beautiful home in Fondren.  Oh yes the cat is there, but you have to search for her.  She can't be bothered but I think she likes the company.  We will enjoy and look to the next day.  Christmas.  Tell you later about that.

SOMETHING SILLY

First, the silly.  I love writing poems and since I love for them to rhyme --it can be a challenge for me.  But here is my January offering for the VILLAGER.

 

OATMEAL

 

by Dot Ellis

 

"Eat your oatmeal." Mama always said.

"It will keep you warm and full all day."

Something I think she read.

Surely not for me, I say.

 

But today, I really like it.

With fruit, how can that be beat?

Now I will tell you a real hit.

Add Peanut Butter for a special treat

December 23, 2018

 

I have just finished my breakfast of homemade bread a dear friend brought me.  So good.  I have received so many cards and gifts.  I am blessed with new friends.

 

Betty Boop 

 



TIME IS SHORT

Time races on for me.  They say the older you get the faster it seems.  True for me.  I still have 3 Angel ornaments.  That means I have given 50.  MY , My, I seem to have been busy. 

Joseph and Linda are due here today.  Will have lunch with me and Jan and Tommy here.  I haven't been feeling top notch--hope I am not coming down with something.  I have been trying so hard to keep up for I have much to do that I want to do.  Family is first on the list.  Karen and  Kathy's family Christmas Eve at Sophie's house.  A tradition for my  Mama, with fried chicken.  O boy.   I see the sun is out--good omen.  Let's get on with it.

Betty Boop

CHRISTMAS CACTUS

Several years ago, my "boys" gave me for Christmas, a beautiful. bright  red Christmas Cactus in a pretty white wicker basket.  It bloomed faithfully each year around Christmas.  Although I almost threw it out for lack of luster and almost dying.  I gave it a chance and attention through this past year.  It rewarded me with the most blooms ever---at THANKSGIVING, could not wait till Christmas.  I enjoyed it, for it was so pretty.  Imagine my surprise when buds began to form last week.  It is in full bloom for a second time, just in time for Christmas. Maybe you have had the same experience?  I am enjoying it for the second time.  Will it do it again?  Just shows me how a little TLC can go a long way.

Betty Boop

GOODIES

I have been receiving too many good things to eat.  I think everybody has missed their kitchens and the time to cook things they always made for Christmas.  Every thing from fudge,other  chocolate candy .chex mix. cookies. (the kinds only made at Christmas)I tangerines. I got sugar free candy from a thoughtful friend.   Many beautiful cards and notes, that mean so much. I have been trying to pace myself and still enjoy a little. 

It is still early and I have had my oatmeal with bananas.  I am trying to get going.  Things to do. 

Betty Boop

TOO BUSY

 I have been busy trying to keep up with so many wonderful musical programs.  My I do love them.  Our Activity Directors do a wonderful job oat Christmas and every other occasion too.  Quality programs just an elevator away and down the hall.  My what could be better.  The days fly by and I am still enjoying thanks for my little paper clip Angels.  And receiving so many beautiful Christmas cards and gifts of goodies.  Many I must only taste but that is all right.  I get to enjoy things I can't eat regularly.  I get the feel of the season. 

SATURDAY

I woke up early enough to go eat breakfast with the {group} , then changed my mind.  Sometime you don't feel like chit chat early.  We all do it.

Amy came with Ryan to pick up the Honda he bought from we yesterday.  He needed an extra car so he would not have to drive his big old truck so much.  He does a lot of travel between his businesses .  I did not feel sad.  Just glad I had the good sense to stop driving.  My balance is off and I can't see well enough to feel safe.  Safe for me and anyone else on the road with me. I think I am smart to decide it on my own. Of course it puts others in a position of taking me everywhere I need to go.  I am sorry for that.  Amy, Jan and M.G. and sometime Sophie gets in on it too. They always tell me they are happy to help, but you have to get used to being dependent on someone else.  That is just part of the process I think.   Of course I am glad I can still do sooooo much on my own.   I have singing programs to go to all next week.  I am looking forward to it.  Some are children and that is a joy.

Betty Boop

SECOND CONSERT

This afternoon at 3 we do the second SCV SUNSHINE CHOIR Christmas program.  I hope it goes as well as the one did on Tuesday.  Maybe I will not get so tired. Tired but proud we could bring such a great message in song to so many.  Kind of doing our part to celebrate. 

My little angels continue to please.   I am so proud of them.  I rested all day yesterday and I do feel some better.  Lord help me to get through it.  I wonder if I am pushing too hard to do all I want to do?  Things keep popping up to take care of and even though I have help, it bothers me that things continue to have to be taken care of.  Nothing stays fixed!!!!

SO BE IT

Betty Boop

PROUD OF CONCERT !!

I was so proud of our Choir concert.  We sang our best I think.  Just like the Little Drummer Boy, which is my favorite song in the concert. It sounded good in the Chapel.  I was however very tired when we finished.  It really takes a lot of energy.  Tired but happy.  MG and Ryan came and presented me with roses.  Everyone is in awe of them.  I was so proud and they are beautiful and mean to me that they love me.   I love them too.  We have a day of rest and we will do the program again on Thursday.   Amy and Tommy are coming for that. So many people here have nobody close to come.   I am blessed.  

Betty Boop

24 IS COLD

Oatmeal with banana was good on a morning  like this.  Did your Mother ever tell you that a hot breakfast was a good start?  Well it is for me.  I love oatmeal.  Did not like as a child.  I was a picky eater.   Somewhere down the line I changed a lot. Now I pretty much like anything.  Even spinach. Here I sit with my second cup of coffee and thankful I feel  better today.  Our first performance of our Christmas program of our Choir. Did you know it is called SUNSHINE CHOIR OF SCV? Hope I continue to feel "up to it."  Tommy is coming for History Club.  And lunch. Second session about Leonarda da Vinci.  Partly about his painting of The Last Supper. Should be very good. 

Betty Boop

WINTER IS HERE

Winter is here, be thankful no ice and snow (yet.)  I spent the day yesterday being thankful I could be inside.  Up and down two Halls  I went to deliver my Angel ornaments.  Did not realize why I felt so bad.  Shaky, and disorientated .Took the blood sugar test and was sacred when it read 265.  Very high. I spent the rest of the day trying to get it under control. Slowly it came down to 133 before bedtime.  This morning it read 144 before breakfast and meds.  I want to go to Church-don't really feel great, but what else is new? I usually feel better when I go.  So here I am--Don't know what to do. 

Betty Boop

STAY AT HOME DAY

Kind of like Winter.  Not real cold but the rain makes it seem colder.  Time for a fireplace? I had breakfast with friend Judy.  We seem to enjoy each other's company.  So it was different and good.

FLASH!!!!  I sold my car yesterday.  It was time and  I am glad I had the "Grace" to do it.  I have not driven it since I can't remember when, having Amy drive it to places I need to go.  I decided to sell.  I don't think I will feel safe to drive anymore.  SO BE IT.  Just one more step in time and I accept.  Some don't and that is wrong.  I am very fortunate to have many willing to help me get to the places I need to go. I bought it new when I moved here, so it is not tied to any memories of Truman.  He taught me how to drive when Linda was 6 months old.  I rode the bus many years, like most people did when I was growing up.  Much of the time, Daddy did not even have a car. he walked to work!!

My little Angel"happies" are flying to friends.  Well accepted. I am  proud of them. Well, I will get on with my day and try to get them all delivered today.

Betty Boop

SORRY

Sorry I have been busy and did not take blog time.  So many things to do and so little energy to do what I used to.  I must stop thinking that way and use what energy I have. It has been hard to pace myself.  We here have so much to do.  I try too hard to do it all.  I am delivering my "Christmas Happies".  That is a big job.  I wish I could cover it all at one time--can not do it. Everyone seems to be in a hurry.  Or is it just me slowing up?  Little of both.  We have many new, younger, residents, anxious to do a lot.  I am so glad and at the same time a little sad too. because I catch myself saying too many times,  "I used to do that too."

SO BE IT

Betty Boop

LAKE

The Lake is beautiful this morning.  Too nippy to sit out on Balcony, but I do have a view from the window.  How nice.  It reminds me of Riverwood.  There is something about water, no matter how small, it  is good to have.  I am blessed to live on a Lake again.  Riverwood Lake was always our best thing about our home.

I am drinking coffee from one of my Christmas cups.  I gave my old ones away when I moved, but have managed to collect a few new ones since. I   am glad I brought them down from the shelf and am using them.  I  used  to
,drink hot tea for breakfast because Truman did not drink coffee at breakfast.  Now it is plain old Kroger breakfast coffee for me.

SO BE IT !!

Betty Boop

MONDAY-MONDAY

Sunday at Church was good as usual.  I am liking our pastor as much as I did Rob.  His sermons hit me the same and I listen to every word and learn something new to ponder.  He leaves me satisfied, yet wanting more.  Is that possible  or is that the way it should be? 

Lunch with the gang and as usual, great.  They all have so much contagious energy and I feed off that.  News from all around them is   exciting and I do love it. We were making Christmas plans and glad Whitney and Linda and family are coming.  .

I finished the cards I am putting  in my happies-- now to cut tissue paper to wrap them and put them in festive bags. I plan to deliver them as soon as possible.  50 is a lot.  I know that many people around me?  Yet in my little apartment I can still feel private.  How nice.

Betty Boop
P.S. I have 6 Christmas mugs, all different and from friends.  I got them out and am having my coffee or tea or hot chocolate in them.  Good idea to use them?  I gave all my old one away.  Don't remember got them when I moved.

SUNDAY EARLY

Beautiful day.  Sun is shinning.  Let us be glad and rejoice in it.  Cecil used to say that a lot.  Good thought.  I  heard yesterday that Whitney was planning a visit during the Christmas  season. How nice that would be.  Her family is growing up too fast.

Amy finished the paper clip Angels for me and now I will bag them up.  Time is getting close to I deliver them.  I think there are 50 or maybe less.  Have to count again. They look so cute and impressive.  Like we worked so hard and we did.  At least Amy and Jan did.  They proved too much for my hands and they had to take over.  Bless them again. 

Well I must get ready for Church.  Don't know what to wear.  Weather is so strange.  Say that every year.  This is it-- for Mississippi.  Seems like after 91+ years I would understand, but I do remember colder Winters as a child.  Maye it was the way we heated our homes then? And other things.

Betty Boop

EXCITED !!!

Nothing much to you, but to me it is a treat.  I got to sit on the Balcony for the first time in days.  Hey, 66 degrees is perfect.  I guess we had a little rain last night, their were signs of a little.  The Balcony was wet half way so the cushions were dry.  I really enjoyed it early.  Saw a man or woman (couldn't tell which) walking a huge dog.  Can you imagine having to take a dog out every  day rain or shine?  Just living in a small place with an animal of that size?  Must be love.  Saw ducks and more. People walking.  Cabin fever? 

Amy took me to Dr's appointment. Check up required fasting so we went early and did that first , then breakfast at McDonalds.  best for a plain old breakfast.  Always love it.  Good report (sort of.)  We are still working on trying to get my balance better.  I have a prescription for some therapy.  Also had a CT scan on my brain.  You have heard of getting you brain checked? No joke!!  I wonder if they even had trouble finding a brain to scan?  I haven't heard from that yet.  So we will wait.  Pray for me.

Betty Boop

TABLE FOR ONE

I  woke at 6 and had time to go to the Cyber for breakfast.   Best "eggs over light" in town.  Of course I don't know what the rest of town is like, but why search--  but why look when it is so easy here.  Of course it would be nice to go down in my "nightie", but don't care to go there.  I think one of the reasons I love living here is because it is the first time I have lived "on my own".  I got used to it pretty fast and adjusted.  I did not have the luck to go to College and lived at home till I got married.  All good but I missed that step of living away from home.  Of course  it is not the same. but in some ways it is alike.  You have the fun loving, young at heart, the goofy, the self- centered. the braggers, just as anywhere.  But the independence, is for some, the first independence. It  has been scary at times but I have been proud to get this far.  (with help of course.) 
,
Amy is coming today and we will try to get almost, if not, finished with "Happies."

Betty Boop

IT'S MAGIC

Nothing like a hair cut.  Especially when mine was overdue.  And the frosting on the cake is hair color.  Wow. that is magic.  I am taking my color time writing.  Hope no one comes to the door while I am in stages of undress.  I have learned my lesson.  This hair color business is pretty permanent on the places you don't want it. So, I pretty much strip down. So now that I have drawn a picture of me for you, I will proceed with a little visit.  I just passed the display case in the lobby.  My Mexican Nativity is displayed so pretty.  It most surely looks different from all the rest.  I like that it stands out.  When we bought it in Mexico a long time ago, I thought after I got it on that it was something to keep even though it was different.  Dianna seemed very pleased with it. I set it up on an old piece of quilt that belonged to Truman's Mother. Just a fit.  I am sure there will be those here who will question it but I consider is quite beautiful. SO BE IT.

Betty Boop

SAUSAGE BALLS

I always connect sausage balls with any family gathering.  I could eat my weight in them and the Chex  mix  is next.  I do like them very much to say the least.  Just the right snack.  All protein (Ha Ha)  Oh well it is a celebration and part of that is the good food that we eat only once in a while.    Next is the decorating.  I really am not up to par and extra takes a toll on me now, but I am doing it anyway and I find myself encouraging my Hall Mates to do the same.  I must say , not much is needed.  This place is frantic with activity.  The Lobby tree is magnificent.  The courtyard at night is lovely.  I could go on and on, but it is true.  It helps to have new residents who are working.  I remember when I could do all that.  What a rush of energy and a sense of belonging to something you think you have lost in leaving your home and making a new one here.  I made the move with ease and grace and I am proud of that,

Betty Boop

BUSY PLACE

Too cool for Balcony this morning. But the sun is out and it  will warm up some later. Too late to just "sit and sip." So I will do it before the computer. Busy day ahead. Exercise this morning.  I need it.  Visit with friends and catch up on the gossip from Thanksgiving and week end.  I love to hear it and keep my mouth shut.  Best way to have everyone like you.  Did you know that?  It is true for me. Don't believe half you hear.  I walked the Halls yesterday afternoon.  Many have decorated their entrances.  Is there a contest going on?  Mine looks good to me.  My tier table is filled to the "tacky" rim.  But I don't care.  It is pretty to me.  I put every little Angel that I own there.  I did not know how many till I put them all out together. Some are from travels, some old from my past.  Also mixed in are the little nomes that were my mother's. I think they are of value.  Who wants them for keepsake? 

Betty Boop

CHRISTMAS IS-A-COMING

You  would believe it if you lived at SCV.  I came home from MG"s the day after Thanksgiving, Christmas had happened.  Little Elves had been at work.  When I worked on that committee, it took days to do what they had done.  More younger people helped so much.  It spurred me on.  I now have my hall entrance that  I maintain decorated and my door to my apartment and entrance looking like  Christmas.  My tree will wait a while till I get some more energy.  What store do you buy energy?  They turned on the lights on the Lake last night.  It was so pretty. The court yard and everywhere you can think of is decorated.  O. K. there were some sore backs I bet.  I met a lady pacing the hall before the Court Yard. Her husband was working after others had stopped.  She said she just got him over a bout with his back--she guessed he would be flat of his back again.  It was their first Christmas here and he was very into everything.  I know the fealing . I have been there and done almost everything there is to do, but can't do that much anymore.  Oh well,
bloom where you are.

Betty Boop

WEDDING

November 23. 1946.  You go figure how many years ago that was.  A long time, yet too short too.  I stood with this good looking young man before the preacher, family and friends and promised to love honor till death do part.  Now death does not really part.  I have my memories. After all.  I really did not know him.  I thought I did.  I felt real love I know that.  You don't really know someone till you experience many years of joys and sorrows and all the in-be-tweens.  That is call life. When I think of it, marriage is a gamble. A good one, shares, talks, agrees, disagrees, and still comes out with love stronger. I loved Truman with all my heart.  I know he loved me too. We were lucky. 

Betty Boop   

HAPPY AND BLESSED THANKSGIVING

So much to be thankful for.  I know we say the words and really do mean them, but to live in this awesome country where we believe in God, and all the blessings he gives us each day.  We must give thanks every day.  I am thankful for the new little girl in our family.  She is so welcomed and loved.  Each day I give thanks for a beautiful day and a nights rest.  I could name them one by one and it would never end.  I am indeed thankful for my family.  They love me and accept me just as I am.  I do the same for them.

I am eating Thaksgiving lunch here and tomorrow our family who are here will gather for a second dinner.  How nice. Two times to cheat on the diet.  I am having lunch with my friend Betty and her daughter-in-law today and I don't know who else yet.  A lot of people are having lunch here today.  It will be good, but not as good  as Amy's dressing and M.G.'s fried turkey tomorrow.  Yes fried!!  Anything  Sophie cooks is special.  So two great days to enjoy !!

Betty (blessed) Boop

BEAUTIFUL SUNSHINE

The sunshine takes an edge off the  cool nip in the air.  Shoppers are getting started.  I miss that in a way.  It was exciting and satisfying but also stressful.  I loved the planning and the decorating.  I would pull out oldies and maybe a few newbies.  I loved doing the mantel and always wished Truman would decorate the tree with me.  I am not sure if he just did not know how or he considered it my "thing."  Oh well it all got done. He did take me to buy a real tree every year and then set it up and then let me decorate.  Maybe I was a little controlling?  No, he just did not want to do that part.  I did enjoy it.   Now things are different.  Time changes most things.  I have a small artificial one and some of my all time favorite ornaments that I saved.  It is kind of "bittersweet".  I don't know why I still do it.  And I guess I will continue till I can't do it any more.  I must be careful, because I hear a note of regret in my words.  Don't go down that lane.  It leads to nowhere.  I am thankful for today. 
 
I went to exercise class. Short in number, because some are already gone for the holiday.  It felt good.  I took my Blood Sugar reading when I got back (it was high before I went) and it was 99 after exercise class!!!  Just shows you how good exercise is for me.

Betty Boop

SUNDAY

Back home from a good day.  Started with Church. Always good.  We gathered at M.G.and Ryans new home.  New because they have done so many lovely new things to it.  On the Lake at Lake Lorman.  The screened porch was so relaxing.  Sophie and Paul brought Mr. Chen's for us to eat for lunch.  My, how nice.  The house is lovely.   I know they are going to enjoy living there for a longtime.

I am enjoying pictures of the new baby Emily and her big brother and sister.  Fun ahead. 
Betty Boop

AND THE ANGELS SANG

Yes another Angel was born yesterday.  Her name is Emily Jane.  Little sister !!   They are happy and so am I.  My 9th great grand child.  How wonderful.  Beautiful little girl is here and healthy.  What more can you ask for?  Maybe sunshine?  We have that too.  Makes the world look good for us.  If only Truman were here to see all his off springs!!  He would be so proud.  Somehow I think he knows.  He is with us in spirit.  I believe.   Do you?

Betty Boop

BEAUTIFUL SUNRISE !!!!

Oh! You did not see it? You have to get up early.  I, for some reason woke at 5 and could not go back to sleep.  Almost afraid to at 5. I would over sleep for sure. So I confused Bitsy and started  everything early.  The clouds were amazing.  How can they be so different every day?  I will tell you how.  There is a master painter in charge. You don't have to understand.  But just enjoy.   A little nippy at 30 degrees but the weather man promises it will warm to the 60's today.  Enough about the weather.
 
I was thrilled with the little 5 and 6 year old children from St. Anthony's school . 33 of them.  All in their homemade Indian and Pilgrim costumes.  They were amazing and so cute and sweet. They came out to us after singing and gave everyone a bunch of corn and shucks to hang on a door complete with a note of a bible verse.   Mine is hanging on my door--so pretty and festive.

That's all for today.
Betty Boop

    

COLD BUT BRIGHT

Yesterday was so gloomy (the weather). But around the Halls, it was bright, cheery, excited.  I think a change  in the weather can do that.  It was the buzz around the people that it was good not to have to go outside. Of having to go in spite of the weather is over for most.  Oh there is the Dr's appointments and various reasons to go, but not many and you can work around that usually.  So this is called retirement and living in an independent place too.  Life is good for me. 

My sweet girls came and we worked on my Christmas "happies"..  I bit off more than I could manage.  They came to the rescue and got a lot done.  One more session might do it.  They are turning out so sweet.  You know I believe in Angels and that is what they are.  So many Angel ornaments that you can make.  I have made a few different kinds.  These are so pretty and sweet.  Can't wait to give them. I have so many friends here.
A few new ones have joined us since last year. 

We are having children from St. Anthony's Catholic School to sing  a Thanksgiving Day program.  I am going as I like to see the programs with children,

Betty Boop

SHIVER ME TIMBERS

Baby it's cold outside.  Think I will stay indoors today.  It was so amusing yesterday to walk to and fro  down the Hall yesterday.  Everyone bundled up and every other old lady in a vest.  I had to laugh to myself. I had one on too. We are "following the fashion" so to speak. Really, no two alike.  They do feel good to old bone.  We are into our Christmas program at Choir.  Kind of makes me sad.  Always did. -Some of the songs bring back sweet memories. But also  because the songs are so beautiful.  We have two with Latin phrases that are thrilling to me.  I am glad to be a part of it. 

Stay warm.  I miss our fireplace.  So Be It.

Betty Boop

HELLO

I have been lax in writing in the Blog.  Sorry, just did not feel like writing.  I feel proud of myself this morning. Not only did I go to Exercise Class, I took pumpkin bread. Everyone was glad to see me back and they are a wonderful bunch of friends.  It felt good to be with them again.  Hope I will keep it up.  It is a lot up to me to make the effort and it is indeed worth the effort.  Going to lunch with friends Betty and Judy. and a mystery who the other one will be.  Wish us luck.

Betty Boop

BALCONY BLISS

At 63 degrees and sun out, where could there be a better place than the Balcony.  I can observe the many clouds.  They are really on display.  So many kinds yet I know there are no two alike.  I see artist trying to capture the beauty of them and really can't take the place of really seeing them.  I hated to leave them this morning and come in to start the day.

Lunch and Choir practice are on the things I will do today. I can think
 of my many members of my family.  They are scattered all over the world today.  I pray the Lord will bless them and keep them safe.

Betty Boop

C of blooms. HRISTMAS??

Is Christmas close?  My Christmas cactus thinks so.  My "boys" gave me this beautiful cactus in a white basket several years ago.  I almost threw it out a few times because it looked so far gone, but I nursed it and surprise--it is beautiful a month or so early.  Just full of Christmas red blooms.  So never give up, it might have just needed a rest. Same with me, I needed that extra hour and I am a Standard Time girl.  I went to exercise class this morning.  I have been avoiding it for various reasons for some time.  It felt good and I picked right up.  One shoulder was a little tricky{rotator cuff}  but I hope I did not strain it.  We will see.

Another creature has been affected by the time change.  Bitsy just can not understand why I wont come to bed on time.  She knows the routine and begs for it. In several ways.  Giving the stares of not understanding,  up on my chair and nuzzling my hair, going to the bed where she sleeps on the foot, and generally upset.  Oh well, I tried to explain, but she still doesn't like it.    I do. like it.

Betty Boop

SATURDAY

I slept better last night.  Can't explain it.  If I knew why, I would "write it down." That reminded me of when I used to love for Truman to tell me stories about growing up on the farm.  A true little country boy who  worked and played his life from being born to wonderful hard working parents and with two brothers and one sister had a life that I could only imagine, being a "city girl."  I loved hearing of the fun he had. I would tell him to "write it down" for your children.   Finally he did make his stories into a book for his children and grandchildren, but it was first written for me.  Grandchildren, pull out TRU-B-DO- B-DO and read it sometime.  It will show you in so many ways how a little country boy grew up to be the great  man he was. Naturally I thought he was great.  Well he was!!!

Betty Boop

FRIDAY

Can't believe it is Friday.  But it is.  Little chilly, but beautiful sunshine.  Not much of interest is happening with me so I will do as the saying goes (and I twisted is a little)  If you have nothing to say, just say nothing.  I made that one up, but it fits me this morning.

Betty Boop

What happened to my last blog?

There it is but a lot of underline.  Who knows what I did.  Hope you can read it anyway.

Betty

DAY AFTER

Since we don't actually go out and Trick or Treat. three ladies came to all our doors dressed like beautiful witches in black gowns and big black hats with vales and knocked loudly with trick or treat like witches.  They carried big, I mean big, baskets of candy.  They forced a handful on me. Now I had to be polite and accept, even though I can't eat much candy.  They were so cute and having fun.  Mary Norfleet was one I reconized What fun they had.

Big storm last night.  I did not hear much except the sirens from the city went off about 3. 

I went down to breakfast at the Cyber.  Lots of people but very little help.  Finally got my eggs and sausage. Was very good.

Betty Boop

HALLOWEEN OR NOT?

Two times to celebrate? Bet some will try.  I read that Butterfingers were the favorite.  Must admit they are good.  I think most candies have their place in favorites.  Hard to beat Payday, Baby Ruth, and good old Hershey bars.  I can only dream about them as they really throw me for a loop.  Oh well I am a little tired of these Halloween decorations, time to move on.  My crazy turkey that I use every November is squawking to fly out of his box.  I have two.  One is crazy.  It will go where the most can see him--in the hall where I claim that spot as mine, the other is at my door.  So I get to exercise my desire to create two times.  I leave the inside of the apartment  with out.  So it does not get so cluttered!!  Ha Ha.!!  I really don't have a lot of space.  I am trying to make fun and forget my troubles.  Everyone has them.  I have decided that no one really wants to hear them.

Hey, there comes the sun.

Betty Boop
P.S. What ever happened to MILKY WAY or THREE MUSKYTIERS?

TWO OF THEM

I was surprised this morning on the Balcony.  Two sky writers were having fun in the sky.  They filled the massive space with streaks of clouds.  Hard to tell theirs from Gods natural ones.  Still don't know where they come from and is it just for fun? Does anyone know?  Where can I  find out ?  Sophie where are you and your tower of information? It is between 7 or so in the morning.  They were having a heyday this morning.   In the Eastern sky.

Are you going TRICK-OR-TREATING?  We are decorated at almost every door.  Poo on the ones who don't decorate.  I am sure their are those who really can't for various reasons.  But it is fun to walk the Halls and look at the new and the vintage.  Mine are a mixture.  Soon it will be time to put them away and bring on the turkey and pumpkins.  Hooray for change.

Betty Boop

PIG IN POKE

I had something for breakfast I used to fix for my children, called different things.  Pig in poke, egg in hole and maybe others names.  I really made a mess when I tried to turn it over.  The yolk broke and stuck,  I ended up with scrambled egg and toast within.  I ate it anyway and it tasted good.  It just looked like a disaster.  Eat it fast and don't look was all I could do.  Nice start to Monday.  I feel some better than yesterday.  I can't understand this sort of unbalanced feeling.  Ryan & MG. came yesterday and gave Bitsy her shot.  Bity absolutely loves Ryan.  He pets her so good she thinks.  She loves company anyway, but especially men.  She does not get to see many of them I guess. Anyway we had a nice visit and talked about their new house and their trip coming up to Austria.  Been there and it is beautiful and I know they will enjoy.  Their company was much enjoyed.  We talked about our favorite candy at Halloween.  People here have put it out  at their doors.  I said Snickers.  After they left, MG knocked on the door with a small Snicker bar that she picked up on their way out. TRICK OR TREAT.  What a treat that was.

Betty Boop

UNDER THE WEATHER

I have not been felling well the last two or three days.  Can't shake this little problem I have.  Annoying for sure.  I read in my Bible this morning.  Psalms: 143:8   "Remind me each morning of your constant love, for I put my trust in you. My prayers go up to you,  show me the way I should go."
Powerful, yet hard to do.  Because, I know all of this-I try hard to trust, and I still fall short of complete trust. 

Hey, the sun just came out.  Good sign.  I think we humans look for signs, maybe answers to what we see or feel.  The sun always cheers me.  Good "sign?" 

Betty Boop

RAIN

Love a rainy day when, I can be inside looking out. Ah!  retirement in a retirement village.  I started out good.  Woke up at 6 am.  Good time to let someone else fix my "ham & eggs."  I did just that.  There were lively people eating breakfast.  I decided not to join anyone.  Too early for small  chit chat.  So I did it alone.  Rain has stopped for now, but they say, more is on the way.  Good!!   O. K.  what next?  We will go forward and explore that subject. Too wet for Balcony time. Maybe the Bubble?

Betty Boop
P. S.  I notice we have fried shrimp on for today.  Sounds good to me.

BRAVED IT

I miss the Balcony in the morning.  But today with the sun out and 51 degrees. It was bracing and wonderful.  No wind really makes a difference.  I reread a letter from my Florida granddaughter.  She and husband are guiding my three amazing grandchildren to success and happiness.  My she is a good mother.  Proud of her. My mystery sky writer was at work.  I do wish I could find out more about him or her.  I bet Paul could find out.  He keeps up with what is happening with his work. 

I am excited about our new Christmas program.  We are going to impress and bless everyone with our learning a song with Latin again.  Makes us look so smart.  It is really beautiful.  I sang pretty good yesterday.  My voice is old and scratchy sometime, but that is the beauty of singing as a group.  You get caught up in other better voices and think it is your own.  I sat by a poor soul who gets lost and needs help.  Someone told me I did my good deed for today by sitting by her.  She is so sweet and brave and some day it may be me, and I do think I do good by being kind to her.  Maybe that was my purpose for the day.  Think so?

Betty Boop

GOOD CLOUDY MORNING.

Cloudy this morning.  Fall is expected to be a season of change.  And is really has been that way.  I wonder what the winter will be. Last year was mild if I remember right. I really need a coat.  Mine are so out of date because we haven't needed one very much in last few seasons.  Oh well, I am at the point where I don't buy green bananas anymore.  (So the saying goes.) That is a sad thought.  Don't need that. 

Choir practice today.  We have Christmas music to learn. Some more  new stuff.  Shirly is determined to have it in the Chapel with two performances.  I hope she knows what is the right thing.  I disagree.  But I am not  the director. Amy brought me pansy plants to plant in my blue pot. I do like pansy plants and I will get them happy in their pot and they will make me happy too.

Betty Boop 

NEW WEEK

I had a good Sunday.  Of course Church is first. But lunch with Amy, Ryan, M. G., and surprise Ivy and Tripp. here for a short visit.  We had lunch together and had a wonderful visit.  They are doing good and looked wonderful.  Both working and having fun.  That is good to hear.  LITTLE TOKAYO  was good.  I spent the rest of the day in my apartment, just resting and reading. 

I do love this new weather.  Don't you?

Betty Boop

OOPPPS

I just realized that I dropped the last line of the first verse of my new poem.  It should be added like this: 

For me he has been pinning.

Sound better?
Dot

New poem for Villager

SOMTHING NEW

by dot ellis

 

There he sits upon my bed.

His bright eyes are shinning.

Short for Teddy, his name is "Ted."

 

I bought him at the Closet Sale.

I could not pass him by.

Just 2$ was his bail.

He really caught my eye.

 

Now silently he looks around,

A new home he has found !!

If I only knew who put him there,

I'd say."Thanks - I love our Bear."

SUNDAY

Beautiful sunshine but a little "nippy."  I will take that.  One thing I like about Fall. it is changeable. Going to Church as far as I know.  Haven't heard we are not going.  So I will get read and go (I hope.)

Betty Boop











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RAIN COMING ?

I did not sleep well. I guess that is norm for now.  I got up and read a while and thought what my maid said about that.  She is a walking Bible.  She said when you can't rest or sleep, just close your eye and ask God to hold you in his arms and wait and you will go to sleep.  Guess what- it worked.  Can't wait to tell her. Maybe it was that I was ready to sleep and maybe it was the peanut butter and cracker and orange juice and maybe God heard me.  I went to sleep and slept till 7.  Too late to get it together and eat at the Cyber with friends.  Can't wait to see what daylight saving time will do to me.  Hope it helps me to fall back.  Anyway it would have been a good day for pancakes because my blood sugar had drooped a little low on sugar.  But instead my egg with chees, orange juice, rye toast and coffee filled the bill. 

Amy came yesterday.  She brought my grocery order.  I miss going myself, but so be it.  She was preparing for Ivy to visit. Hope to see her. Yet I know her visit will be short.  I will do a little load of laundry and shampoo my hair.  And drink Rooibos  Red Tea.  Have you ever had it.  Rooibos is a plant grown in Africa that tea is made from it's leaves.  It is mentioned a lot in a series of books I read.  You have to develop a taste for it.  I drink it in the winter months. Linda gave me my first box of bags several years ago.  she brings it to me once in a while.  You can buy it in Kroger and other stores that sell tea.  It is getting "hot tea weather."  I promise!! 

BETTY BOOP

BEAUTIFUL MORNING

I felt like singing OH, WHAT A BEAUTIFUL MORNING. on the Balcony this morning.  Now I guess I had better not try that.  It was just right out there.  The clouds are many and they reflected on the Lake to make it look like it would be fun to jump in.  I wont try that either.  Just enjoy the view.  I really can't remember seeing the clouds look so pretty and many different kinds. With Roger Wicker here last Sunday and Cindy Hyde-Smith this Sunday. they are telling us that our vote is important.  Seniors do like to be feel important too. Jan and friend Carol are going on a girl trip this weekend.  I think it is wonderful that my girls have long time friends.  Carol is a MSU friend who has been loyal through the years.  Hope they have a good safe trip.  

Betty Boop







   

NOT BALCONY WEATHER

I braved it this morning, with my long winter robe, high top slippers, and coffee.  The sunrise was beautiful a little earlier so I thought the sun was going to help warm it so I could stand it.  I probably would have stayed, but the wind was a little brisk.  So 2 minutes into my sitting on a cold seat I gave up.  Oh well it is still beautiful just from the window. 

Highlight of the week:  I had guest for lunch.  Amy, Ed, M. G., Ryan  came and we had a table full. It was so much fun.  I hope we can do it again.  It was shot day for  Bitsy.  Ryan charmed Bitsy, while M.G. gave the shot.  She was as still as could be.  Bitsy loves men and Ryan gave her the attention she needed. 

I hit the wrong button I guess and my beautiful font went away.  Oh well--SO BE IT.

Betty Boop

FEELS LIKE WINTER

Really cool and wet on Balcony.  Not a pleasant combination for drinking coffee or anything else you may have for breakfast.  If the sun were shining, I might brave 59 degrees but not wet and no sun.  Never satisfied I guess.  Yes I am- I have lots of beautiful mornings out there. 

Jan took me to Dr. Sotolongo yesterday {to get my toe nails  clipped}  Just so you know.  Quick trip, as I needed to get back for Choir practice. We are working on Christmas and we have hard stuff.  We need to try new and not just the old.  Although the traditional is best.   Kind of wiped me out since I missed my nap. It seems my entergy will only last for one event a day and if I push to do more, I pay the next day.  Oh well, will I ever learn to pace myself?  It is hard. 

Betty {love a rainy day} Boop   

CHILLY 59 DEGREES

Well, it has finally arrived !!  And I have to give up Balcony time this morning.  With 59 and no sun, a little breeze. Maybe later? Guess what!!,I went to Exercise class yesterday. It felt good to go back.  I actually made it fine. I haven't been since rotator problem.  Guess I don't have any excuses now. Everyone was glad to see me back.  Hey, we support each other.  How wonderful.
Jan is coming to drive me to get the old toe nails trimmed.  I have to have it done because of being diabetic.  I am such a bother. 

Betty Boop
I don't know what happened to the color.  Maybe I have run out.  Maybe not.  Who knows?

MONDAY (already?)

It does come around often it seems.  I look at it like a new beginning. I know that is not true, but to each his own.  Sunday was a good day at Church.  We had a good crowd.  Two of Amy's friends came and we had a lot of guest.  Bill Ellison, Temperance, and Jeff Perkins came.  They do Bluegrass Music and are well know personalities in the music business here.  They have been with us for a number of years once a year.  They do beautiful music.  Ladies of the Church put on a lovely brunch before Church.  I remember the days when I loved to be involved with those events. 

The Balcony was so pleasant this morning.  I drank coffee from my new mug that I bought at the Closet sale.  We did good on the proceeds of that event here.  My mug has a Prothonatary warbler on it.  We used to see them on Riverwood. 

Betty Boop

SUNDAY

Up early.  I am going to Church early for brunch before the Blue Grass Service. Annually we have the most beautiful blue grass music.  Tell you about it later.  I hope you have had a chance to look at the clouds lately, especially in the morning.  I have never seen so many kinds.  This morning was no exception.  I saw the sky writer weaving in and out way in the Eastern sky.  Still wonder about who it is. 

Jan came yesterday, we went to Trace Grill for lunch.  I like for my kids to come to lunch here, but I need to get out and look at other views some too.  We both like Trace Grill.  The food taste homemade.  They don't even put sugar in their cornbread!!!!.  She helped me do small chores that are big to me.  You just don't know what I mean till you face small things that get hard to do.  I am still surprised at some things. Keeps life interesting I guess. I keep having small memories of long ago.  I told Jan about a little old black lady who used to come door to door at our Meadow Ridge home when they were growing up.  She did not remember this.  Anyway the carried shelled lady peas and sometime baby lima beans in a cloth sack and she would sit on the steps and measure out peas with a cup and I would hold my bowl for her to pour them in it.  The girls watched in wonder.  I have often thought of the lady and how hard it must have been for her to walk the neighborhood and sell her from small sacks from her garden I presumed.  I wish I had asked her, but at the time, it did not occur to me.  Those things were so common then.  People selling from door to door.  What a life.

Betty (just thinking) Boop

LAKE

With coffee cup full and winter robe and footies on, I braved the "cold." Yes it does feel a little nippy but good on my balcony.  I soon noticed activity around the Lake.  Groups of two or three walking around as if looking for something.  Oh, I remember.  It is employees day to fish!! I think it is well liked by them.  It is a good day for it.  I remember some days past when it was too hot.  A group just set up beneath my balcony so I can see them well.  They brought folding chairs, fishing gear and cups of coffee.  They look serious to win the prize.  Good Luck.  The fish are in there. 
My new bear slept sitting up on my dresser.  Bitsy still claims the choice place at the foot of the bed.  I am in a zoo!!  By the way, my bear is named "TED".  Very original don't you think?

Sweetly Be
Betty Boop

FRIDAY

We had a big closet sale today.The money made goes to Employees Christmas Fund. Big deal for us because we get to give to our loyal employees who do so much for us.  It is the only way we can give to them.  I don't know how much it made.  I hope it is better each year.  I did not need anything but it is fun to look.  I did buy a pretty coffee mug for almost nothing and a Teddy bear for my bed.  He is wearing pajamas.  So cute.  Bitsy does not think much of it, maybe a little jealous?  How silly.  I really needed a teddy bear. I passed him up two times and went back for him because he had his eye on me.He looks loved but needed a new home.  So he is sitting on my bed. For 2$  I guess I can afford to be silly.

Betty Boop  

PS:I also give a generous amount of money to the fund too. 

CHILLY

Wow!  It was a little nippy out on the Balcony this morning around 7:30.  Don't know how long it will last, but I am prepared to enjoy it.  With my long winter robe and my "high top" footies  and a cup of coffee, I was set. No wild life except 2 lonely ducks and no human animals out.  Can't understand that.  It was perfect for walking.  I have been watching the Florida storm.  Whitney and family in Pensacola, and was relived to see it spared them.  What a storm.

I had a routine day yesterday.  Felt good.  I can stand just so much fun and the day before was great.  Well with nothing more to say, I will sign off for today.

Sweetly Be,
Betty Boop

GETTY HERE

Yes Fall is coming.  I promise.  I woke up at 6 and decided to get up and get started early for a change.  I still could not move very fast.  Since this is a day void of extra activities, I decided to go let someone else cook my breakfast.  I carefully avoided company, as that is a little early for chit chat.  Eggs over light were perfect and so was the bacon and rye toast.   Brought coffee up to the Balcony and enjoyed the change in weather.  I prayed for my granddaughter and her family on the Florida coast.  I think they will miss the worst part of the storm that is supposed to hit today. 

Yesterday was nice at the over 90's party.  Jan, Tommy. and Amy came.  We had a delightful program of music and went down memory lane a bit.   We also had champane punch and delightful sweets(I passed up).  I noticed a friend who is also diabetic, just chowing down on her muffin.  How does she get away with it and I can't? I had a bite and it was so good.  Well, here I go to a "do nothing day."

BettyBoop




 

COOL-CLOUDY-CRISH

That describes the Balcony this morning.  Nice !!  Today is a big day.  We 90's and over. are called VIP"s today and treated to a big birthday party, complete with Guy Hovis singing.  Some of my family will be here.  Looking forward to it.  Also this morning,Tommy is coming to join me for the History Club, where we will gather a little ifo on Ben Franklin and then lunch.  My cup is running over today.

Betty Boop  

CROW & MATE ?

Does he have a mate ?  Who  would have such a rude fellow ?  Maybe someone just as rude?  Just me making up stories I guess.  The three wheel bike rode through the quite path, but the silence was broken by Mr. Rude Crow.  My did he fuss.!!!! All of a sudden he was silenced by an equally rude scream.  More female sounding.  (my take on it).  She seemed to be fussing with Mr. Rude.  He shut up fast.  They flew away. peace prevailed.  Now what do you think? Was it a mate? or just an irate onlooker?  Oh well, I will never know, but I can imagine, can't I ?  And the story goes on, I hope. Sunday at Church was good as usual.  Just Amy. MG (Ryan had to work), Sophia and Paul were out of town.  We picked up Mr. Chen's and took it to MG.'s to eat.  So good. They have the best shrimp.  We came back to my place and MG. gave Bitsy her allergy shot.  She did not cooperate fully, but MG. has a way with her and the deed got done.

Betty Boop

SUNDAY

Sunday again.  You know it is a favorite day of week.  Church and family. On the Balcony for a bit.  Must get going. Light  breeze pulled me to stay, but I have things to do and places to go. I am lucky.

Must get to working on  my Angels for Christmas.  My fingers refuse to work with ease.  It is frustrating to want to do something but parts of my body refuse to cooperate. Actually my left thumb is swollen at the joint.  Can't remember hurting it, but I must have tried to open a jar or something that requires pressure and it is just now bothering me.  Things like that happen and show up later.  Oh well something else to nurse!!

Must go and get ready for Church and family.

Betty Boop

HOME SWEET HOME

!I have been watching on my computer A.&B and R&MG and the work on their new homes.  So much of the work is being done "with love" by them.  I keep thinking how much that will always mean to them. They are all so talented  and smart.  I like that they get it done.  I still love my new home.  Not so new anymore., but when I drive in I get a sense of home and am glad to live here.  All the other homes I have lived in are full of old sweet memories and they stay there.  

I always tell Jan, since she was born in October, that there are no skies like the blue skies of October.  This morning they were full of clouds and very blue.  

Betty Boop    

RUNNING LATE

My sleep habits seem to have changed a lot.  I get such a late start, my day seems short.  I still sat on the Balcony.  That is an important space to me. I feel safe and in charge as I survey my place.  A time to get away outside and enjoy the quiet before the day starts.  But if I keep sleeping till 7 my time grows short.  I saw Mr. Rude Crow and heard birds in the background.  Not much else.  I did get a subject for a poem.  Sometime that is all it takes and I start to have words running around in my brain.  They stumble and fall and retreat and finally get in line and It is amazing how sometime they fall in place.  Mr. Rude crow is the subject.  Wish me luck as I try to explain him in a poem. So goes the day.  I will eat lunch with friend Betty.  We call it "fish day" even though we are not Catholic. 

Betty Boop

GETTING SPOILED

I got to eat out two days this week (so far), Good check up with Dr. "Gum. " Healed and good to go.  Jan said, so what do you want to do before lunch.  I said go to the Dollar store.  I shopped the displays up and down.  Came away with maybe 10$ worth  of maybe junk.  No it is useful and needed, and fun. Took a lot of energy and I was pooped.  We ate at McAllister's.  It was very good.  There butternut, Autum (as they called it) soup was very good.  With a small Taco salad    was all right.  I try it at different places.  Wendy's is best to me. 

Well, coffee was good on the Balcony. It gets warm and I must try and make it a little earlier.  I just can't seem to be the early bird I used to be.  I wonder why? 

Betty Boop