"DON'T WORRY,BE HAPPY"

In 1988 everyone was singing this song by Bobby McFerrin.  Don't remember knowing him or if he wrote anything else I would remember.  It was very popular.  It said this:  "In every life we have some trouble, when you worry you make it double.  Don't worry, be Happy."  Wise words but also hard to do.  "It is God's privilege to conceal things".....Proverbs 25:2.  I love Proverbs.  You could really live by them.  We don't know what the future will bring.  But not knowing what it will bring lets us stay in the present and enjoy it.  So a New Year is a good time to review the past and wonder about the future,, but also stay and enjoy the present.    So--"Don't worry-Be Happy." HAPPY NEW YEAR

Betty Boop,

GROCERY DAY

Cold this morning.  Mississippi weather is up and down.  Gives the weather people on TV something to talk about.  I do get amused by them.  I look at all the local channels. at some point during the day.  I have some favorites.  They do a good job I think.  I am off to  Kroger this morning.  There is no putting it off when essentials are needed.  Now wouldn't it be nice if we had one here.  That would be the ultimate.  So human to always want more. 
I am looking out the window and see my resident Egret.  He is frustrated because the Christmas tree made of strings of lights is at the end of the pier--right where he likes to perch!! , is still there. "Dang those humans.  When will they take the lights down?"  Well soon I hope to.  I did not feel up to helping this year.  It is a real job.  Hats off to the resident crew.  Well I am off to the races.  Maybe I will buy a can of black-eye peas for good luck and cabbage for money.

Betty Boop

CHRISTMAS AND BEYOND

Well fellow Bloggers Christmas has come and gone again.  I have seen a few.  Almost 90 now.  This one was again as magical as ever.  It is always new yet old and familiar.  I did not feel physically as good as I wanted to, but I enjoyed seeing almost my whole family together.  Now that is a challenge for all.  After all the preps and execution of plans and stress, comes the core of it all.  Love.  You got to have it to survive.  And we have it.  My, my. how the great grandchildren have grown and it has not been long since I saw some of them last.  It was warm enough to let everybody sit outside in T. & J.s back yard the day after Christmas.  Now nice for all.  Now it is time to settle back into the routine and see what is next.  I know what is next to me.  I have three Doctor appointments in January alone. Dental, Foot. and Annual physical,  and then in  Feb. Eye.  Get it over the first of the year.  O Boy!! I am pretty high maintenance.  Par for the course as "they" say.       Who is "they" anyway?  Also I need to start on my February poems.  That will be easy with Love for the subject.

Betty Boop   P,S,  I just checked out the new (I think) book THE WHOLE TOWN IS TALKING.  Different for her.  About a Missouri small town in the 1800's.  Funny and good.  I seem to have missed the one before this one.  THE ALL-GIRL FILLING STATION'S LAST REUNION.  Sounds interesting.  Will look it up.  Do you like Fannie Flagg's books?

TO THE TOP AND DOWN

This is not to say that I did not enjoy the season.  But there is just so much pleasure I can take all at once.  From the beginning all the way through the "day after" and beyond that, it has been amazing to see most of my family together.  A little like
Beach Week but yet very different in some ways.  The grandkids and greats too have grown and changed.  Some still want hugs, others do and still they have new feelings and stand off a little.  I understand that and respect it.  Jan and Amy and M.G. and Sophie  have really been troupers. They do things with such grace and confidence.  Good men back them up.  I know how that feels to have a willing mate. 

I have some extra laundry to do but that is alright.  Glad to have it to do.  Must get at it.

Betty Boop

LITTLE PAST THE MIDDLE

Christmas Eve at Sophie and Paul's was very special.  I get to be with my side of family.  It was a beautiful affair.  Worthy of SOUTHERN LIVING or even something better.  The house was so pretty and elegant and the food was outstanding.  Some traditional and some new.  But all great.  Paul and Sophie did an outstanding job of host.  Next day was the biggie.  So much good food and Jan and Tommy are old pros at this.  We owe them a lot.  Good job and it is not over as Florida and Memphis folks are yet to come.  I will have to experience it to tell you later. Also Fort Wayne folks are on the way.  Wonderful!!!

Betty Boop

CHRISTMAS EVE GIFT!! gotch ya.

Jack and I used to play that game every Christmas and then to win we started it on Christmas Eve,  I miss him.  Flood of memories come back.  It was 66 degrees on the balcony this morning.  I need to compose my stories of the balcony in a book.  Who would read it?  I really do think having a view of the Lake has saved me many times.  I saw friend Egret this morning.  Sitting on the walk from the pier.  You know the rail is laced with beautiful lights that burn at night.  He was getting close to our building.  I take that as a Christmas greeting, as he looks so regal and composed. and very much unafraid. The birds woke and began to converse.  It is a whole world out there.  Just full of sounds and creatures.  I love to think about that. 

Well let the games begin.  Linda and Joe will arrive this morning.  And we get started on the whoope-d- do that we have planned.  Fried chicken to remember my Mama, and mashed potatoes AND rice.  (for Jack). Then Christmas Day and much more the next day.  We will get to see almost everyone this year.  How can anybody do without family and your traditions.  I listened with interest to my friends at coffee tell some of theirs.  What fun. So let us get started.

Betty Boop

LIGHT

I braved the cool morning and went to my balcony for my second cup.  This weather is crazy up and down.   Somehow I need to start the day by looking outside and up.  I don't feel right till I locate our resident Egret.  It was very foggy and I could not see him, yet I know he is there.  Even the birds seem to be sleeping in.  I thought about light and how important it is.  Yet some live without it.  I got cold and came inside to read my devotional and Bible.  Ironically the subject was Light. "In Your light we see light"  Plalms36:9.  I wont go into the details but I thought it was strange that the subject was one I was thinking about. 

I asked the Lord to give me more strength to resist all these beautiful "sweets" I keep getting from friends.  You all know how that is.  My blood sugar is giving me trouble and it is mostly my fault.  I am going to try to do better. They all mean well and I do appreciate being remembered.  But please give me strength to only taste a little.
Betty Boop

DREARY OUTSIDE

I am glad to be inside today.  I get my hair cut at 12:00 today.  I do need it.  A haircut makes a world of difference.  Hey, a subject for a poem.  I have another thought also.  My where is this coming from.  Just everyday thoughts.  A way to say them and not feel silly.  I am glad for this small talent.  Makes me feel good to put thoughts in writing.  Christmas is coming fast to me.  I am excited that I will get to see almost the whole family this year.  That is harder to do all the time.    I just hope I can stand all the fun and not whimp out as I am prone to do lately.  I will try and pace myself.  So many are having what they call " colds here."  I hope I miss that trouble.

Later,
Betty Boop 

SATURDAY AND SUNDAY

Winter has arrived for Mississippi.  Those north of us will laugh at that.  But believe me it is cold. (for us.)..They say Mississippi weather is unpredictable.  And it is.  We may even have a warm Christmas.  But these last few days have been cold enough for me.  Jan and I got out Saturday and I bought two new sweaters!!  All of mine are 10-15 years old.  Natty and out of style.  Hey I just described myself.  "Natty and old".  But I do try to keep up-to-date, as possible.  Our Church was beautiful Sunday.  I love the lighting of the Advent candle and the songs and all the feelings you only get at Christmas.  Amy has a lot to do with it.  She just loves Broadmeadow.  I do too.  We went yesterday but the weather was not inviting so me split for lunch.  I ate here and sat at a table with a man who had a horrible cold. He proudly said he had been in 4 days sick. Hold your breath for me.  I usually don't get colds, but you never know.  I came home and put on sweat pants and had hot chocolate in a new Christmas cup and read the big Sunday paper.  Good thing to do on a cold windy day.  Missing a fireplace.  Oh well, I made it o.k.

Betty Boop

MY SWEET GIRLS.

If you read Amy's blog you will appreciate this.  Sophie, Amy. and Jan came yesterday and brought forgotten boxes stored in her attic .  They were my Mother's little picture collection that she was so excited to collect on our trips.  All packed up after she died so long ago.  She died around Christmas time and that is a always a sad note to Christmas.  What fun we had as we unwrapped them and remembered so many good times.  Truman will always be a Saint to me for loving my Mother and having her with us on trips.  It must have been trying at time with all those females packed in the car and  at night in one small camper.  But he always wanted his girls to love travel and to see as much as we could of our country,  And we did see much.   Oh my I am in tears.  Tears for times gone by.  Tears of Joy and a little bittersweet too.

Betty Boop

For Villager

RESOLUTIONS

OR

NOT 

 

So another New Year.

What will it bring?

New things may appear,

Or to the old will I cling?

 

Eat healthy-not sweet.

Resolve to loose weight.

Be friendly to all I meet.

And worry less for my fate.

 

All good things to achieve.

I have thought about it a lot.

Sorry, but I just don't believe,

They will happen to "lazy" Dot.

By Dot Ellis



FOGGY MORNING

I found my poem in the Bubble trash can.(maybe it belongs there.)  Here it is

                                  RESOLUTIONS

It is that time of the year.
Look forward--not to the rear.
Resolutions are made -dig deep.
Sometimes hard to keep.

I know one for you to make,
Just waiting for you to take.
In our Library find NEW books.
Why not give it a look?

Dot Ellis  January 2117

I met a friend when I came out of the Cyber for breakfast.  She told me she put up a small tree for the first time in a while and decorated it with all the ornaments I made over the years and gave to her.  I want to see that.  Also met another who praised my gift too.  WOW, what a way to start the day  P.S.  disregard the blog just before this one as it is messed up.

Betty, big head, Boop
Betty Boop does have a rather large head.  Not me

CHOIR

Today we presented our Christmas program.  We did some traditional favorites and some beautiful new ones.  An hour long and I was tired but so pleased with it.  We had a big crowd.  Jan, Tommy, and Amy came.  I am so blessed with their support.  I also wrote my poem for the Library Board.  Those people in charge of it make me feel so appreciated and I am not sure how good my poems are, but I love doing them.     I would write it for you but I seem to have lost my copy.  O well maybe I can find it later. 

Good Night

Betty Boop                

                                     

FEEL LIKE SANTA

As I tripped down the hall, I felt like Ole St. Nick.  I did not have a bag thrown over my back but I did swing a Chilton County peach basket on my arm.  It was filled with many hours of special joy.  I made 50 small grapevine wreathe ornaments for my friends here at SCV.  I have gotten so  many sweet and nice thanks for them.  It took me three trips but I got it done and just hope I did not miss someone who I meant to give one to. 

Something good happened.  At least I hope it will be a good decision.  I asked about replacing my cat Penny.  You know it has been 5 years since she died.  I did not hold out much hope that they would grant me that choice again, since it has been so long.  I lost her within a couple of months when I moved here.  I was lucky to ask a "cat lover" and she was so kind and sweet.  Her Supervisor agreed to let me have another.  The search is on and I am super excited.  I need a cat.  You just can't pet a Beta fish.  Although I speak to him--he just stares at me and waits for food.  I will have to protect him from my future resident cat.  Amy is excited for me and will help me look for the right one.  All I know is I want a female and sweet personality.  We are going to visit the Madison pet shelter soon.  No rush,  Must get it right.

M.G. Ryan and Amy came to lunch--was fun and Ivy & Tripp came for a visit too.  I am blessed.

Betty Boop

FUN MORNING

Jan and Amy picked me up at 10;00 this morning.  Off for an adventure.  First we went to the Old Capitol to see how it looks since it's renovation.  It was beautifully restored after Katrina damaged it.  So much Mississippi history.  It feels strange to look at those people who guided our future.  What would they think of  us now?  I wonder. We decided to just take a tour of downtown Jackson while we were there.  I get to see downtown so seldom and my how it is changing all the time.  The roundabouts on Capitol street were interesting.  The many new buildings and old ones too being turned into apartments and many new offices.  Yet it was still familiar to me.   Some things never change (in your mind.)  We had the most wonderful lunch (my daughters treated me) at Two Sisters.  Located downtown on an off street in an old,old house.  My My was it the best.  Never had such good fried chicken and many home cooked veggies.  The bread pudding with whiskey sauce was to die for.  It was worth dealing with a little sugar spike.  On we went in and out all the streets off Capitol and then out West Capitol and stopped at Cedar Lawn Cemetery where a few of my relative rest.  Along with my mother and dad.  We took a picture of the grave site of Sophia Elizabeth Williams Gorday.  Our Sophie is named for her.  Many Elizabeth's in our family.  Even me.  The west part of Jackson was once a beautiful area with many interesting and lovely homes.  Sad to see them now.  I had a wonderful time.  My two daughters gave me a lot to think about and to enjoy.  I really liked our unexpected adventure.

Betty Boop
 

MY KIND OF DAY

Dark and dreary.  Brings out my dark side.  I love to go there from time to time. 
do you?  Maybe you call it your alone time.  Sounds better.  I think we all need that.  I just had breakfast in the Cyber.  Not another soul but me.  I guess others are sleeping in.  As I finished and left the halls were coming awake.  So strange, this place.  I have found my place.  I have started to delivering my little Christmas 'happies."  I hate to see them go, they are so beautiful all in a bunch on the bed.  One alone looks kind of small.  I hope they wont look that way to others.  You know I made 50 of them. So I organized them by apartment number and the floor they go on.  In others words, I made a list and am checking it twice--three times.  Don't mess up Dot.  That is my style I guess.  Good day to do this because I don't believe I will leave the building today.  Well--get to it.  I will put FIND IT IN FONDREN magazine in the Bubbles at the same time.  See I do have a day job.

Betty Boop

RAIN

I almost don't know what that wet stuff is.  Haven't seen much lately.  I do love a dark, rainy day.  It is the dark side of me I guess.  Had lunch after Church with Amy, M. G. and Ryan.  We ate at my favorite place.  Mr. Chin"s.  The shrimp was the best I have ever had there.  I think the cook today was a little American because the seasoning was excellent.  I drank the whole pot-o-tea!!  So good on a rainy day. 

This year I can't seem to get into the buying of gifts mood.  Don't know what to buy and I have a hard time shopping very long without just running out of energy.  Sign of my time of life I guess.  It is hard to give up some things.  I used to shop for hours and not get this tired.  O well, I am trying.

Betty Boop

PARTY !!

Don't tell me that you need alcohol to have fun.  The Shirley Temple bloody Mary's and egg nog did it for us.  The party for all of us was a big success.  Music by Madison Central group (thought about Bryan), and great food.  It was a full house.  I went with friend Betty.  We both agreed to stay 15 minutes and ended up staying the whole time,(one hour).  Laugh of you want to, but you can pack a lot of fun in an hour when you get old.  Nobody seemed old and it was a special treat to see Sister Dorothea dance.  That lady can dance and have fun.  Another nun did the same, can't remember her name.  I saw a man dance (and I don't mean just shuffle around) with his girl friend and he has had two knee replacements and walks very slow coming from the pool.  But they both had the "swing last night.  It was such a happy sight.  Wish I could have danced too.  I was just pooped out just watching.  It was a good and happy time.  I am glad I stayed till it was over.  Most did.  Bless Betty, she is going through a ruff time having just lost her daughter and her best friend out here.  Maybe I can be a better friend to her now,

Betty Boop

LOT GOING ON

I used to be exhausted by the end of the season from so many parties and events and all the planning and buying.  I am out of that now--somewhat.  It is all different now and after all I am almost 90 and run low on energy.  But this is where I am now.  We have many activities here and are  mine if I chose.  A party today will be a big event.  For all independent living and Marion Hall, Big Top of Dom next week,, a wonderful event the Sisters host at top floor of the St. Dominic's.  Endless music programs, open house of residents, And of course the Choir has our program.  Every one joins in with decorating their doors and the outside décor is fantastic.  I could go on and on and still could not tell it all.  How wonderful to live here--I am so blessed that I feel guilty to  have so much.  Thank you Lord and thank you Truman for providing me with such insight and love.

Betty Boop

MOVING RIGHT ALONG.

I had an unexpected burst of energy Saturday and pulled out all my Christmas decorations.  I can't believe that I still have a lot.  Much of it has gone along the way to others I know and some I don't by way of Goodwill or some other (trash.)  I worked till I was so tired.  I like my tablescape at my hall entrance.  I was so glad to see my little clothes pin dolls dressed as carolers.  With much of Amy's loan, I created something to make you smile. (I hope).  My tier table at my front door holds my Angel collection.  So like me.  Childish and hodge podge.  Like I say--ME.  I saved the tree in my apartment till Sunday afternoon.  It looks the same.  Artificial and small.  Different from days gone by.  I always wanted a real one then 

Church was beautifully decorated.  I was so proud of Amy.  Although she gives credit to all who helped, I know her style and it showed.  I was pleased when the preacher gave her a shout-out from the pulpit.  She should good about it and all the other talents that she has and uses in Church.      Had lunch with the Lunch Bunch.  The gyro was the best I ever had.  I have much more to tell, but who has time to read all this stuff?

Betty Boop

GREAT THANKSGIVING DAY

The food was great, the weather was perfect and the people were the best.  M.G, and Ryan know how to host any kind of gathering,  They work together so well and their new addition in the form of a huge screened porch was the perfect setting for the day.  I know they are going to enjoy it for many such times as well for their on private times We had a few sweet dogs to join the festivities and so well behaved they were,  Candy and Lucy always add a lot also.  All in all--it was a wonderful day and I have so much to be thankful for with such a wonderful family. I like to think Truman was looking down on us and happy to see us all at one long table.  He did love that.!!!

Betty Boop

O GIVE THANKS

O give thanks for the many, many blessings we receive each day.  The old hymn COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS comes to mind today.  Count your blessings, name them one by one,  Count your blessings see what God has done.  I used to love singing that in Church growing up.  By the way just growing up in church was a blessing.  My very social life was spent there and along the way I was getting a religious education and did not even know it.  Thanks to my mother and daddy and many others who guided me.  There is so much to be thankful for.  First for family who love me, a safe place to live, all my needs met, friends, knowing God loves me in spite of myself, and the list goes on and on.  Most of all, "maybe not of all",but very important, I am thankful for memories and the fact that I can still remember them.

HAPPY THANKSGIVING  be thankful.

Betty Boop

LOT OF CELEBRATIONS

Sunday after Church we had our annual Thanksgiving dinner.  It has changed a lot over the years and I wont go there because it stirs up too many memories.  The food was as usual great.  I was proud of Amy for making cornbread dressing," like her mama's" she told people.  I am having dinner here at St. Catherine's on Thanksgiving Day.  We are having our family dinner on Friday to let some go to the other side of their family for the day.  Makes it great for everyone.  We will go to M. G. and Ryan's house on Friday.  So I may get a lot of dressing and turkey.  The dressing is what I look forward to.

I have to go to an annual Budget Review this morning.  We all dread that because that is when we see if our rent goes up for the next year.  It always does, just hope not a lot.   I had breakfast of sausage, toast (whole wheat), egg over light, and coffee in the Cyber Café this morning.  First customer of the day at 7:30.  I like it that way.  So I met my editor of the Villager as I was leaving--she liked my LITTLE DRUMMER BOY POEM and said it was being published as we spoke.  Yeh!! I am published again.  Unbelievable as it sounds, I know it is a small paper with a limited readership, but I am proud to see my name in print.  I guess I have written hundreds of poems but I still get pleasure from writing.

Betty Boop

COOL & CRISP

Sounds like a summer lunch?  Could be, but it is Summer no more.  Even looks like we skipped Fall and headed straight into Winter.  They predict 30's for tonight but even that wont hold long.  Maybe we will get a Fall season after all.  Yesterday the Closet Sale was a little disappointing . After all it had only been two months since the last one, and it was big.  I think they are trying to boost our Christmas Fund for our employees.  I am out of that as of this year.  I did it for 3 years, which is the limit and also I do not do the decorating committee  anymore.  I told someone this morning I was getting out of a lot.  She said I was still getting one of the most important things done.  Writing poetry for Library and Villager.  I can sit in the chair and do that.  and I do enjoy it.  And don't forget the Choir.  One of my joys.  So I am still active.  Thank you Lord. every day for blessings.

Betty Boop

CREATURE OF HABIT

I seem to be joining the OLD FOLKS CLUB.  You have heard of us.  Go to bed by 10:30 wake up three to four times a night and then wake before 6:00.  Right on time.  It has allowed me to take that second cup of coffee to the balcony.  Before 7:00 the world is just waking.  It was a little cool there this morning, 67 degrees but I had on enough clothes to take it.  I realized there are 11 pine trees in my pine thicket (as Truman's mother called a thick stand of trees).  Who plants 11 trees? together?  Surely there must have been 12 at first. You know me, I like for things to balance and rhyme.  Anyway, it is the home to many birds.  I heard them wake as it got  light and they drifted out in twos and threes, off to hunt for food I guess.

Highlight of day. Amy came and brought pansy plants.  Till now it has been too warm for them.  She planted them for me and I am happy for that.  One bunch were the tiny ones and we planted them under the hibiscus tree where the farriers sit on the little miniature chairs and table that she brought me for Mother's Day I think.  Yes the farriers do have tea there from time to time,  (If you believe in them.)  I do.

Big closet sale today here,  I must hurry before the good "stuff" gets grabbed up.  Oh how I need some more stuff.

Betty Boop

New Poem

Well I did finish my poem for the Villager.  Want to read it?

 

 

THE LITTLE DRUMMER BOY

 

As I sing with our Choir, The Little Drummer Boy.

It  fills my heart with joy.

My imagination takes me away,

To that long ago day.

 

As he clutches his drum to his chest,

He promises to play his best.

With blonde hair and sweet cherub face,

Down the cobble-stone streets he would race.

 

He gave the only thing he had

I think it made him very glad,

To happily play his drum.

At last the Christ Child has come.

 

Pa-Rum-Pum-Pum-Pum

 

Dot Ellis

DAY OF REST

Oh you thought a day of rest was meant for Sundays?  I am sorry to say that that means little to a lot of people.  That is another discussion.  I mean today I have nothing on tap and I need a day of rest with nothing pushing me.  Except that pesky poem for the December Villager.  I have already done one for the Library board.  I have one verse written although I am not really pleased with it, I know what I want to say--just can't put it into verse.  Maybe it will turn into an essay. Sometime my solution.

I woke at the usual time.  It was so pleasant on the balcony as I had a second cup of coffee there.  It was so quiet and just cool enough to enjoy.  The birds began to converse and a family of ducks floated silently on the lake.  Mr. Egret was looking for breakfast, and a lone figure came walking around the lake.  I watched as she came closer and I saw it was Barbara my maid.  Our help is welcomed to walk any time.  But here she was before she started her day of work walking.  Good for her.    More later.

Betty Boop

LOOSE ENDS

Tommy came for History Club  and lunch.  My peers are jealous.  We did not learn much about the siege of Jackson since it has been over rated  in the way history recorded it. It was burned alright but not every single thing like I thought.  Enough to surrender and George made it interesting anyway.  Lunch and a finance meeting on my stocks.  Oh me, I do stew too much and am a worry wart. but Tommy  reassures me of my status and tells me not to worry.  Now I am at loose ends as what to do since the highlight of the day is passed.  Maybe I will read a book.  I have a few that are calling me.  I just can't seem to put my mind to it.  Oh well it has been a good day and I am once reminded how blessed I am.

Betty Boop

FOUND IT

Another miracle , Barbara my maid, found the Indian made bracelet that I lost last week.  She found it in the only place I did not look.  The balcony.  I was so surprised and thanks her so much.  She has found things I have lost before.  Better eyes than mine.  I was happy because Jan brought it to me from her trip to the Grand Canyon.

Another treat___ lunch with M. G. and Ryan .  They showed pictures of their trip .  It was so pretty and they had a wonderful time.  Good Sunday at Church too.   Hey guess what, I got me a new flannel shirt.  I am in style for sure.

Well here I go to start a new week, busy today with plenty to do.  Lucky me.

Betty Boop

SATISFYING SATURDAY

Saturday arrived crisp and cool.  Just right for shopping.  Jan came and we headed for the big shoe store DSW (designer shoe warehouse.)  And it is huge.  I bought my last sneakers there.  They have lines and lines of that kind alone.  I walked the isles and picked a few.  Jan sat me down and fetched different sizes and colors.  Without her I would have given up. Finally after trying on quiet a few pair, we settled on of all brands--Dr. Scholl's".Along with other history on the lid of the box it read-"-Our shoes have advanced technology and innovation, with uncomplicated playful style," ALRIGHT!!  So now I have an uncomplicated playful style.  Come to  think of it, I already have that  style.  I now have new gowns and a drawer full of new socks,  I am rich.We tried to eat lunch in the area but gave up.  That place was really humming.  We decided to come back up north to the tried and true Traceway Grill.  Always a winner.  Part of the shopping was done after lunch and by then I had used up all my energy.  Home to nap but satisfied.  Bless Jan and everyone else who have daughters like I do. 

Betty Boop

TODAYS WORRIES

Between our Nation, stock market uneasy, health issues, I find myself finding something to worry about all the time.  Then I run to God in prayer begging for solutions and answers and help.  Which I should-- but this morning I had a thought.  All I  really need is God's strength and presence. 

Jan is coming and we are going to buy me some new shoes.  The only kind I am comfortable with is sneakers and so I need at least two pair.  We will have fun and I know she will make me feel better.  Always does,  Just to know I have her on my side is worth a lot.

Betty Boop      P.S.  I made a mistake in spelling in my poem yesterday.  Did you notice.?  The copy I sent to the editor was correct I think. 

HAMBURGER DELIGHT

Last evening the Origin Bank provided a wonderful hamburger dinner for all independent residents for free!!  They do this each year to promote good business. 





























Last evening the Origin Bank provided a hamburger supper for all independent residents.  I think everyone came.  What a crowd.  They do this every year to promote good business, and they do it each year.  I think the name of the Bank has changed and I can't remember what they were before Origin.  The Broken Egg restaurant catered it and they can cook something besides eggs.  It was so very good.  Hamburgers as big as a plate with all the fixings, baked beans, potato salad, soft drinks, and chocolate brownies.  I ate the meat (no buns) and beans and no dessert.  Proud of me?  They also gave great draw gifts.  I was not lucky this time.  WE DO LOVE FREE.

Betty Boop










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MUNDANE THINGS

Not much of interest to say today.  Unless you find doing laundry or baking pumpkin bread for coffee group of interest.  I did  -write a poem that has been running around in my head.  It did not take the turn I thought it was going to.  But maybe this will do for the library board.  Now one for the Villager, and for that I do not know.  I have a title and I will go from there.  Here is one I wrote today for the library.

 

JINGLE or JANGLE ?

 

Are your nerves in a Jingle,

As with crowds you mingle?

Or are they in a Jangle,

With decisions you wrangle?

 

Why all the stress?

Humane nature I guess.

Find yourself a cozy nook,

And from our Library a romantic book.

 

Dot Ellis, December

 

What do you think?

Betty Boop

WHAT NEXT?

You never know what is next "out here."  I  had lunch with three I have not had lunch with before.  Helen, Dee, & Frankie (girl.)  They were all cute as buttons.  Found out Dee was a native Jacksonian like me.  Different part of town, but Jackson just the same.  Well the conversation was lively and interesting but when they served our meal, she and I both had pork chops.  I remarked I hoped it was tender.  She said it did not matter because she had something to remedy that--as she pulled from her purse her handy little knife!!  She said she carried it in her purse all the time.  And Frankie remarked "does it come in handy on the elevator?"  What does that mean?  You decide.  Anyway it was fun.  And by the way, the pork was tender (thank goodness.)

Betty Boop

LOST ????? OR NOT

I have searched and searched but all in vane.  The washer, dryer, floor in laundry room, hall to and fro.  My apartment floors, inside my clothes I wore yesterday, and many  more places.(I did laundry wearing it, foolish)  I wont give up because I am sad to loose it.  What?  A beautiful little American Indian beaded bracelet Jan brought back to me from the Grand Canyon.  Jan and I both said it was a little loose on my skinny wrist and maybe John K. could shorten it.  But I could not wait to wear it.  I searched my exercise bag, and floor in the room.  I even looked on the board for lost and found.  I will not give up because from experience I have found small things like ear rings and tiny objects long after they were lost.  Wish me luck.  I do not wont to loose it.  It was pretty and she thought of me. 

Betty Boop

LUCKY DAY

Yes it is always a lucky day when I get to spend time with one of my "chicks."  Jan back from travels came to "do my do".  We went to Stien-Mart , who was having a sale.  Boy do I like a sale.  And I proved it again by bringing home a stash.  Some I will take back, but most are keepers.  I really paid for it with overdoing and getting too hungry.  Nothing like a major blood sugar drop.  I felt weak and faint but revived with few almonds and went on to Dollar Tree, but I still needed food.  We came back to St Catherine's and had lunch.  I heard about her trip and was taken back in my mind of when we went there long ago.  It is still beautiful and awesome .  Set the clocks back and I have a few.  Did nothing to make my night better.  My, how I dream and wander around and get up tired.  Comes with the territory I guess.  Well off to Church . It is All Saints Day.  Could be sad.  Or maybe proud.

Betty Boop (Thanks to Peggy for remembering I like Betty Boop)

NOT A LOT TO TELL

Not a lot going on that I have done.  Not that a lot hasn't been going on --  I just have not done it.  I did make a pot of split pea and ham soup yesterday.  Not everyone likes this kind of soup.  I do and the kitchen here makes it too thin for me.  So I have little serving size bags of it, made my way in the freezer.  I guess the cooler weather has prompted me to make soup.

Up at 6:00 A. M. I saw the beautiful sky of blue and pink.  Colors that man can not make.  I watched as a sky writer made beautiful sweeps in the sky.  He (or she) must have gotten up early too.  What a treat to see such beauty.  I wonder what the time change tonight will do to me?  I don't sleep well anyway and I dream a lot, but can't remember what I dream.  Crazy me.    I hope Jan gets to come today.  She is just back from a trip to the Grand Canyon.  We took the girls when they were young there.  I just wonder if all the trips we so carefully planned and took them to so many places are remembered?  We tried.

Boop Boop

Busy Monday--slower Tuesday

I need to trim my Mondays, but how.  The things I like most happen on Monday.  Exercise (I really like my friends there) Lunch with friends, My best is Choir practice.  We are preparing for Christmas.  Some beautiful songs you may not have heard.  Then there is Methodist service and it was good with bell ringers from Parkway.  And Dancing With The Stars.  All in all it is a lot for me.  Fun but I was tired.  I had every intentions of going to Kroger this morning but____I over slept ( must have needed it) and a late start can throw me off.  I got involved in taking down Halloween and putting up Thanksgiving decorations at my front door and then the hall table I maintain.  Before I knew it-- it  was just too late to go.   Maybe tomorrow, for it is another day.  But what to do with the rest of this day?  Nap!!  Then something will come to mind I am sure..

Betty Boop

SUNDAY

I woke up early and had breakfast then second cup of coffee on the balcony.  I watched it get light and pretended I was still on the Beach.  No pretty sunrise this morning.  Church was good and lunch with Amy, Sophie and Paul afterwards.  People are scattered.  M.G. and R. out of the country, Jan at the Grand Canyon and we are back from Alabama.  We are really traveling.  I am going to work at my list of things to do.  Read Sunday paper.  Big thing for me because I love the Sunday paper.  I brought flowers from Church and plan to take some to a friend here.   Then write my bills for the month.  I am going to get out my Thanksgiving and November decorations.  Fun!! I hope you like to read my "doings" each day.  They seem tame beside all my readers' list.  But life is what it is and I guess all the things you all do are behind me and I am as the old lady said who fell off the wagon and watched it roll away--"Well, I am out of  that now." Laugh for the day.

Betty Boop

ABOUT THE BEACH

I am still on the beach.  Here are three short poems that came to me actually the first day we were there.  After that  my mind went into lazy mode and no more poems came to mind.  Here are a few thoughts.

REMEMBERING  (the sisters)

 

As the sun warms the beach,

Water, sand, as far as eyes can reach,

As they stroll on their walk,

They talk.

 

Red-haired, Brunette, & Blonde.

They have a special bond,

Of sharing memories-long forgot-

Or not. 

 

MEMORIES  

 

The sun brings diamonds on the sea.

Bringing memories back to me.

The water is very calm'

To my soul brings a certain balm.

(about me of course)

 

THREE GENERATIONS (written after Whitney joined us for a day.)

 

Around the table they all sit.

How rare can this get?

Eager to enjoy each other.

Daughters, sisters, and grandmother.

 

Each telling their own stories.

Weather of fame, fortune, or glories.

So much happens when you are apart.

Sharing love from the heart.

 

It is right and good to live your own lives,

But sooner or later the time arrives,

When you really want to share.

With some families this is rare.

 

I am glad we had this time together and hope to do it some more.

 

Betty Boop

AND WE'RE BACK

What an unusual experience--Mom and daughters only.  We ate, slept, talked and not talked as we pleased.  Wonderful food (really got to get back on track).  Never heard my daughters talk so much.  I did not read my books as I planned.  Can do that anytime, but was rare to listen and not make any suggestions to solutions, but just listen.  Not that I have ever been one to "butt in"  too much but just to talk and discover some opinions and thoughts was in a way cleansing and important.  Of course we laughed a lot and enjoyed it.  I did not get on the beach but they did.  The condo was nice and right on the beach.  Beautiful sunrise and sunsets and beautiful clouds and blue sky in between.  I was pampered and did not feel too guilty.  All in all it was a wonderful get-a-way.   I wrote three poems and was inspired by my surroundings.  I will type them later.  Oh yes, the highlight was Whitney coming and spending a day and having lunch and dinner with us.  Three generations.  How rare and great. Thanks again to Jan for providing this blessing of the condo.  And thanks to Linda and Amy.  What wonderful daughters I am blessed with.  Thank you Lord.



Betty Boop

LAST MINUTE STUFF

My Lord, you would think I am going on a world tour the way I am feeling about a few days at the beach.  I guess I am ready to get away.  You know as great as this place is--there is a big world out there.  I am even going to forget the big election.  It has bothered me a lot this year.  I do  hope I can keep up with DANCING WITH THE STARS on Monday.  That is one of my passions.    How wonderful this temperature is this morning. 42 degrees.  I may have to adjust my packed bags.  Hard to know just what I need.  I usually miss the mark, but surely it wont matter too much.  I have a couple of good historical, romances to read.  Did you even know romance could be historical?   Oh yes.  The early settlers as well as now.  Oh well, very light reading and entertaining as well.    I go on and on and I really need to get up and get it together.  Linda will be here this afternoon and I want to have these things off my mind.  May not write till I come home.

Betty Boop

AND AWAY WE GO

I did not think I was going to have a " get-away"  this year.  Well we did have a camping trip in the Spring, but had to cancel the Fall one  and the Big Beach week,  Here I am stuffing all I can get into one bag and a few "sacks" to go to Orange Beach.  And with only my three daughters.  Now that is a first.  I have always said I wanted to go to the beach in the winter.  Maybe for Christmas or Thanksgiving.  Sounds like it would be fun.  But this trip will be more than fun.  To be with my daughters only will be special.  I am worse than a baby to take any place anymore.  So much baggage that I require just to exist.            It has turned cooler and more like Fall.  I am sure the beach and crowds will be different.  No  Chilton County peaches or that wonderful Silver King corn, but plenty of seafood will make up for it.  I am blessed and super excited.

Betty Boop

EARLY

I woke at 6:00 a.m. and decided to just get up.  It takes me longer to do anything now, so I need the extra time.  By 6:45 I was sitting on my balcony with my second cup-o-jo.  I do make coffee some time.  My oatmeal with blueberries and banana was so good.  I observed our resident Egret skimming across the lake, looking for the best spot to find breakfast.  He is so beautiful and King of the Lake. 

This is a wonderful place to start the day.  My day is fresh and clean before I get into it. I decided to make a list when I began to think about our Beach get away.  It always helps me to calm down and get ready.  I am so needy and have to take a lot of baggage, so I must not forget anything.        Well get to it Old Girl, there is plenty to do.

Betty Boop

ANGELS

Do you believe in Angels?
 I most certainly do.  I meet them every day and night too.  In Exodus 23:20, "See, I am sending an angel ahead of you to guard you along the way and to bring you to the place I have prepared."  I choose to believe that that verse is meant for me. An angel crosses my path every day.  I make it a practice to say to someone who does something for me "You are my angel for today, thank you."  The responses are priceless.  I met one yesterday in Wal-Mart.  I could not reach detergent that was on the top shelf(surprise.)  I waited till a young woman taller than me(most are) came along and asked her if she would reach my detergent for me.  I told her she was my angel for today.  She laughed and said, "I am far from that."  I still think she was mine for the day.  Jan is one.  She spent the most of the day with me doing countless task that I need help with.     As it says in Psalms 91:11---" God will put angels in charge of you to protect you wherever you go."  Now some of my blog today come from my devotional for today--but most is from me. 

End of sermon.
Betty Boop

TEA & CRUMPETS

Tea and Crumpets was so much fun yesterday. The table where I sat had a beautiful tablescape Diana, our assistant activities director (new and young and beautiful) did the one I sat at.  I don't know where these people keep all the pretty stuff that was used.  Lot of talent.  Do you know what a crumpet is? My dictionary says it is a small unsweet batter cake, baked on a griddle, usually toasted before served.  Now you know-- but our kitchen does not.  There was a little square of blueberry crumb cake, too sweet. a plain sugar cookie still too sweet, two kinds of cheese and whole wheat crackers on the plate.  Go figure.  It was good and free, but not much like I expected.  I can't tell you what the drink was because it too was not tea and  still too sweet.  Oh well, we had pretty piano music and a lady to demonstrate how to tie scarves.  She was good, but I still can't do it.  I think everyone was there. dressed up and enjoying a "girlie" thing.  Today, we had a Christmas in October sale.  Nice and lovely things made by residents.  We have so much talent here.  I could have sold my little Christmas wreaths, but what would I then give my friends for Christmas?--- Lunch was good with three others that I know but do not usually eat with.  It was good to hear some new stories. Sitting next to us was Father Frank, retired priest who lives here.  He had three good looking young Irish priest as guest.  We loved hearing them talk.  They were enjoying themselves and Father Frank was in rare form.----today   I meant to go to the grocery store today But I ran out of energy.  Maybe another day.

Betty Boop

Betty Boop

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DINNERS, DOCTORS, AND DAUGHTERS

The last two days have been full.  Tommy at the History club and lunch after was good.  Went to eye Dr. and lunch with Jan.  Amy went to the foot Dr. with me today and we met Jan for lunch at the Trace Grill.  One of our favorites.  Good news-there is going to be a beach few days after all.  This time it is for OLD Girl and her Chicks.  Linda, Jan and Amy.  We are working out the details right now,  I am super excited. 
Tomorrow we are having an affair here that should be so nice.  TEA AND CRUMPETS.  The tables will be decorated by different ladies here.  Tablescapes they call  them.  We did one at the Church a few years ago,  I did a table with a Maypole surrounded by cute little clothespin dolls.  All dressed so pretty,  My that was fun.  I will enjoy others for this one.  I just don't have the " stuff" to do it with anymore.  This should be fun. 

Betty Boop

BUSY WRITING

This first one is for the VILLAGER.        

SMILES

I must write a poem for you,
Sometimes not easy to do.
The subject of SMILES comes to me.
Write quick-or the thought will flee.

Smiles can brighten your day.
As you go along your way.
Weather you give or receive one,
I think it's lots of fun.

Then one for the Library Board. 

GIVE THANKS

It is that time of year.
Thanksgiving Day is near.
Be thankful every day.
For blessings that come our way.
   
Not only for turkey and pie,
As we push from table and sigh,
But for friends, family and love.
Remember blessings come from above.

Dot Ellis 
Just thought you would like to see what I am doing. Every time I write a couple each month, I think I can't write any more, but I am urged and flattered till I do it all over again.  Well it keeps my mind busy and eyes open for subjects.  That is a good thing--I think.

Betty Boop

EARLY START

Well not really.  I slept till 7 A, M.  New to me.  I guess I needed it.  I managed to get to the Cyber by 8 for breakfast.  I like to go early because I would just as soon eat alone as with people that early.  I like people but not that early for conversation.  Truman and I used to go about our breakfast preps (yes he helped me fix breakfast) in silence and even ate without many words.  Just the way most people do I think.  Anyway that's what I did this morning.  Back up to shampoo, and wash clothes and other sunder things.  Jan was busy this morning so she did not come till afternoon.  We did a few thing and I was glad to see her.  She and Amy are so good to come often.  Now I am warming up some of my veg. soup that I put in the freezer a while ago.  Good to have good resources to depend on.  I also cooked some Honey Crisp apples.  Have you tried them?  They are so sweet and good.  Raw or cooked with a little cinnamon. 

Betty Boop

UP WITH THE SUN

The sky was beautiful as the sun rose this morning.  I sat on my balcony (66 degrees) and had my breakfast tea.  What an experience to see it from the balcony.  Good way to start and ask for a good day.  Been dealing with Blood Sugar issues the last few days.  Don't understand how I try so hard to manage it and still have trouble.  Maybe I am trying too hard.  SUNRISE, the betta, is settled and in his new home.  Amy set it up yesterday and I am pleased to have company again.  Even though I can't touch him, I can talk to him and I don't feel like an idiot talking out loud to myself.  Yes I do that sometime. 

Well time is racing and I must get to my day.  Made pumpkin bread for coffee group, then we will exercise it off.  I may pass eating it  today and try to be "good."

Betty Boop

SUNRISE

The title of this blog is Sunrise.  Bet you think of me watching the sun rise?  Well I did do that but that is not why the title.  I have been thinking about a name for my beautiful red Betta fish.  I thought of Flash Gordon, Little Bit, Buddy, Dexter, , and more, but this morning as I opened the drapes and looked out at the sun just starting to rise-I thought of Sunrise for his name.  So be it.  He is the first thing I tend to after looking at the sunrise, so it is appropriate .  Don't you think so?  He is still in the container I brought him home in because I am not sure how to set this tank up.  It requires a college degree.  Help!!!!.  So Sunrise the fish may have to wait out a few sunrises before I get him to his new home.  Meanwhile, he knows no different from when he sat in the shelf at Petco.

Betty Boop

WEDNESDAY

The day started early.  I woke up at 6:00 AM.  Got up because I had a full day ahead.  Did not skip Exercise class but ducked out early to get ready for appointment with eye Dr.  Jan arrived to take me.  I got to ride in her new van,  I kept telling her how I loved the new car smell.  It is very nice.  We were surprised when they took us in on time.  So many times we wait a while.  But I got a very good report.  Dr. Ford said it was good considering all I had been through over the years.  Been a long time to take care and I am so grateful for my eyesight.  We went to Piccadilly (sp).   Oh my it was delish!!!!.  Nobody cooks boiled okra like they do.  We had a veg. plate.  We need to get these cooks to teach our Yankee chef how to cook veggies.  We than went to Petco to buy a new Betta fish since I lost Blueberry.  I got a new bowl and new everything.  He is red and pretty.  Now what to name him?  Strawberry? or some other red berry?  No I don't think so.  I am waiting for Jan to help me put it all together.  I was just to wiped out to deal with it.  Took a nap.  I must face it==can't do as much as I used to.  Wonder why? Thanks to my sweet and patient daughter, Jan.

Betty Boop

Betty

NOTHING MUCH (just normal)

One of those days when things seem to rock along with not much of help from me.  Maybe they all rock along without my help, just sometime I seem so involved and think I am important--and I'm not at all.  When my blood sugar starts out normal and I have soft boiled egg, sausage patty, half of English muffin V8  juice and coffee, I consider that normal.  Then something else normal as shampoo and change sheets and do  my personal laundry, plus get a flu shot(here). Have a good lunch with friends, nap, read and get set for DANCING WITH THE STARS . well all pretty normal and routine and I will take it. So went my day.

Betty Boop

SUNDAY

What wonderful weather.  Amy. Sophia,  Paul and I had lunch on the patio of Sol-Shine (sp).  It was beautiful.  We enjoyed it so much.  Went to Church first.  Went to put Fall flowers for Truman, home and nap.  I read Sunday paper, it is a big one.  Then paid my bills and then filled my pill box for the week.  Now don't tell me I have nothing to do.

Betty Boop

SHARE A POEM (not mine)

You know I love poems.  I have even made a stab at writing a few.  A way to express my feelings.  Here are two, one I do not know the author and the second I do,  The second is an answer to the first.  Made clear or cloudy?  Anyway, enjoy.

 

We squander health in search of wealth,

We scheme and toil and save.

then squander wealth in search of health

and all we get is a grave.

We live and boast of what we own,

We die and only get a stone.

 

 

Answer

 

 

 

 

Life's about morning walks and lengthy talks.

Smelling flowers, enjoying showers.

For writing books, exploring nooks.

I'll squander not my health for wealth.

For when I die, I'll call your bluff,

I'll leave thoughts, instead of stuff.

 

I wish I could say I wrote the answer, but I did not, but I believe it says a lot to think about.

 

BETTY (dreaming) BOOP

 



 



BIRTHDAY BASH

Well just a little bash.  Jan is having her 65th on Sunday.  I took Jan and Amy to lunch to celebrate.  We went to Amerogo"s ,  And it was so good.  They are so nice to you there and the food is wonderful.  We ended with Tiramisu with a lighted birthday candle on top and three spoons and a couple of bites was plenty.  Now Jan is the proud owner of a Medi-care card.!!!!  There are other benefits from being a senior.  Ups!!.  Senior does not sound nice unless it is your Mother you are talking about.  O well age is just a number and she still seems young to me.  I remember the first time I saw her.  Most mothers claim that fact and it is true.  Beautiful and lots of dark hair.  She was precious to me.  Still is.  We are friends as well as Mother and daughter.  Not everyone can claim that, but I do. 

Betty Boop

THINKING THURSDAY

What the heck does "thinking Thursday" mean?  Just trying to fine something to start with a "T".  Always thinking silly.  Well as it happens, nothing of value is happening.  I made arrangements for Amy and me to have birthday lunch with Jan.  We do this almost every birthday for Jan.  Truman used to join us.  I always thought that was sweet because he asked to join us.  What a Dad, Jan?  I know I remember the best part of life, and there is more to life than the best part, but I think I am lucky to remember more good than not so good. 

I delivered two birthday cards to friends this morning.  We really covet birthdays now.  I love to make people feel special on their birthdays.  I always top the card with a tissue flower made by me.  Just a small touch to say I care.     Well I will start a new Amish book today.   I do love them and we have several writers' books in the library and I love to read them between more serious books. 

Betty Boop

LITTLE TOUCH OF FALL

Yes, I would say that a low in the 60's and high in 80's is a little hint of Fall.  I know it will get better but we have had such hot humid days for so long that most any change would be good.  I went to Kroger this morning and it was great.  The heat has taken a real toll on me this summer,  and I am glad to have a break.  I haven't been driving much lately and I felt good doing it this morning.  I spent a long time in the grocery store just looking.  Do my daughters remember "looking days"?  Days when money was tight and we could not buy everything your hearts desired.  So some days we just looked.  That can be fun too.  Well things are a little slow around here, so I don't have much to write about.  Maybe later.  I know some events are coming up.  One today at 2:oo called Roaring 90's party.  For those who have reached the ripe old age of 90,  I get to go next year as I will be 90 in January.  Whoopee!!

Betty Boop

SORT OF SAD SATURDAY

Missed Jan, but am happy she is having fun with her family.  I found stuff to do without her.  I opened the Cyber Saturday morning.  First customer and had a quiet breakfast before more came.  Shampoo and a little reading.  I then finished my little wreaths for happies.  They look so pretty all lined up on the bed in the "office."  I made the tags and will attach them with these tiny, tiny clothes pins.  So cute.  44. I hope I haven't missed anyone.  Some friends are no longer with us and I have a few less this year.  Speaking of friends, I walked down the hall to pick up mail and supper, and I greeted and spoke to everyone.  Now I really do know a lot of new friends.  Am I lucky?  Yes!!  I think that is one thing I like about living here--everyone is friendly and seem like friends.  I listened to my friend, Garrison Keillor on the radio. (remember radio?)  Reruns, but still good. Radio was the way I listened to music growing up.  I knew all the songs and still can remember most of the words to those real songs.------         I watched TV and read new books and then to bed.  How about that for a day?  I'll take it.

Betty Boop

THIS-THAT-and the OTHER

That covers it all.  I went to Michel's this morning and bought a few more little wreathes that I am decorating for "happies" for my SCV friends for Christmas.  I have made 37 and bought 6 more.  I hope it will be enough.  I like them.  Turned out pretty.  Amy dropped by to say hello for a few minutes.  She so busy with work and Ivy's wedding plans.  Happy but can't catch up.  At least she likes what she does and is so good at it.

Fall is sort of in the air.  Promise of cooler weather this weekend.  I'll take 88 degrees over the hot 90s we have had this summer.  I am getting tired of these old summer clothes.  They look tired.  Funny how the change of season can affect the way our clothes look.  Even though I will unpack and wear much of last years duds, they look new.              I am making spaghetti with some left over beef from the freezer for my dinner.  I sometime want my own cooking.  Some people here say they never want to cook again.  Not me.  I always liked to cook and now what I do is on a smaller scale and different, but I do it from time to time.  Although I have to say that to sit down and order food and be waited on, not to mention not having to clean up after is pretty nice. 

Betty Boop

BLUE SKIES

My October poem for the Library board is titled Blue Skies.  Prompted by my thoughts every year about how blue the sky is in October.  Jan was born in October and I remember noticing the sky that year.  So every approaching birthday for her I think about how blue the sky was then and every year after.  Sooooo    I wrote a poem about the blue skies-not her.  (or maybe it is about her)

 

BLUE SKIES

 

There is nothing like an October sky!!

You might ask me why?

For they are as blue as blue can be.

Endless beauty for us to see.

So give thanks to God each day.

For many blessings he sends each day.

 

Dot Ellis

 

Betty Boop

 

 

AS TIME GOES BY

I can't believe how time goes by.  Yesterday we were into our second week of practice on Christmas music.  Our program will be December 12th at 3:00.  Hope some can come.  We are a first class Choir and sing things you would be surprised about.  Working hard.  We have a few very good singers and a lot of medium ones and then those who just work their mouth,  (sounds like me).  I do enjoy the experience so much and am glad they welcome all. 

Speaking of Christmas, you should see my workshop!!  It has really been humming.  I will be ready before you know it.  Better slow up or I will run out of things to do.  It is so easy for me to sit here and listen to Garrison Keilor on my CD's and work before my big window looking out on the golf course and Lake.  What could be more soothing? 


Well must get on with my day and let you go.

Betty Boop

STILL HERE

Yes I am still here, but I mean the little hummer.  I guess he thinks it has been a long summer.  I still have to fill the feeder every day.  Fall officially started sometime this week , the 15th I think, but it still feels like the middle of summer.  We complain and suddenly it changes and there are those who are ready for another change.  I know plenty of ladies here who have been wearing sweaters all summer long.  Poor things, can't enjoy any weather.  I love the changes and go with the flow.  I have been trying and trying to write a poem for the Library.  I feel it needs to be relative to the Library and that can challenge me after writing several already about that subject.  I have an idea but I am having trouble making it work.  O well, it will come together soon, I hope.  We "poets and writers" have dry spells.  Maybe this is mine.  No I wont accept that because I am not truly a poet or writer.  Just a wanna be.  Aren't we all from time to time a wanna be for something?

Jan is coming and we are going to tackle the old paper work again.  Wish us luck.  We will get it done some day and feel good about it.

Betty Boop

VOSITORS

Amy came, then Ivy.  Ivy is very busy planning her wedding.  Oh the pleasures and agony of that.  But in the end it always comes out good.  Most brides know (they think) exactly how they want it to be only to find out some things just will not work and they have to rethink.  Is this really what we want?  Poor mothers have to have feelings of steel.  Most do.  Amy has been through this two times before.  You know they say the third time is the charm.  Let it happen.

Christmas "happies" are going smooth and I am enjoying them.  I am thinking of a new fish.  Maybe a red one like my first one.  Will see what is waiting for me soon.  Too busy now.  You may laugh at  that, but it is true.  One day turns into another so fast. Lucky me.  Oh, yes I have not finished my poem for the VILLAGER yet.  It is called OCTOBER SKY.  You know they are so blue.

Betty Boop

Betty Boop

HODGE PODGE

Is there such a word?  And what does it really mean?  Why do I ask?  I miss that little blue fish.  I did not realize I looked at him so often, but I find myself glancing toward his bowl a lot.  I cleaned it and let it air outside a day and put it back together minus water.  I guess it is waiting for a new fish when I get the time. 

Tommy came to History Club and for lunch today.  We are learning a lot.  I really mean it.  Next meeting should be interesting.  I don't know a lot about the Civil War.  This is about the siege  of Jackson. Ms.  I think it will be a lot to learn.       I spent the afternoon working on my Christmas "Happies."  They are turning out very well.  I made eleven today.  I plan to make 40-45.  Then make tags for them,  Do you think I will be ready by Christmas? 
Good Night--Betty Boop

SAD DAY

Yes, he was quiet and gentle and so very pretty. Such a welcome presence.  My Beta fish Blueberry died Sunday.  Sunday afternoon I looked at his bowl, as I often do, and he was standing on his nose at the bottom of the bowl.  I thought he had discovered another way to entertain me but he did not move,  I waited a while hoping he was o. k. but had to finally accept it.  Blueberry was gone.  I miss him.  He was no trouble but he did his job of being there and looking good.  He would always about take the food from my fingers every morning at the same time.  He would be waiting for me in the same spot. He is the second one I have had and of course I plan to get another one.  Maybe a red one this time.   I think everyone needs something  to takes care of even if it is just a fish or plants will do the trick also.

Betty Boop

SATURDAY (two for one)

Jan & Tommy came for lunch.  What fun.  People are jealous of me for the attention I get from my family.  I am blessed I know.  Saturday is a good family day for lunch.  I guess a lot of family work during the week and come on Saturday. 

Jan and I worked on the" paper caper" we are determined to thin out.  Of course she had to spend a lot of the time on AT&T.  We can't get them straight.  Maybe now we will get a correct bill.  Enough to make me sell my stock in AT&T.  No, not yet. 

Well off to Church and a good day I hope & lunch with the usual gang.

Betty Boop

BRODY IS THREE TODAY

LITTLE MAN

 

Brody is his name.

Fun is his game

 

He loves to learn everything.

Can dance an even sing.

 

What will he grow up to be?

Guess we will have to wait and see.

 

Whatever it is, this I know.

He will always be fun and so.

 

For now

 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY

 

I love you so. 

MAMAW 2016 

 

I wrote this in a few minutes,  doesn't do him justice, but he is special

 

 

Betty Boop

NEEDED A NAP

I did my exercises faithfully this morning,  I had breakfast in the Cyber.  Don't know why I like to do that.  They  try to have a few exotic  items now but I stay on my routine of eggs and sometime sausage or bacon or ham and toast and coffee.  That is what I like best. 

Amy came and we went to the Mall because I wanted Clinique makeup and they were having their bonus sale with free samples.  Something free is always interesting.  We had Chic-Filet and were disappointed as they are changing and charging more.  We will address them on Google later.  After not finding some more things I wanted we were both wiped out.  Especially me.  So home we came and I had a nap.  I think Amy had some job business later.  I get so tired when I walk a lot at the Mall.  I remember when I used to go there just for fun and spend most of a day and not get this tired.  Gee I wonder why?  Surely age is not a reason?

Betty Boop

GRADUATION DAY!!!!!!!

So where are the balloons, confetti, and Champagne?  All I got was hugs, congratulations and a fist full of papers  with exercises to do.  I guess that was enough. 
The two PT's who worked with me were so sweet yet tough and helped me so much.  It is now up to me to not undo the good work they have done and continue to try hard to keep what I have.  Although I made great strides with bending my knees and heels, I still have a way to go with the balance.  Maybe with the exercises I will get better.  I improved the balance enough to lower my risk for falling and that is the bottom line. 
I intend to do my best to keep up the exercises because I realize that is what is important.  So they dismissed me with  "Little lady, you are going to be busy."  I hope not to let them down.  With all the exercise and bike riding and my regular Exercise  Class, I will be busy. O well it will keep me "out of the halls." 

Betty Boop

LABOR DAY

What does the word labor bring to mind.  To me Labor Day always brings up the picture of the strong arm and hammer on the baking powder box, or was it baking soda?  I went to my pantry and the only box I saw was a Kroger baking soda box.  So I don't remember if it is soda or baking powder.  I am out of touch with baking except with mixes.  But I bet you all remember the arm and hammer.  Speaking of cooking, Amy and I were invited to the Patrick home for Sunday lunch.  They work together so well, and they made a "mean" BLT!! It had a special spread and was sooooo good.Also pasta salad.  The food was great and the company was too.  They are so sweet to both of us.

Cloudy this morning.  I think we can expect rain this afternoon.  I am having a special Labor Day lunch here, so let it rain.  Amy and I went to Michael's yesterday and found the main thing I need to make my Christmas "happies",  I will get everything together soon and begin some fun making them.          Well off to Exercise class and coffee with the bunch, we don't take off for the holidays. 

Betty Boop

CHURCH

I am going to Church this morning.  I know I can feel God's presence anywhere and I do all the time, but there is something special about  the way God fill the Church with his presence on Sunday. And I need that.

I find myself thinking about Christmas and the fact I thought last Christmas was the last time I would make gifts for my SCV friends.  But here I am thinking about it again.  Got an idea that has been in the back of mind every Christmas.  I think it is time to bring it to the front and DO it.  I will keep it a secret till I fine the things I need to do it.

Well off I go.......Betty Boop

EARLY BIRD

I am calling myself an early bird.  I usually have breakfast in the Cyber Café on Saturdays.  I did this morning.  I was the first one there, outside of the cooks.  My breakfast was promptly served and enjoyed.  I took my second half cup of coffee to the Rose garden.  Roses almost gone as is Summer (I hope.)  It was very pleasant and quiet.  Where were the birds?  I guess my little hummer will soon fly south and all the many things the change of seasons brings.  I love that kind of change.  Especially from summer to fall.

With Jan still in Fort Wayne, where she is soaking up the sweetness of her grandchildren, I will be "winging" it today.  I miss her.  Shampoo and change Blueberry's water is first on the list.  I bagged up plenty of homemade veg. soup to last a while.  Reminds me of the wonderful book my neighbor lent me.  I am reading it and can hardly put it down.  TRIALS of the EARTH.  by Mary Mann Hamilton.  It is a true story of a pioneer woman in the Delta.  So good and amazing.  Guess I will put that on my to do list today. Read.           Who knows at this point what else I will do.  Life is good if you let it be.

Betty Boop

SMALL PURCHASES

Well, It was fun to look at, but did not need anything they had left.  I got there late and everything was picked over.  But I did come away with a dish towel and a hand towel.  Ha!  The total isn't complete but we made close to $5000.00.  That is good.  We have a balance in the account too.  I will go off the committee as a Trustee this year.(three year term)  I have enjoyed being a close up member and have been able to see it done.  On to something else.  I have tried a lot of things out here and found some real joys in what I do.  There is something for anybody who wants to be a part of activity.  Some don't and some can't, but I am enjoying what I do. 

I am going to make me some spaghetti and salad and green peas for supper.  Just felt like doing my own tonight. 

Betty Boop

BIG CLOSET SALE TODAY

Since I need some more "stuff". I must go.  I hear it is the largest we have ever had.  Lots of furniture.  I do need that.  I really love to have a looking day.  It all goes for a good cause, our employee Christmas gift fund.  I believe in that, since we are not allowed to give our workers any personal gifts.  That rule is strongly enforced.  I think it is the best way to handle it. 

Betty Boop

FEELING LIGHTER

No I don't mean my body weight.  Although that would be nice.  Jan came today and we started to weed out unnecessary paper work.  I have been afraid to discard anything since Truman died.  It was worrying me a lot.  We started, although we got rid of a lot. there is still much to go.  It is hard work.  Toward the last we got into some 2011 stuff when Truman died and it was a good place to stop and eat lunch.  Both  tired so we put it off till we can start up once more.  I also had a huge bag for Goodwill which she took there.  Tommy has a big shredder so he will help that way for the paper stuff. 

I took a nap.  That is nothing new but I needed it.  I changed my table display at my hall entrance from Beach to Fall with my little raccoons and fall leaves and pinecones.  Wish I had some acorns and so do the raccoons.  I then changed the beach at my front door to School stuff.  Always looks cute because I have an enlarged picture of my 1st grade class.  Me in the middle, first row and wearing my little red sailor dress my mother made for me.  (two heads shorter than anyone else)  Always the shortest wherever  I go.  That isn't changing so get used to it. 

Betty Boop

O BOY!!!

I had an evaluation at PT this morning.  Passed very good on the knee range of motion, but I still have a ways to go on the balance and my ankle stretch .  So I am still up for the rest of my visits.  Something new and I welcome it.  It will take more of my time and pretty soon all I will be doing is  every day           maintenance on this old body.  Can't go anywhere because I have to do something else.  I am going to ride the recumbent bike in the exercise room three times a week-starting at 15 minutes and work up to 20  She said it would do me more good than walking.  But I could do that too. This plus exercise on my knee and ankles. It was funny how she had so much trouble getting the bike to fit my short legs.  At home we had my bike fitted just for me.     Don't forget the many pills and eye drops.  I really do have to stay on my toes to keep up with it all.  Is it worth it all?  Yes of course it is.  I am just thankful that I can have such good care.

Now for cheese and a coke.

Betty (good shape)  Boop 

KEEPING UP

Well since I heard from Amy and Whitney. I felt compelled to write in Blog even though I have nothing new to say.  I had Exercise class this morning.  Then picked up a carton of chili in the Cyber for lunch.  We are having Hawaiian lunch and dinner.  I did not like the menu so I had chili.  They make good chili.  I had a light bulb to burn out over my  sink and I really missed it.  I had Maintenance on call so I was tied here.  Finally I caught him in the hall and he said I was next in his box.  O. K.  I then shampooed my hair and read a little and now talking to you.  So you see I did have to really scrape the bottom for this Blog.  I will try to do better next time. 

Betty Boop

SINGING LIKE A BIRD

Well, I did not say what kind of bird, but I was singing my heart out.  The Choir gave our Summer Concert yesterday.  Jan came, but Amy had to miss it.  First time she has missed.  Work called.  People are jealous of me because I have such support from my family.  I think I am blessed.  Our concert was good.  Something for everyone.  We worked hard and Shirley was proud of us.  For me it is just fun.  My voice has faded somewhat but I can still make a noise.  Don't know how good but it is joyful. 

By the way, I had lunch again with that sweet little "Betty" yesterday.  Fate is bring us together for some reason.  She is quite a talker and is telling her life story in chapters I guess.  So cute and sweet.   Happy to be here and is very glowing with complements.  She will be well liked I think.  Nobody likes a complainer.            Well off to PT.

Betty Boop

CLOUDY BUT COOLER

If you can call 78 degrees cool, I can.  It was pleasant enough for me to take my coffee to my beloved balcony.  I listened to the sounds of the morning and heard the world waking up.  A lone duck calls to the others--wake up.  Birds in the trees starting a conversation and my faithful little hummer perched on the next balcony, fussing at me because he was afraid to come to his private feeder because he did not know it is me who keeps his little tummy full.  I saw a Katydid or locus-  whatever.  I thought he was dead and leaned over to inspect him.  He flew up and I almost got him in my face.  I guess that is the next sound of Fall we will hear.  Makes me think of school and getting ready.  This is my favorite season of the year.  Getting ready for school, for my children and I remember getting ready myself.  The smell of paste in a jar, new crayons and new shoes and clothes.  Very exciting.  Another  memory that comes with Fall is the smell of burning leaves (allowed then) and the radio with football blaring from the open windows of the house. 

Hey enough of that.  We still have a bit of Summer to endure.  Well off to get ready for Church.  Hope your Sunday is good.

Betty Boop

SATURDAY

I guess my little laptop is getting old and like me does not like to rush anymore.  I had to unplug everything this morning and let it rest.  This afternoon it seems to be ready to go again.  How I know that feeling.

I had lunch yesterday with a little lady I had seen a lot but had never talked to.  I just was amused and had to hold my tongue.  Do you know the comic strip BETTY?  It is fairly new to me.  She is a little middle aged person with a husband  that she has to keep straight all the time.  Well this little lady at lunch is a widow so I don't know if she had that problem.  What amused me was she looked exactly like the comic strip lady.  So funny.  But that is not all--her name was Betty.  I have enjoyed that memory over and over.  Am I bad  or what?  I will not tell any one this story but you.  Wouldn't want to hurt that sweet little 4 foot tall lady.

My hummer is about to fly himself to death.  And fighting like a real warrior .  Keeps me busy filling the feeder and watching him.(her)?  Don't know about gender.  Maybe I will ask Mr. Google a few questions.  Seems like I am looking for something to do.

Betty (not the comic strip) Boop 

OOPS!!! UPDATE TO POEM

I spelled bulletin board wrong.  I spelled it bullitin.  Sorry, I do know better.  Betty Boop

POEM FOT BULLITIN BOARD

OPEN DOORS

 

By Dot Ellis

 

The rain comes  down-how it pours.

What to do with my time?

The Library always has open doors.

Check out a book-wont cost a dime.

 

 

Books take you away to another place.

Somewhere you want to be,

Where the sun shines on your face.

Read a book and you will see.

 

Sometimes I don't know what I would do without books so easy to get and read here.  I really enjoy having Open Doors.  Every day-or night. This is for the Bulletin Board.

 

Betty (bookworm) Boop

 



MY MISTAKE

Jan came to help me do a little business.  She is my great back up to many problems.  I think I will sometime drown in paper work.  We are going to schedule a day soon (when we both can find the time) to go through much stuff and thin it out,  I am afraid I am slow to rid myself of things.  Because I think I will throw out something important.  Well we realized I did not have to do some changes after we had done them.  Wont go into detail. but we had to undo a thing or two.  O well you really have to be careful with your money.  Must make it last.  I used to think I would be long "gone" by now but looks like I may make it to a 100.  Oh no!!

Betty Boop

SUNDAY

This is the day the Lord has made, let us rejoice and be glad in it.  Sunday is special.  I was taught that from birth.  I don't feel complete till I go to Church on Sunday.  I know there are all kinds of opinions and believes but I stand by mine.  There is something about the music and the feel of God's presence that I need.  It is not about the preacher or any other person.  I go because I want and need to.  That said--I wont preach anymore.

The sun just popped out.  How long?  Who knows?  I will enjoy it while it shines.       Well off to exercise and do what I can.  I am a little afraid to do too much.  I will go by PT and ask a few questions on  that subject.  I will be glad to be back to normal soon.  Hey what if this is  normal?  And who knows what "normal" is?  Questions, I ask.  No solutions.  Anyway=====here I go.

Betty Boop

HUMMERS ARE HUMMING

I am enjoying the antics of the humming birds.  My neighbor gave me a feeder that is small and hangs on a wire that you put in a flower pot.  Neat! and it works.  They are keeping me busy filling it up real often.  One little guy has claimed it as his own and fights the others off.  I tried to explain to it that there are at least 6 feeders within sight of each other and there is no need to fight.  But instinct tells them that summer is coming to an end and they must fatten up for the migration.  Can you imagine those tiny little creatures flying so far south each year.?  And by the way it is a myth that they fly on the wings of other big birds for a free ride.  Although it sounds like a good idea?  I am happy to help fatten them up for the journey. 

I am better although I am still nursing my latest episode.  Lord please let me get over one before I have another.  Enough said about that.

Betty Boop

FALL FROM GRACE

Well, it has happened to me.  Brings me down a peg.  I have always felt sympathy for friends who fall.  It was far from me though,  or so I thought.  I took a little tumble yesterday as I stubbed my toe on nothing.  Just went down caring my supper and mail as I went into the beauty shop to pay my bill.  I had my hair cut that morning and did not know she could cut it on short notice and did not  have money with me.  All that to say I just walked through the door and for no reason stubbed my toe and lost my balance.  I turned to fall on my bottom (I hoped) and caught the brunt on my right arm.  and hand.  Dropped my supper but did not spill a thing.  I was amazed at how quick help came,  Suddenly I was surrounded by nurses and many others.  They determined I did not have a break and since I did tap my head on a walker they were concerned.  But that too was of no concern.  Hard head I guess.  Anyway I was helped to my feet and was not dizzy.  A nurse walked with me back to my apartment and said take ibuprofen and ice it down.  Which I did and another nurse came and took my blood pressure and that was not too high considering.  They told me to call if I felt bad or got worse.  I iced and took meds and sat a while.  Got up and ate my supper.  Watched TV as usual.  Took a shower and went to be at 10:30.  Woke as usual every 4 hours and took more ibuprofen.  This morning I am having trouble lifting my right arm up high.  I guess I am o.k. so I will just keep going the best I can.  I am lucky but thoroughly embarrassed.  And I feel differently toward those who have fallen.  So that was my day===hope this one is better.

Betty Boop

BIG DAY

Brody brought Leila to visit my apartment and then to lunch.  Of course he brought Jan (Nana) and mom Cary,  He has grown and changed a lot but he still loved to visit and see Blueberry. my fish and to see old things he used to play with here.  Not much in the way of toys but we did get to see up close my little humming birds feeding on my balcony feeder.  Lunch as usual--grilled cheese, milk and fruit.  I had the same just to copy him.  Miss Leila slept through lunch in her Mother's pouch.  That thing is a blessing for Cary.  I hope to see them before they fly off Saturday. 

Now after a good breakfast here in apt., I am off to P. T.  I sure hope this helps my balance and knee range.  All connected I think.  I really do need the help.  It is hard to accept the struggle I have in walking.  It is something I could not imagine a while ago.  But we all know time marches on and it does take a toll.     SO BE IT !!!

Betty Boop

P. T.

Up in the morning, out on the job, work like the Devil for my pay,  But that lucky old sun has nothing to do but roll around Heaven all day.  Words of and old spiritual   we sing in Choir.  I am glad I have more to do than roll around all day.  Sometime it is hard to get started but a breakfast of ham and eggs got me off to a "rolling" start.  I have P. T. today and I am a little stiff.  I hope to work that out and then I can rest. 

You all have a good day too.!!

Betty Boop

BIG WEEKEND

So much fun to meet Leila, and to see Cary and Brody.  They will be  here  this week till Saturday and I will see them some more.  So sweet to see and touch a new baby.  Number 8 great's.  Wish Truman could see them all.  Maybe he can.  I only hope.  Also it was a bitter sweet day at Church when we had a goodbye lunch for Chuck.  For 14 years he has made a big difference in our Choir.  I have enjoyed his work and am sad to see him go.  Linda, Joe and Parker stayed with me during the short visit, but it was a good one.  Now on to a new week.  Good things can happen. 

Betty Boop