STILL DRAGING

I honestly hate to feel under par.  Maybe I need to get used to it because it may be the way it will be.  I am being tested I know.  Feeling a little  shaky and  afraid to drive is for the birds.  Maybe I am too anxious and am not giving the  new Meds time but I don't like it.  I know I have been depending on others to do a lot for me already but I need to hold on to some independence.  I go to my Dr,next week for my annual checkup and maybe we can iron out a few things. 

Had lunch with three ladies just now and we enjoyed steak.  It was very good.  I am going to the New Year's lunch tomorrow.  I hope we have some black eyed peas for good luck.  Maybe a little green cabbage for money.  There is a New Year's Eve party tonight.  I say "tonight."  It is from 6:30 till 8:00.  Got to get to bed on time.  Truman and I used to go to bed and watch New York time (11:00 our time) to see the Ball come down and then kiss and lights out.  Hardly ever made it till midnight.  We were never  much of party goers.  Just family suited us just fine.

HAPPY NEW YEAR and my wish for a happy and healthy one.

Betty Boop

NOT TIP TOP YET

Not tip top yet, but getting there.  There is progress and the blood pressure is coming down with additional meds. 
Christmas was very good.  Being able to see and touch so many of my family was wonderful.  Every year is different as time marches on but many things never change,  The love and respect I see between each member of my family is unchanged and wonderful.  I wish I could have felt better physically but that is  something that changes.  I thought of a poem I wrote in 2014 called TIP OF TOP.  I wrote it after a bout with a cold that took me down for a while.  It kind of fits this year,

TIP OF TOP

 

Ever been in Tip Top Shape?

The worlds' oyster to take?

I question just what that means.

I ponder with mind so keen.

 

Does it mean on top of the tip?

Careful not to slip?

Uncomfortable looking down,

At people on the ground.

 

All alone, looking down,

Quiet - not a sound.

Careful, your bubble may pop.

Very lonesome - on the top.

 

After thinking this whole thing through,

This is what I think I'll do.

Skip along, and don't stop,

Stay in the middle - not on Tip Top.

 

Dot Ellis\Creative  Writers Group

January, 2014

 

Betty Boop  2015

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



NOT TIP TOP

Please excuse me for a few days (I hope).  Not feeling up to being "jolly."  I am working on it and hope to feel better soon.

Betty Boop

P. S. to today

At coffee and exercise class, we had bumper crowd.  The subject was brought up about the new recording we have on wake up call.  We call in every morning to let them know we are still here.  It has been a sweet female voice since I have been here,  This morning it was a male voice and not as sweet as the female voice.  Lots of comments  but the best one was (and you have to know this person) was  "Well the last thing I want to here first thing in the morning is a man's voice."  I thought it was funny, knowing her,  Betty Boop

WORDS OF WISDOM

You groan--"not again", there she goes again-preaching.  Not really.  I often do my blog after reading a devotional and Bible and am in the mood to pass it on.  I know you have read many times ingredients for HAPPINESS.  Here is another good list.:

1. someone to love
2, something to do.
3. something to hope for
4. faith
5. laughter.
All doable I think.     Well, I will do something this afternoon that will bring happiness to me.  I am part of a team to hand out gift checks to our very dedicated employees at their Christmas party.  What an honor,  They are the best you can find anywhere and I am proud to be a part of it.  330 it takes to run this place and they do it well.  I am blessed to be here.

Betty Boop

Don't Know

The last two days I wrote--I accidently deleted.  Ever done that?  I tried to recover it but it is out in cyber space looking surprised.  Therefor I can't remember what I told you in those blogs.  If I can't remember, I don't think you missed much.  Just the fun of yesterday of getting my little shopping done.  Guided by the QUEEN OF SHOPPING--Amy.  She is good, quick, and good at suggestions.  I hardly had the pleasure of agonizing over each purchase.  Way to go.  There are a few perks in getting older, and I intend to take them.  Ivy was able to join us and we had lunch at Corner Bakery.  Fun.

Well off to the Foot Dr. today and to get some things altered.

Betty Boop

MERRY (CHRISTMAS) MONDAY

The big Christmas program sung by the SCV SUNSHINE CHOIR was a big success.  I enjoyed singing with 30 or more, don't know exactly how many.  I will have to say we did good.  Singing to a packed house, even some standing, we really blew the roof off.  Just bragging.  It meant so much to me to have 5 of my family there.  Including Brody who sat through it without moving.  Not every 2 year old can do that.  He loves music and he really enjoys our music programs. 

I am going to sign checks with two other Trustees of the Christmas Fund this morning.  Our plan with that has been a big success.  We are distributing a large fund this year and I am proud of our residents and also the employees who serve us.  They are the best. 

Betty Boop

OOOPS!!

I started the day off funny.  I sprinkled my soft boiled egg with cinnamon instead of pepper.{by mistake}.  Not to be wasteful, I sprinkled pepper and salt too and I barely tasted the cinnamon.  On to Church.  Amy did a beautiful centerpiece on the alter of three different Nativity scenes from different countries.  One was mine from Mexico.  I was delighted to see it.  I gave it to her when I moved from Riverwood. 

Had lunch with Amy's sweet children--Sophie and Paul--M. G, and Ryan,  All are getting ready for Christmas.  Enjoyed it.   I am receiving little "happies" at my door from friends here.  I know so many nice people.  Full week ahead and I still must do a little shopping.  Not much but just a little to feel like Christmas.


Betty Boop 

WHAT'S THE HURRY?

There is excitement in the air.  It picks up your mind and spirit, not to mention your step.  Why hurry?  Just try to slow up and enjoy.  I heard a lady the other day say she wished she could go to sleep and wake up to it being over.  She was talking about Christmas and smarty me said "Oh I thought you were talking about leaving this earth."  No, I just made that up.  I only thought my comment.  Christmas can be a worry.  I remember as a child going to my Grandparents house in the country of Durant, Ms. at Christmas and being worried that Santa would not find me.  He did find me and brought one of my prized gifts.  A Mickey Mouse watch.  Other memories are in my little book I wrote for you grandchildren.  It was a Christmas gift.  Do you still have it?  I remember other outstanding Christmas's.  Jan getting her "Ruthie" doll all dressed in flannel nightgown and Linda getting a surprise gift of a Mouse game.  And Amy getting white Go-Go boots.  Those little expected and unexpected gifts make memories.  There I go again down memory lane--forgive me.  I just can't help it sometime.

Many wonderful things are happening NOW.  That is the only place we should really live.  I have heard so many wonderful programs of music this year.  I do love music at Christmas.  I have a varied collection of CD"s.  The Oldies are great but some new is good too.        Hey I just heard Jan is coming for lunch and help with a few things.  She is bringing Tommy--a plus!!

Betty Boop

HERD OF REINDEER

I just delivered my 49th reindeer!!  I have had a lot of calls and "thank you "in the halls.  Since I released this herd of clothespin reindeer I have had many comments.  I am sure some think I am crazy to spend so much time on such useless stuff, but they all seemed to like them.  They are cute.  They made me happy too.  I have one left and don't know what to do with him.  I could have given 10 more but I had to stop someplace. 

I had homemade bean soup for lunch that I made and froze a while ago.  Comes in handy when you don't wont to go "out" to eat.  So lunch was good today.  I have some light reading now.  Since that last one I read--I need something I don't have to figure out and just enjoy.  So back to that.  I seem to have caught up on things today.  Tomorrow we are having open house for several residents who are opening their home for everyone to enjoy their decorations in their apartment or house.  A hot chocolate and cookie party in the Activity room afterward.  Think I will go.  Nor going to TOP OF THE DOM tonight.  I have been a couple of years and while it is nice, I decided not to go this year. 

Sweetly Be
Betty Boop

SUNDAY

Our Choir at Church is small now, just like the congregation.  Small in number but big in love.  The Choir sang the most beautiful Christmas program yesterday.  They sounder twice their size and just as beautiful as any choir I've ever heard.  Put me in the right spirit. and I needed it.  Lunch outside a fun restaurant with Amy, Ryan and M. G, was fun too.  I delivered the rest of my reindeer ornaments in the afternoon.  I gave out 40 so far.  Many comments.  I hope they give my friends a laugh.  That is my purpose.   Well off to exercise and usual activities.

Betty Boop

SATURDAY GUEST

Cary, Jan, and Brody came after they went to the Madison Christmas parade.  They were full of energy.  Excitement I guess.  I got to hear all about it over lunch.  Brody told me about the fire truck in the parade.  Can you imagine Santa riding it instead of a sleigh?  Worked for him.  He especially liked (I think) the motorcycles.  He told about it with sparkling eyes and sound effects .  He loved seeing the trains here at St. Catherine's.  And all the other beautiful decorations we have.  Imagine all the things he is seeing for the first time.  His little brain is growing full.  I always enjoy my family over lunch in the Cyber. 

I saw a beautiful sight already this morning.  I opened the drapes to a beautiful display of the clouds.  Amazing!!!  Then as most weekends I saw a skywriter doing BIG things in the sky. He made a circle as far as I could see.  I am sure he went all around us.  And then back and up and over.  He was having fun I am sure.  Hope a lot of people saw it.  Wish I knew who it is.  Good way to start my day.

Betty Boop

PLENTY TO DO

Jan asked why I had not blogged since the 29th.  First I was flattered that I had a regular following.  My blog is something I love to do, so I assumed it is for me.  But thanks for reading.

It has been a busy time from before Thanksgiving. So much is going on.  I just got back from a great Christmas program.  Remember Guy Hovis of the Lawrence Welk show?.  He is a native of Tupelo, Mississippi.  He sang Christmas songs.  Enjoyed it.  We had a full house since everyone is of his time and remember him.  He still looks pretty good.  Yesterday we had a good music show too.  And there is more to come. Everyone here is getting in the festive mood.  Decorations at each door and all over the halls and gardens and outside everywhere.  I wonder if we are remembering that they must come down one day?   It is still worth it.   Must go and see about a little supper and read, TV and then to bed.  Tomorrow is Saturday  Jan Day!!

Betty Boop

BUSY

I haven't had time to blog lately.  I can imagine many of my readers would say  "How can you be busy? "  Well the stuff I tell you about may sound tame to you, but it is  big to me.  First, I do not move as fast as I used to.  A little bit goes a long way now.  Then I really don't have to do it all anymore.  I am learning that fast now.  I enjoyed Linda, Joe and Parker staying with me.  A lot was planned for the short time everyone was here.  In addition to them, Lindsay, Loralie Jacob, Whitney, Cameron, Karis, Andrew. Liam from out of town and then most of the "locals" too,.  M. G. and Ryan were perfect host.  I think it was 19 or 20.  Perfect weather inside and out.  Kids enjoyed games and other things outside.  Dinner at Ed and Amy's was a hit the night before.  Ending with lunch at Jan and Tommy's Saturday  Too much to tell it all.  But most of you were there and so you know.

I put my little tree up last night.  It is small but loaded with many ornaments that are very, very, old.  Memories again.  Can't live without them/  The whole village here is decorated so pretty.  I bowed out this year with that committee.  I am letting some things go.  I need to slow up. 

Betty Boop

PLEASE CLOSE THE DOOR.

If you have been reading my blog for a day or two, you know I have been in the memory mode.  Anniversary and all, you know.  Well one more outstanding one and I will close the door.  If you remember, on Riverwood, our bedroom was at one end of the house and the laundry room was at the other end.  When I would load clothes I would often strip and put add my clothes to the mix.  One morning that is what I was doing when the doorbell rang.  I heard Truman open the front door, blocking me from a fast get away.  He greeted "someone" with great gusto.  There I was in my birthday suit and trapped as he invited "someone" in.  He let me suffer a short while before he told me not to worry, he was just teasing me.  There was no one there, just him playing a joke.  Ha Ha.  O. K., I will close the door to the Memory Bank.......but very gently.

Betty Boop

NOVEMBER 23, 1946

A day to remember.  Let's go to the Memory Bank this morning and check out an outstanding memory.  The reason you are all here.  Think of that.  It was a cool sunny day and she was nervous.  19 years old and little or no experience of the world.  Yet so in love that it did not matter.  She did not even think of it that way.  He was handsome  and full of life and anxious to get his Civilian life back on track.  A world traveler forced from a new life in the big city of Jackson,  But he traveled to defend his country.  Back at work and this little dark haired cutie captured him and off they went down the path of life together.  What a life it was.  Three children, new house, many ups and downs, as is very normal.  Thankfully more ups.  What a full life we had together, from a start in my parents living room with family there on North Jefferson Street.  On to New Orleans to get our married life started.  I remember the day as it were yesterday.  He will always be my only love.  I still have my sweet memories as the not so sweet ones have faded .  I ramble on so don't feel bad for me.  I had the "cream of the crop" of a life with him, and I am thankful.

So there they stand on trembling legs, Afraid, yet brave.  She in her beautiful sky blue suit with pink silk blouse and an outrageous Hat with an a pink feather and him in a custom made suit (a first for that)  promising to love, honor till death do  them part.  And they kept that vow,  Oh yes.  And for me even after death parted us.  So be it.

Betty Boop

THIS THAT AND THE OTHER

B rrrrrr, it is cold at last.  I kind of like it.  A chance to wear winter clothes, snuggle in with a book and hot chocolate in the Bubble.  Yes I do all those things.  I guess they think we "old folks" get cold easy. some do.  The Halls are kept too hot for me.  We will be having a lot of activities here for December. Even a concert by Guy Hovis!!  You young may not even know him.  Choir concert is December 14 at 3:00.  We are working hard.  I love being a part of that.  Many other things that I will mention as they draw near. 

With Jan out of town on Saturday, I had to fill the day with something.  That laundry I put off had to be done. and a few other little things that are so mundane I wont even list them.  But I managed without her and I am sure she was having a great time in New Orleans.  Great place.  We spent our honeymoon there.  Four days (all he could afford) and then to Carthage where we spent our first Thanksgiving together.  Me in my high heels and honeymoon outfits.  I must have looked out of place to them in the country.  My I was a pretty dumb little 19 year old.  I remember Truman's mother being so sweet and accepting to me. We had baked chicken and dressing. We made a big to do about our "turkey".  She was a great lady and I did learn a lot from her about family.  She loved hers too.

Betty Boop

FRIDAY AGAIN?

Well, it looks like I could say something about Friday.  Well here goes.  After Exercise class and feeding my crew pumpkin bread, I headed up to plan the rest of  my day.  There is laundry to do.  Not very exciting.  The phone rang and Amy said , "You have been wanting to go to the Mall.  Lets have lunch and go."  I was ready in no time.  Laundry will  wait.  We had one of our favorites  Chick Filet.  Sandwich on whole wheat bun and  slaw. They make the best slaw.  Feeling satisfied, up to my favorite store. Dillard's has the best petite department.  I must say, I went a little wild.  So many cute clothes and my old ones are so outdated.  I felt like adding a little life to my wardrobe.  Amy is good at shopping and it really helped for someone to find the size and color and bring it to  the dressing room.  I bought several things and lightened my wallet a bit.  Thank you Truman, you provided for me well.  I know he would be proud that I do take care of my resources that he so carefully left me. 

Now a word about my daughter, Amy.  It is rare to have a daughter to love. One who is still a daughter and also a friend.  Rare to have both at the same time.  I enjoy her company and she helps me in more ways than she can know.  I see her in the same relationship with her daughters.  How nice. 

Betty Boop

DARK AND STORMY NIGHT

That is the way most ghost stories start.  We really had a stormy night last night.  With the sirens going off and thunder and lighting rain and threats of tornados it really was a dark and stormy night.  Sun shining and it is cool and crisp today. 

I had a hot dog for lunch in the Cyber.  I put chili on it.  So good.  Sweet potato fries made it perfect. 

I am reading a real thriller.  A novel called THE HISTORIAN.  About a man doing research and got caught up in researching Dracula and Transylvania .  Was he real?  Is he still alive?  So many stories can be made up around folklore and some truth.  It is over 600 pages so I am set for a while before I find any answers,  (If I do)  Fun and interesting to read.       Guess I will go read a while.

BETTY BOOP

HAM & EGGS

What a way to start a dreary looking day.  A little bit of sunshine in the Cyber.  It was a good breakfast.  Ordered  it from a smiling face and "good morning Mrs. Ellis."  Don't you love to go where everybody  knows your name?  On the walk down I met a very few people because of the early hour.  I actually was the first customer.  I usually am at 7:30.  But they drifted in before I finished.  More "good mornings." 

You know, I still am amazed at the good choice I made to live here.  Nowhere, without Truman, could I be better off.  I have so many good friends and caring people to call on for company.  Always someone asking for me to join them for dinner. Activities to join,  Believe me I have tried most of them.  Now settling down to the ones I like.  No questions asked, just join. 

This morning, it hit me again as I walked back to my apartment, When people smile and say a greeting, as the song goes --  They are really saying, "I love you," from our theme song in the Choir--WHAT A WONDERFUL WORLD.  If you haven't heard us sing it, you have missed something special.  We are working on Christmas music now.  One of my favorites and new for us to sing is YOU LIFT ME UP.  Move over Josh Groban!!

Betty Boop

LINCH GUEST

Yes, how pleased again to have Brody, Cary, and Jan to lunch.  Brody is getting a following around the Halls.  He is a perfect guest at lunch.  He really enjoyed grilled cheese, milk and fruit in MaMaw's Café.  Of course I loved talking to Cary about the new little one who will join their growing family in June.  So exciting. 

What would I do without Jan?  She is so willing to help me with my "business".  I would be lost without her. She  navigates the Madison Library's on line system like a pro.  We had to recheck a book for me.  THE HISTORIAN is a long book and I did not get to finish it before it is due.  Now I can enjoy it.  It is quite interesting. 

Jan also took me to Lowes to buy a few pansies.  Took me back to the Memory Bank, where I checked out sweet memories of Truman.  We always bought lots of pansies and he helped me plant them.  I have always liked pansies.  Now I have two big pots smiling at me on the balcony.  Now I will put Jan in the Memory Bank and check her out from time to time.  You do what you have to do and be thankful.

Betty Boop

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THIS?

I do my best writing in my BUBBLE ROOM or whatever you want to call it  It is my favorite place to write.  Because it has such a good view of the lake, I feel at home there.  I was sitting there with my "juices" flowing this morning.  I saw the resident Egret and geese and made a story about them.  It came out as a poem.  What do you think of it?

KING EGRET

 

Resident Egret found a place.

It suits him very well.

But this is not the case.

A sad story to tell.

 

He haughty stares at the geese;

Who have moved into his space.

You have disturbed my peace,

He confidently builds his case.

 

They pay no attention to his stare,

Went right on sunning their wings.

As if he was not there.

Ignoring him really stings.

 

A late group came floating in.

It is the last straw!!

With his big ego to mend,

His feelings are very raw.

 

Off he flew to take a break.

He had left a sunny spot.

Oh for goodness sake,

Sun-Versus Geese--Why not?

 

---------and off he flew right back.

 

Dot Ellis

November 2015

SUPER SATERDAY !!!!!

Down came the rain. skies were dark. but inside the sun was shinning so bright.  The rain washed in a lovely Saturday complete with company.  BRODY and his entourage .  This time it was made up of Jan,T., Mom Cary, and Dad David.  We created a stir in the Cyber.  Brody is at home here now and I love it.  His "chair" from home was forgotten so he had to be a big boy and sit in a regular chair.  As with most everything he does, he took it in stride and only got up to get a T. fix and sit in his grand dads lap.  With a grilled cheese sandwich. milk and fruit cup. he laughed the lunch away.  He did not even notice the admiring looks.  Lucky me.

Brody and I have some things in common.  We like to punch the button in the elevator, speak to residents and give them a smile, and also we love the Halls.  He loves to race down the hall of my apartment.  Not usually anybody to watch out for on this hall.  Off he goes with someone in tow.  What energy and excitement from so little.  Way to go.

Betty Boop

P. S. to Christmas poem.

         JACK FROST

The grass is now lush and green.
due to rain.
but soon frost will take it back.

HAIKU  Dot Ellis
December 2015

JUICES ARE FLOWING

I wrote this poem for the December issue.  You understand it is directed to my age.

CHRISTMAS IS COMING

 

Christmas is coming,

With lots to do.

So let's get humming.

With excitement too.

 

Plans to make.

Create a list.

Oh, for goodness sake.

I must try to resist.

 

That's the way it used to be.

Others take over now.

Sit back and drink your tea.

You deserve a BOW!!!

 

Dot Ellis

December 2015

REV. DOT HERE

Once in a while, I feel the urge to share with you some thoughts.  I have read in my Bible for some time now every day.  Oh sometime I miss, but most every day.  I find strength almost every time I read.  I read in I Peter 4:  10 " Each one ,as a good manager of God's different gifts, must use for good of others the special gift he has received from God."  And a little unrelated, 5:7.  "Leave all your worries with him, because he cares for you."   Now, I don't know why I was moved to share this, but use it today if you feel the need.  I did. 

Betty Boop

LOOK MOM, NO CAVATIES

O. K. you may remember I was off to the dentist last time I wrote.  It went smooth and I was surprised since I had the cap pop out and had to put it back.  Feels good and I think I mentioned there goes Christmas.  Well almost!!  My they know how to charge.  Next time ( hope there is not a next time for this)  maybe I will look for super glue myself.  My regular dentist was out for a few days ( I suspect he was on the slopes somewhere or looking for a new fancy car).  They really know how to charge.  Oh well it is just money, got to spend it someway. 

After appointment we met Sophia and Paul at the Old Capitol Inn since we were close to it.  We sat outside near  the fish pond and watch these huge gold fish.  They were beautiful.  Amy and I remembered when it was the YWCA and young women lived in rooms there and the big swimming pool where I took her for swimming lessons,  Jan and Linda learned to swim there too.  How does it feel to be able to remember old things Amy?  You have such a good memory anyway..

Well I can't get used to the time change.  My old brain wants to wake me at 5:00 a. m. thinking it is 6:00 That is just too early, so I lay awake and try to stay there a while longer.  Hard to do.

BETTY BOOP

WISH ME LUCK

As  I go off to the dentist, I hope you will wish me good luck.  Hope it goes off smooth. I am sure it will. 

Guess what.  Another stroke of luck!!!!!  They switched BIG BANG THEORY to Thursday.  Now It wont be at the same time as DANCING WITH THE STARS.   No I had nothing to do with the decision.  But I like to take credit.

Betty Boop   

STILL RAINING (a little)

Never thought I would be glad to go to the dentist!! I go tomorrow to fix this cap that popped off.  I go regularly to the dentist but I hate every visit.  This protecting my tooth from pain is wearing me down and I will be glad to have it fixed.  No telling what he will charge--there goes Christmas!!

Busy day will take the mind off at times.  I am looking forward to DANCING WITH THE STARS tonight.  My poem about it made it into the current VILLAGER.  I have given up my space on the staff of the Villager except for contributing poems and essays.  It was getting to be too much to do it all.  I still love to write and they wanted my poems.  They are so light and sometime silly, but people seem to need some of that.

Betty (off to the "races.")  Boop

Betty Boop

WHAT A SURPRISE!!!

While flossing my teeth a couple of days ago, I was shocked to the loud noise of a cap off a tooth went flying into the lav.  Never has that happened to me before.  I have  an appointment Tuesday for regular cleaning.  I called this morning and told my tale to the Dentist. They assured me that it would be O. K. to wait till Tuesday to come in.  Just be careful with chewing and drinking hot or cold.  It does not hurt but I am aware of it all the time.  Can't keep my tongue out of it.  They told me they would clean my teeth as usual and stick {with what?) my cap back on.  I hope it is as simple as it sounds.  So that is my story for today.

Halloween party tonight (well 4 o'clock) dress up and come have hot dogs on the Terrace.  Think I will watch from my balcony. 

Betty Boop

EVERYDAYNESS

I may have mentioned this word before.  I read it somewhere.  Actually it is not a word (according to my friend Mr. Webster), But I am going to use it anyway.  Every day, the sun comes up. every day, I eat breakfast, every day I talk to God, read my Bible and my devotional.  So begins my day, every day.  Now I am seeking my way just like every day.  Put it together and you have EVERYDAYNESS.  I like the sound of it.

Betty Boop

RAINY MONDAY

I love  a rainy day especially when we wanted rain so much.  Glad I can stay in today.  The Big Bridge Tournament started today and nudged us out of Choir practice!!  Some people are so into bridge!!  Never understood that.  A lot of people who live here love  it.  Oh well, I have books to read. Have you read  CUTTING FOR STONE?  Oh my it is a page turner.  I have Dancing With the Stars tonight and back and forth with Big Bang.

My I have a life!!

Betty Boop

BLUEBERRIES FOR DOT

Well since my blood sugar was a mere 98. I decided to mess with it .  I went to breakfast and had one (I) pancake with a scrambled egg, bacon and coffee.  I took blueberries to put on the one pancake.  We will see what happens.

Cloudy and promise of rain this weekend.  I hope not as much as Texas is having.  I really feel for those people.  I have put off going to Wal-Mart and just must go this morning.  I know Saturday is not the best day to go.  Since I am not always known for doing the best thing, I will brave it after I put laundry in the machine. 

After I buy dinner tonight, I will have .53 left and this is the last day on my food card.  How about that for planning?  I guess I will give them the balance.  Big spender-that's me.

Betty Boop

SUNRISES, PERKY HAIR CUT, & BUSINESS, & REINDEER

These things have filled my days.  First I have never seen such beautiful sunrises as this and yesterday morning.  You have to get up early to see them. but it is worth it.  I got the courage to go to the Beauty Shop here !  I am pleased with it and also half the cost, no spending my gas and so convenient.  Then Tommy and I went to see my man who manages my stocks and etc.  I feel good about the visit.  Thanks to Tommy and him.  Then I put the finishing touches on my little reindeer ornaments for Christmas.  Now to create a tag to put on them.  50 wacky looking little fellows, make me laugh every time I work on them.  So somebody gets a laugh and I hope I am not the only one. 

So goes my time. I made pumpkin bread for the Coffee Club this morning and later I plan to go to Wal-Mart.  Busy?  Yeah, I like it that way.

Betty Boop

SOUP"s ON

I've had an urge to make veggie soup for some time.  I decided that the time was right this morning.  Cool weather you know calls for homemade veggie soup.  It is now simmering in my slow cooker.  Just brimming with all kinds of veggies and a little cut up chicken and a piece of sirloin steak I had eaten half of and froze the rest.  My it is coming together.  Smells good and I will dive in tomorrow as I have a standing dinner with three ladies on Monday's in the dinning room.  Soup goes way back in my memory.  My mother made the best and always cornbread too.  I think most Mom's make it and I did too.  I remember when we had garage sales on Riverwood. We all contributed to the sale and have it at my house.  I made soup and sandwiches and put out bowls and everyone came at one time or the other and dipped right in.    Now, I still make it and freeze portions for later.  Nothing like homemade.  It always tasted a little different each time because there is no certain recipe  and you use what is left over in the freezer and add some fresh and canned to fill it out.  Come on by and I will put the bowls out.

I just had to laugh just now as I came through the halls to my apartment.  Two ladies were talking.  One said to the other--"Look at
 me and tell me if I am "coming" or "going." She seemed serious.  I feel that way sometime.  How about you?

Betty Boop

SATURDAY

So, Saturday is usually a good day.  You know-end of week and it's busy pace.  And Jan usually comes.  She did today and we had lunch and then hurried to the computer to go to the Library for me.  I had just finished a book about Ernest Hemingway.Well a novel really but based on the first part of his career and first wife.  We got caught up in his career and all the books he wrote.  It is amazing because he was a  very disturbed man.  Maybe that is what it takes to write like he did.  Anyway, we got me two new books to read on my Nook.  I really enjoy reading this way.  So I am set to go.  I am proud of Jan.  I just sit and watch as she navigates through the system and it is so neat to check out books and you don't even have to take them back.  It is automatic.  You think I am crazy but I come from another time when you had to go there and check out and take back.  Real progress  !!

Betty Boop 
P. S. That is the way to spell Hemingway and Ernest, though the spell check says otherwise.

COOL WEATHER

Weather man says not to get used to it.  Summer is having a hard time bowing out.  Cool mornings help to know Fall is coming.  I have not been to the State Fair in years.  I hear the crowds were smaller.  I wonder why?  People aren't spending as much I think.  It is expensive for some families to go and take the kids.  I remember it was the same for us.  We would stop at the top of the hill and eat Crystal's before we went into the Fair with our small ones.  Because it was cheaper.  Didn't hurt them a bit (I think.)  Who knows what hurts and what doesn't? They did not get to eat out much at all.!!. Raising a family is a gamble anyway.  You try and try and are never sure of the outcome.  We were lucky to raise three very good and responsible people.  But please don't ask me how. I do know that when they were small it was the happiest time of my life.  Not to say, that I haven't been happy with every stage of my life,  I have.

Betty(preaching again)Boop

LUNCH BUNCH

I remember when this phrase "Lunch Bunch" was created.  I think I am right.  Kindergarten normally went till 12:00 noon.  Some kids would stay for lunch and the afternoon.  They were called the lunch bunch.  That is the way I first heard it. 
So I had the lunch bunch yesterday.  Amy, Ivy, Tripp and me, on the terrace and it was a beautiful day.  We enjoyed it.  It was Tripp's first trip here and he was so surprised and pleased.  SCV is  so surprising to everyone who see it for the first time. 

I am going to a Ladies' Coffee here this morning.  Called "Mugs & Coffee."  Bring your favorite mug with a scripture or favorite quote to share.  Also a guest speaker on "lost arts" refined".  Sound interesting?  I think it is French hand work of some kind.  Anyway==here I go again.

Betty Boop

LUNCH BUNCH

I remember when this phrase, lunch bunch, was first heard by me.  I may have been when it was created.  It was when kindergarteners instead of going home after school which ended at 12:00, would stay through lunch time. 

HISTORY CLUB

I was asked at exercise class who was that good looking man  I had with me yesterday?  Of course it was my son-in-law, Tommy.  I invite him to the History Club every month and we have lunch afterwards.  We both enjoy the club and lunch.  It always make me wish I had paid attention in school and maybe I would enjoy it more.  At the time of High School, for me, was "how can I just get through this?"  How sad.  I think teachers make a difference in how we learn.  Most just want to get through it too.  I am not defending myself, because I know I could have done better. 

Amy is coming for lunch   Yeah!!  Lucked out again.

Betty Boop

LITTLE SLOW

You know, I forget the miles I have on me.  Last week I had three Dr. appointments.  With all the other usual stuff I do, I guess it caught up with me and I needed a "day of rest."  How fitting that I chose Sunday for it.  Church here on Sunday leans heavy to Baptist.  The leader is a retired Baptist minister.  They study The  Explorer. a Baptist publication.  I really enjoyed the way he took each verse and explained it.  I then had lunch in the dinning room.  Everyone was dressed like I used to on Sunday.  You know--your Sunday clothes.  A thing of the past in this generation.  (which is o. k. with me).  But Sunday has a special feel with your Sunday best on.  Anyway. I took a nap and then a walk.  Did a few lazy chores and read a new book.  Well I started it.  A PARIS WIFE is the title.  Set after and before World War 1.  Pretty good so far. 

I will try to slow up, that is if I can go any slower, and see if I can smell the roses a while.

Betty Boop

PAY the PREACHER!!

Most of my readers are not old enough for "old  sayings".  Paying the preacher used to be said when we needed rain.  I guess somebody has not paid the preacher in a while, because we just can't get much rain.  It is 8 o'clock and a dark cloud just came real close but no rain.  Hope it does not rain on the Fair.  I can not remember the last time I went to the Fair.  I never was that much of a fan anyway. 

Hope to see Jan today as it is Saturday........I looked up Pin-in-Blanket.  Remember those?  I am thinking of making them for my Coffee club.  I am sure they would be excited.  Must be careful about the excitement,     Just kidding.    My computer has an answer for most anything.

Betty Boop

WAL-MART today

I would say for and old gal of 88, I really do stay on the go.  Wal-Mart is calling.  They miss me.  Oh good!!  Being silly.  I kind of like to go there.  It is so big and I get a little exercise which is good.  I have been so busy lately and I must say it is about to catch up with me.  On the other hand, I am afraid to stop for fear I wont start up again.  So here I am,  just taking it one day at a time. Can we ask for more?  No, I think not.

I plan to get started on finishing my Christmas "happies."  They are turning out real cute.  They make me "happy."  Attach the hanger loop and make a small tag to say Merry Christmas.  Not too soon, as it will be here before we know it.  Halloween first.  I like my door and hall table display.  Next month, Thanksgiving.  I have an idea for that too.  I just took coffee from the Cyber breakfast I just enjoyed, and went to the Bubble to drink it.  I saw a man fishing.  The Lake was calm and he was having no luck, but he seemed to be enjoying it.  All the ducks came swimming up stream, like an Army going to war.  Or maybe just making their way to the other Lake.  I can only imagine--and I do.  I know people are tired of my lake poems, but I see something new every time I watch.   Enough of this chatter--on to WalMart.

Betty Boop

MONTH OF DOCTORS

Yes I am keeping them in cars and trips this month.  First I went to my eye Doctor, then next day the ear Dr., today regular Podiatric maintenance.  Oh yes I got a flu shot here and next week my dentist will be glad to see me. I am glad I have all this attention, but all in one month?  What was I thinking?  At least I will have clean teeth and ears and trimmed toenails( which I can't manage anymore.)  And protection against flu.  Just call me "ready to go." I sure am high  maintenance."

Where was the sun hiding when we went camping?  Can you believe this sunny weather?  Oh well, I got to enjoy a fireplace again.  That is one thing I miss about having a house.  But just look at all the perks I traded for a house.  I will always have it in memory. 

Betty Boop

BREAKFAST WITH BRODY (and others)

Wow! What a weekend we had.  Twelve of us almost froze.  The clouds would not part and the wind blew off the lake to make it almost impossible to sit outside.  We sat on the screened porch and covered our summer bodies with whatever we could find.  But it was so much fun and a beautiful weekend.  Oh the food was wonderful.  We celebrated Jan and David's birthday.  Since it was David's big 30th, Jan and Cary spared nothing.  He was well celebrated every day.  We pretty much stick to the usual foods and then more. Steak, baked tuna, hamburgers Wonderful red beans and rice made by Paul. pancakes on Sunday(chef Tommy) and so much more.  Grilled veggies get Amy's special touch.  Sounds like all we did was eat.  While that is a big part of it, the centerpiece is family.  I think being force to stay inside and around a fire in the fireplace  (courtesy of Tommy), was a blessing.  We enjoyed each other .  I know I enjoyed watching each member and listening to them talk. It was so good to me. 

I hope we will continue to be close and respectful of each other.  It is the only way to be.  What joy we receive when we love each other. 

Preaching  again.

Betty Boop

FRIDAY

A CAMPING WE WILL GO.   See you later and tell you all about it.

Betty Boop

DONE AND DONE

Yes.  I kind of slept in this morning since I reran the play half of the night and kept waking up.  As I remember, I have done this with the other plays.  Just can't put it to bed.  You all may think this is silly.  But believe me this was a BIG thing to me.  Thanks for all the support and understanding.  I just hope I did not embarrass you too much.

Now on to camping.  I think the weather will be to our liking.  A touch of Fall.  I am excited to be going back to Roosevelt again.  Truman and I spent many great camping trips there .  With family as well as Good Sam campers. Most of our grandchildren were small then.  It is a good family campground.  But I have many good memories also of Askew's Landing near Edwards.  How about you?

Betty Boop

BUGLE ??????

Oh dear, what is this?  I was handed a  beautiful brass bugle(a real one} just before our dress rehearsal yesterday afternoon.  My it was heavy.  I had to pretend to blow it at the proper time during BOOGIE WOOGIE BUGLE  BOY.  I do not remember what I did and I hope whatever it was that I can do better tonight.  Whew!  Shirley is known for last minute changes.  I just hope everyone that I know who sees it will not be too embarrassed .  When Shirley got through with that "clown" makeup AND WIG you may not recognize me anyway.  It is all in fun and none of us are pros, so bear with us. 

In the mist of packing and thinking about our October campout, and the PLAY, I have been too busy.  Hope to relax at the camp this weekend. 

Betty Boop

ANOTHER GREAT SATURDAY

Have you ever made French toast my way?  I got a weird loaf of whole wheat bread that was not sliced right.  Twice as thick as it was supposed to be.  Just right for French toast.  I beat an egg added a little half and half, salt and pepper.  I soaked the bread and browned it in the skillet which I sprayed with olive oil spray.  Browned it till crisp on both sides and used sugar free syrup.  With a little turkey bacon and hot tea and less sugar orange juice, I had a very good breakfast and good for me.  It kind of took the place of pancakes--kind of. 

Guess who came to lunch?  Brody --and he brought Jan and Cary.  That child is a treasure.  From being entertained by my little singing bird that Linda brought me, to loving to push the button at the elevator, to saying WOW! when Bobbie set his lunch before him.  We enjoyed trading pieces of fruit to drinking all his milk and most of a grilled cheese  sandwich, And when he finished he wanted to go outside.  A nice tour of the golf course and croquet field and then down to the Pier for a look at the LAKE,  He greeted everyone and paused to talk with a couple who found him delightful.  A quick goodbye and he was on his way to nap-land.  I know he was tired because he had also been to Wellfest earlier.   With a wave and a quick trip back to give us a hug. He was then on his way. How sweet is that?

Hard to follow that but a nap for me did it. 

Betty Boop

SPIDER LILY

Amy called a while ago and said she was bringing me something.  When she came she not only brought me a luscious looking stuffed bell pepper for my supper., but a Spider Lily.  We had so many on Riverwood.  Truman would separate the bulbs after every blooming season and plant them and give them away too.  We had them coming up all over the back yard and front too.  What  sight.  We had them on Meadow Ridge too.  Leon gave them to us.  So they really did get around.  It has been so dry that they are having a hard time coming up this year.  Amy had two   so far to come up and she brought me one.  How perfect is that?  It is like I say about roses--one is better than a dozen at a time.  Brought back memories so sweet. 

I have spent the day doing laundry and taking care of little problems.  Business and otherwise.  So I think it has been a good day.  Here is to a good night.

Betty Boop

GUEST TODAY

M. G. called to say she could come to lunch and was I available?  Of course I was.  She brought Ryan and Amy too.  It was perfect on the Terrace overlooking the Lake.  The weather was almost cool with a small wind blowing.  We had a very good visit.  Since Ryan is the boss, he can take off as long as he wants.  I guess M. G. has a little "pull" too because she took her time from work too.  And of course these "free lance " people are lucky too.  I am the lucky one to have them come and enjoy lunch.  It is what I do since I don't really have a house anymore.  This is now my home and I like it this way.  Just step up and order what you want and have it served, with a smile, and no dishes to wash.  How sweet is that.  I really like the  Cyber but the dinning room is good too. 

I am reading a good book on my Nook.  Jan sat right here at my computer and checked out two for me from the Madison Library .  Now that is nice.  Two weeks and they fade off.  The book is Water for Elephants.  About the Circus during the early days and is so interesting.  I still like to actually hold a book in my hands but I am enjoying the Nook too.............I go on and on about nothing.  Second night of DANCING WITH THE STARS  tonight.  Don't call me during that time because I wont answer. 

Betty Boop

MY LATEST POEM FOR VILLAGER

DANCING WITH THE STARS

 

Oh, I can hardly wait.

I'm as excited as can be.

I can't be late.

Their fate I long to see.

 

Hurry through my dinner,

Sit down to watch T.V.

Who will be the winner?

Just can hardly wait to see.

 

Twirling around the dance floor,

In costumes so revealing.

Oh, this show I do adore.

My excitement, I'm not concealing.

 

It's so easy to entertain me.

DANCING WITH THE STARS comes to mind,

Give me some slack, Oh Gee!!!!

Kick up your feet, enjoy and un-wind.

 

Dot Ellis

Creative Writers Group

September 2015

SATURDAY MORNING

I sound like a broken record, but I can't believe another week has passed and it is the middle or more into September.  I just had breakfast in the Cyber.  I have sworn off pancakes.  Really!!  The are not worth the misery they cause me.  But egg over light. sausage patty. whole wheat toast and coffee went down very nice.  I really enjoy breakfast.  I remember a time when my Mother had to beg me to eat breakfast.  I was what she called a "picky eater."  Those days have faded into the past and now days, I love almost any kind of food.  Maybe I went too far into the other direction. 

My funny little reindeer I am making for Christmas  gifts are coming along good. 50 are now waiting for a hanger.  That has been decided and also a handmade gift card is in mind.  I put them away till later to finish as I have other irons in the fire so to speak.  I am glad to get this much done before Christmas.  Speaking of Christmas--it will come fast after next month.

I have this little stacked coffee cup that Peggy gave me long ago. because I liked Betty Boop even then.  Truman and I used to drink tea from it.  He made it all the time and I enjoyed that.  The top is her face and arms and the bottom is her dancing legs and short frilly skirt.  He always gave me the top and he took the bottom half.  This morning I brought a second cup of coffee up from breakfast and drank from my  Betty Boop cup. I  think she looked surprised to see coffee instead of tea in her cup.  I drank it in the Bubble and watched a duck--diving for its breakfast.  Truman called those ducks di-dapples.  Don't think that is the official name but they are fascinating, how long they can stay under.

Good start to the day and Jan is coming for lunch.

Betty Boop

BUSY

Been so busy(for me.)  Things keep coming, ready or not.  Could it possibly be that I am slowing up?  Nah!!  If I slow up I may have trouble keeping up. As I pick up my step going down the hall, I am looking for someone to say "my, you look busy."  If you don't keep looking "busy", someone will surely ask what is wrong.  Another reason to keep busy.  If I stop or slow up, I may never get back to speed.  Lot to think about when you are 88 and counting. I am really a little concerned about the "play."  It has been hard and a little disorganized to me.  With only two more practices, it does not look like we will be ready.  Get ready for "silly" for that is what you are going to get!!!

Oh what a beautiful morning!!  Mild and sunny. I want Fall to come.  I remember a minister we once had who liked to quote this little saying.:

When it's hot
We want it cold.
When it's cold,
We want it hot
Never satisfied.
With what we've got.
Always wanting
What is not.

Betty Boop





So very true. 
Betty Boop

MONDAY,MONDAY

What can I say about Monday. Fresh start?  Plenty to do? or DANCING WITH THE STARS  starts a new season1!!!!.  Of course BIG BANG  comes on next Monday on a different  channel but at the same time slot.  Since I am not prepared to record, I will have to do the old fashioned way and click back and forth.  Must see them both.  I don't have that many favorites, it is my luck that they are at the same time.  Oh well, so forth, and so on and what have you.  Worse things can happen. 

I just made some tuna salad.  I like my own better than SCV's.  So lunch is coming up and Nap and then to Choir practice.  Out to dinner with friends in the dinning room.  So I had better get going.

Betty Boop

SUNNY SUNDAY

Sunny and cool too.  My it feels good.  I know summer is not over for us but it feels good to get a preview of what's to come.  Lunch after church with Sophie, Paul, Amy, and M. G,  Ryan was sick and we missed him.  I am so blessed that they still want me to go with them.  Not all old "grannies" get to hang out with the young crowd.  I can't always  keep up with the conversation, because I have no idea sometime what they are talking about,  but I try.  Anyway, I took a nap and sat on the balcony and read a while and I actually got a little chilled. 

Today would have been Truman's birthday.  Amy remembered, and Jan and I talked about it yesterday.  He would have been 94.  All his years were good and I am glad he was so active right  up to the end.  Some people don't get that lucky.  I hope I do.  How about you? 
Betty Boop

SPLENDED SATURDAY

I don't know how but I slept till 7:00 Saturday morning, so I decided to fix my own breakfast, and take it easy.  When I go to the Café it is an effort to get decent looking early and that is why I did not rush. That's the reason most people don't go down-they hate to get "ready" early.  Jan came to visit and we had lunch on the terrace.  It was perfect.  We "Tarried on the Terrace" a long time.  Need to write a poem about that.  Always looking for a subject.  The water looked so pretty with a slight breeze and the sun reflecting.  Jan got her turkey burger fix with wonderful SC Cyber fries. I ventured out for something new(to me).  Santa Fe Salad.  Seasoned grilled chicken(the best), spring mix, diced tomatoes, avocados  roasted corn, pico de gallo and tortilla strips fried, with avocado ranch dressing.  It was different and I liked it.  We enjoyed a good visit and walked through the halls and met some people that she did not know and a few that she did know.  I am sure visiting with people here is different from what she is used to every day.  There is just something special about them. 

How about this cool snap?  Don't get too used to it, we will still have a little more summer to come.

Betty Boop

FIRE TRUCK FRIDAY

I had visitors yesterday.  Jan, Cary, and birthday boy Brody!!!.  He opened his present from me and declared FIRE TRUCK  WHOWWWW  Enough said,  We visited for a while and we walked (raced Jan) down the halls so I could show him off.  He did me proud with speaking to everyone and saying and waving and saying Bye to everyone.  He surprised this one person when she asked how old are you.  He quickly threw up two fingers and said "Two".  He was very charming and cute.  We walked out on the newly floored pier and learned a new word.  He is always learning and it is fascinating.  I was warmed by Cary's statement..  She wished he could have played and explored our Riverwood back yard.  She imagined he would have loved it.  I do too. 

Not much else happened except I got a much needed hair cut.  Glad to get that done.  It makes me feel so much better. 

Betty Boop

LUNCHEON

You probably would just as soon not to hear about the luncheon, but here it goes.  It was a lot of fun.  I think it was 15 or 16 tables decorated by residents.  And all were very pretty.  So many different themes.  People who saved their favorite things when they had to downside had some beautiful things to work with.  The table I sat at was very elegant and pretty.  Hard to describe.  It looked like Fall with the colors.  A beautiful ceramic pumpkin set in fall netting.  Oh I can't do it justice.  Not good at it.  Anyway they were all so different, you would have to be there.  It was brunch food.  Fresh fruit of blueberries, strawberries and my favorite watermelon.  The quiche was filled with cheese, ham and bacon, and mushrooms and very good.  Also a orange muffin.  And lemon layer cake for dessert (which I only had a bite)  and coffee.  Michael Dan Colbert sang and played nice music that we all know and love.  People were really dressed chic mostly , not too much shabby.  But the shabby was a little overdone of course. But that is fun too.   There was talk by Shirley that some suggested we have another one around Christmas and serve pancakes and come in pajamas.  Oh my. kind  of hope that one does not get off the ground. I have not had pajamas since I was a child and my gowns are "see" through!!!She later said maybe we could come in our robes.  Even there I look like Raggedy Ann.  We will see how this works out.

Betty Boop

IN THE MEANTIME

I am going to the Shabby Chic luncheon in a little while and will tell you about it later.  In the meantime, read my newest poem that I submitted. 

NEVER OUT OF SEASON.

 

Watermelon is luscious and sweet.

A fruit that I crave.

Such a wonderful treat.

Of it's merits I rave.

 

I ask for it everywhere.

Sometime I find it too.

I am a sad affair.

But what to do?

 

I could eat it every day.

How crazy is that?

Whatever the cost, I'll pay.

To watermelon, I tip my hat.

 

No word will rhyme with it.

I love for words to rhyme.

This poem must be a hit,

Or it's just a waste of time.

 

Dot Ellis

Creative Writers Group

September 2015

BUSY (for me) DAY

Busy day but fun when it starts with ham and eggs in the Cyber.  I had Exercise class, fun people, then up to apartment to grab my stuff for the play practice.  I can see a glimmer of success that it  will come together soon.  But it has been harder than usual.  Hard to lip-sync.  But practice makes perfect or almost perfect.  I had lunch in my apartment then a nap, then Creative Writers group.  I don't know how long this group will last.  Only three left.  No new people are interested.  O well.  So forth and so on and what have you?

I got a peek in the Activity room at what is going on for tomorrow.  Shabby Chic Luncheon.  We were invited to do tablescapes.  I did not try it.  They were looking so interesting and some very pretty.  I saw one with a small bottle tree as the centerpiece with pretty blue bottles.  I remember my yard tree on Riverwood.  Now it has a good home with Sophie and Paul and I am glad.  I guess I will dress in between shabby and chic, just to be safe.  No contest (thank goodness.)  By the way tablescapes is not in the dictionary.  Made up by who?  Don't know.  So I spelled it like I wanted to.

Betty Boop

OTHER PEOPLES BLOGS

 I love other peoples Blogs.  Today I liked Sophie's.  She told about their trip to Fairhope, Alabama.  Her pictures and story made you want to go there.  Not only is she trained and educated to write, she has lots of talent.  I also like Amy's blog.  She does pictures too but her descriptions and great.  To tell a story this way is such a talent.  I received three different comments today on my poems and essays for the VILLAGER.  I don't know if my readers are good judges or if they just don't have anything else to do, but I take it with pride and humility. 

Our Labor Day lunch here was uneventful.  Betty and I decided since we had never ordered Polish sausage before we would try something different.  Well as far as we could tell. it was only a big fat hot dog on a white bun.  Of course I took mine off of the bread and covered it with grilled onions (pretty good) and ketchup. and cut it in bites.  I got by.  But my downfall was the homemade pecan pie.  I came home and went to bed and slept two hours.  I don't know if it was really asleep or passed out. but when I woke my blood sugar was 178.  High but not danger zone which is over 200.  I am not saying it was worth it, but it sure was good.  But I see I can not handle it and I should avoid that much sugar at a time.  It takes will power and sometime I am weak.  Betty Boop

SUPER SATURDAY

Have I used that title before.  Who remembers, it was a super Saturday.  Joe and Linda came through going to Pensacola for the weekend and spent Friday night with me.  Good excuse for a little party so I invited the "old" folks to breakfast this morning.  Short but sweet as the saying goes and I think we all enjoyed it very much. 

Jan stayed and helped me put some books on my NOOK.  We are getting better and better at this.  One free one from Barnes and Noble and two from Madison Library.  All done just sitting here in my little office.  I feel all set for reading.  Jan never gives up.  I was tired when we finished.  She did all the work, so why was I tired? 

I delivered a few new FIND IT IN FONDREN magazines.  I will do more later. Sure is a great issue.  It gets better all the time.  Such creativity.  How nice to work at something you love to do.  Better go now and think about a little supper. 

BettyBoop  

MOST TALENTED

What a way to start the day.  Ham and eggs in the Cyber.  Good.  When I got on the elevator with a friend to go home, she said "If we had a talent contest here at SCV for the most talented, I would vote for you."  Boy did my head swell.  My family knows how hard I have worked to be busy and to make a difference, but talent?  You snicker behind your hands I know.  My friend had just read the new VILLAGER where I had three pieces published.  I guess it says a lot for the people out here.  We are proud of everyone.  Well, I do write poems that relate to us, essays that are just plain true and silly, I am an actress of sorts (play coming up), make and  give zillions of flowers to many on lots of times in their lives, keep the "entrance table " up to date and I think pretty, give out many hugs and smiles each day plus I join committees that interest me. I do see a little talent there.  But nothing that anyone could do if they only put out the effort.  I do enjoy many things that I do.  Truman used to push me to do more, wish he could see me now.  He always said I had talent, I just did not use it.  Oh well, I am trying now and please be kind to me and tell me I am O.K.  Betty Boop

Good Tuesday

Always good with Amy.  She boost me up, even though I know that is what she is doing.  I guess everyone needs that.  She took me on an errand out on Lakeland.  Before that we had lunch here in the Cyber.  I think she likes to be the youngest there.  Why not?  As she told you, I am up to my ears in wooden  clothespins that will I hope turn into reindeer ornaments by Christmas.  Since I am making 40 to 50. I decided to get a head start.  I really love a project.  They will be a little silly but fun. 

I also wrote a poem and an essay yesterday.  I am seeped in creativity lately.  Practicing for the play too.  My, my I do love to brag. Well got to go and see what this day will bring.  Hope it brings MORE rain.  We had a nice one late yesterday afternoon.  Much welcomed.

Betty Boop

GOOD BYE AUGUST

Today, Monday, is the last day of August.  I say good!!!  Maybe September will be better weather wise.  I would love to see an all day rain.  I would love that.  Since I usually don't have to get out in it, it is real comforting to see just a slow rain and dark clouds. 

We are getting spoiled by M. G. and Ryan fixing Sunday lunch for us.  Yesterday they had ribs.  They were so tender and good.  She makes a mean potato salad and baked beans too.  They do it together so I am not sure who gets the credit, but they are so sweet and nice to do this.  They make me feel at home and so welcome. 

I have started my Christmas project.  Little presents for my SCV friends.  I realize I am never happier than when I have a project in the works.  Paint and glue and creating something even though it is totally useless, is satisfying.  Go figure.

Betty Boop

SAD SATURDAY

Sad because Jan is out of town again.  Let me see if I can turn that around.  I am glad she has friends that need her.  How wonderful to have so many.  To have a friend-you have to be one and that says a lot for her.  So I had breakfast at the Cyber.  With blood sugar under control. I again broke down and had one pancake and a scrambled egg.  I am weak about pancakes.  Hope for the best.  Another thing I have a weakness for is watermelon.  Of course that is a good thing if I don't eat too much at a time.  My Daddy loved it too.  I have had it on my mind since the season is almost over, and a poem is running around in my brain.  I am going to try to coral it today.  First I must pay my bills.  I hate that but am glad for the training Truman gave me.  I used to pay all the bills and we would reconcile the bank statement together.  Another task I tried to put off, but he would not hear of that.  Thank you my love for teaching me what I know about all that stuff.  He got a kick out of having me write the BIG checks like when we would buy something big like a car or appliances.  I thought he was being nice to me but he really was impressing on me what things cost.  I know  that now.  It hurts to part with my resources.  Glad I have them, every day. 

I realize I go on and on sometimes, but this blog is like a journal --full of my thoughts.  Hope you don't mind reading them.

Betty Boop

DIFFERENT LUNCH LADIES.!!!! Better

I was headed down to the Cyber to eat lunch, and on a whim I decided to take another chance at tablemates.  Had a delightful time this time.  I vaguely knew two of them and  they were nice.  But I knew the fourth one.  Joy is just like her name.  She was going to be one of the Andrew Sisters with me, but on checking the time of the play she had to cancel.  I was so disappointed.  She sings in the Choir and does solos.  But I was happy for her because she is going to Hawaii.  Not only that, but her two daughters are going with her.  They are taking a ship out and going to four Islands on the ship.  Nice sounding tour.  We talked about our trip there and why Truman loved it.  The only thing she did not like about it was the tour did not include a trip to the Arizona memorial.  That was a highlight of our trip.  Such a moving memory.  Anyway we kept the conversation going.  We both agreed when I told her how wonderful she could go with two daughters.  I told her I was happy to say that how much I enjoyed the friendship I have with my daughters and not just a mother-daughter thing.  She agreed and said she was looking forward to being with them.  So lucky.
Well while "Willie" is singing to me, I think I will go read  a while.

Betty (Lucky) Boop

LITTLE OF THIS AND A LITTLE BIT OF THAT

In other words, she has little to say, but here goes anyway.  As you know Tuesday usually is a bore.  Change sheets, put up delivered laundry, wash personal clothes, wash hair, listen to sentimental music as I work, sometime not a good idea.  I think I told you about the time I had my CD set to play Tennessee Waltz as Truman came home from work?  I grabbed him as he walked in and turned the CD on and we waltzed.  To say he was surprised was an understatement, to say the least, but being who he was, he went along with it.  It is such a vivid memory.  I sometime wonder if he remembered it.  I like to think he did.  O. K. shut the door to the Memory Bank. 

I am having dinner with Midge Salvo.  She invited me and although I like her a lot, I would rather have lunch than dinner.  "But I rarely turn an invitation down.  It fills my time and sometime fills it nicely. "  Bet you thought that  was a wise old saying?  Sure was--mine.

Betty Boop

SUNNY SUNDAY

Always a sunny day when I get to be with my Sunday buddies.  We were invited to Ryan and M. G.'s home to lunch.  My favorite Gyros.Mmmmmm  so good.  I love to be quiet and listen.  My stuff is not near as interesting as theirs, so I keep most to myself. 

I called T. this morning and spilled my worry about the stock market falling.  It was devastating to Truman when we lost a substantial amount of money during the last big fall.  This one seems  to be as bad.  Yet I must be still and wait.  I told him I guess I needed to cut back and not be so easy to spent and yet that is not going to happen.  It would only be a drop in the bucket, yet I feel like I could be more conservative. As always he made me feel better.  I don't know what I would do with out his support.  Truman was right when he told me to "Always ask Tommy."

I am having lunch with my usual "night ladies".  I like to eat a main meal at lunch time anyway.  So off I go.  Better tomorrow{I hope)

Betty Boop 

FAVORITE FRIDAY

What a lovely start to Friday.  Jan usually comes on Saturday, but since she was going out of town later Friday. she hatched a way for us to have our visit anyway.  She came for breakfast at 7:30 instead.  At that time of day it was perfect on the Terrace and since I have made such good friends with the cook, she took good care of us.  It was truly fun and we intend to do it this way again.

Now for a Lame Lunch!!  I took my chances and did not arrange for anyone to eat with.  Sometime that is great--sometime not.  Why is it that some people can not leave Ole Miss and Oxford in the past.  I get it that they think highly of themselves, but wait till the table is full of your kind.  I was completely left out.  I skipped dessert and (that was a good thing) and excused myself, since I could not take it anymore.  I was nice about it but I felt sorry for them.  Now I  feel better!!!!  not really, disregard my snippy comments.



Betty  Boop

HI HO

                                                         hi ho, hi ho, hi ho,

it's off to wa=lmart I go

bought stuff=then a little more

my, my what a big store.

 

 

Yes the time comes when I can't put it off.  Needed some things I could not do without.  So this was a good "cool" morning and off I went.  The remodeling of the store has relocated almost everything, so it takes a little long to find what I want.  But I managed to buy plenty.  I may not have to go back for a while.  And then maybe I will be right there again soon. 

 

I have enjoyed the sunflowers Amy gave me from the church on Sunday.  Everyone who passes them in the hall and that I see, has told me how pretty they are.  Finally I thought they had done their best=all but one beautiful one left and I brought it to  my apartment and put it in a blue bud vase.  Looks so pretty.  I put artificial sunflowers in the hall. I put them in an old grey and blue pot my Mother used in her kitchen.  I believe she whipped cream in it.  In fact I know she did because that was one job she let me do.  An old crank turned whip was not a lot of fun.  You might can tell why she did not want me in the kitchen too much.  I am sure I was a "pill." so to speak.

 

Enough of this chatter.

 

Betty Boop

WONDERING WEDNESDAY??????

I just got back from play tryouts.  And I am wondering just what I have gotten into NOW?  I think I mentioned it is called RADIO SHOW.  Thank goodness all my parts are lip sync.  However that is going to take a lot of practice too.  Can I be one of the Andrew Sisters, singing BOOGIE WOOGIE BUGLE BOY?  and RUM AND COCA COLA?  And also a slew of commercials?  It sounds like a challenge.  But I plan to try, because I have such a good time, just like everyone else.  At least it will be different.  And nostalgic.  We all love that part.  We have some new people to try out and that is good.  I will be at practice every Wednesday morning till September 30.  I think I got the date right.  Actually we are going to do it three times.  Hope you can come to one performance. 

Now for a little lunch and nap.

Betty Boop

TYPICAL TUESDAY? NO

Amy is the Queen of Surprises.  We had a plan to go to North Park Mall this morning;  In she walks with Ivy in tow.  A very nice surprise.  We had not been to the Mall in a while, so we were excited.  I was in need of some essentials.  We all looked and bought and got tired.  Amy had been wanting Chick-Filet and we justified it by finding out they served whole-wheat buns now.  It was soooo good.  They make the best coleslaw of anybody.  A diet Dr. Pepper finished it off.  It was fun to be with Ivy.  She seemed to enjoy being with us.  There we were ==three generations having fun together. 

Hey  I just looked out the window and we are having one of those rare scattered showers.  Wonderful.

Betty Boop

MOMDAY MONDAY

Doesn't seem like it should be-but it is.  My lunch was a tad different today than Sunday.  I had actually one of my favorites.  I used to eat this when Truman was not at home for lunch.  A small can of pork and beans with a hot dog sliced up in it with ketchup.  A salad of just lettuce and mayo.  A slice of whole wheat bread buttered and a diet coke.  How about  that.  Simple but good.

I just finished going through all the sympathy cards I have saved since Truman died.  I thought it was time to let them go.  Not a good idea in a way because it caused me pain to remember those first days after.  But I made it through and I know it will be o.k.  I realized that I have come a long way. 

Now to dinner with my "girl" friends.  We have a good time.

Betty Boop

SPLENDID SUNDAY

Splendid indeed.  I am so lucky every Sunday to go to church with Amy and then to have lunch with some of my grandchildren.  Today it was M. G. and Ryan.  They chose Anjous and that was good by me.  I had the best Quiche Lorraine I have ever tasted.  So perfect that I can not even describe it.  The service was very good and the company made it perfect.

Amy brought a huge bunch of sunflowers for the Alter at church.  So simple and beautiful  Everyone loved them.  I got to bring 5 home with me.  Now everyone who passes my spot in the hall will get a thrill from them.  It is something special about sunflowers.  I remember in traveling going through Indiana or Iowa, can't remember exactly, and seeing fields of them blooming.  They grow them for the seeds.  But what a sight.  Brought to mind us driving through Michigan and lucking up on where they grow tulips for the bulbs.  They were having s festival and every yard of Holland Michigan was planted with tulips.  We saw fields of tulips, all kinds and colors.  I will never forget how beautiful they were.  In our RV traveling, we often were surprised at the things unexpected that we discovered.  That is one good thing about traveling that way.  I am glad I got to travel many different ways.  From POSH to ordinary. T, and I loved it all.  More memories from the Memory Bank or better named-Bank of Memories. 

Betty Boop

END OF FRIDAY

The end of Friday was so good that I needed to tell you about it.  Amy called and said she was stopping by for a visit and a surprise.  What on earth, I wondered.  Soon a loud knocking at my door and in burst Amy, M. G. and the surprise--Sophie!!  The girl who does not get to visit much because she is always working.  How nice to see her.  Amy had arranged a day for her with lost of fun things,  It was her last day before school started and she had a vacation day off.  Getting back into the routine is stressful at the first of the semester. New students and new parents.  I bet it can be hard.  Anyway they made my day with their visit.

SATURDAY:

I just got back from breakfast.  I enjoyed it alone.  I tried a pancake again, but just one with a scrambled egg.  Maybe I will get by since my sugar was way under control this morning.  The temperature being nice and it was early. so I took my coffee down to the  gazebo and watched to Canada geese come in.  I don't know where they sleep.  I have read they roost in trees, but they seem so big for that.  A lot I don't know.  It was so nice close to the water.  With Jan out of town, I am floundering and wondering what to do with myself this morning.  So I will follow my own advice.  "Be still, and wait."  I know something will appear.

Betty Boop

BEAUTY and the BEAST

First the beauty.  I sat in the Bubble after Exercise class to eat a snack of a half a banana spread with a bit of peanut butter,  YUMMM.  The lake was almost like glass, not much breeze, no ducks in sight,  All of a sudden a beautiful blue heron flew right over my sight.  So graceful, yet so big.  He soared away leaving me in a thankful place for having been blessed to see such a beautiful sight.   Oh the sights of SCV.

Now the Beast side.  I took lemon poppy seed muffins that I made.  Someone else brought three berry cake.  One guy who is really not a beast  enjoys the treats.  He is more like a gentle giant. He is   really a bit - no- a lot overweight.  Loves sweets.  He finished 4 pieces of cake and a muffin.  He reached for another and my friend Betty said "No you have already had enough!!"  His brother who also lives here just quietly picked up another portion of sweets and calmly laid it on his napkin.  I guess that is brotherly love?  or not?  Any way, he may weigh 300 pounds but he is happy. 

Oh the scenes of St. Catherine.
Betty Boop

CLEANSING but NOSTALGIC

Do you ever have a day when you are free of appointments, meetings, household duties, and more?  Today I wondered what to do  that I could tell you about.  The drawers to my little antique whatever it is, was over flowing with cards.  I love them and hate to throw them away.  But there comes a time when you must clean out.  I went through a zillion of them.  Saved just since Truman died.  I did not yet go through the sympathy cards. I will save that for another day as they are in a basket by themselves.  These were Birthday cards and others too.  I enjoyed them over again,  Spent the entire morning doing this.  I have a big bag to take to the trash.  They are not trash exactly but treasures.  Oh me, I am  hard to handle.  I just could not part with some from my family.  So I saved a few and put them in piles of who they came from.  I even found three Valentines from Truman.  Don't know how they found their way in with the more up to date ones.  So even though I am discarding a lot, I still have a lot I saved.  I do feel productive but yet it was something I really did not have to do. But  I feel better either way. 

I just warmed up spaghetti and meatballs from the freezer that Amy brought.  With a salad and my home made applesauce with sugar-free ice cream, I am set for that ever loving nap.  Betty Boop

GUEST TODAY

Tommy and I enjoyed the morning.  He came to the History Club here yesterday.  We listened to a lecture on Harry Truman and the beginning of the end of WWII.  There will be a part 2 in October.  The speaker, who is a resident, will be traveling during September so we will have to wait for the rest of the story till October.  We had lunch in the Cyber and enjoyed a nice visit. 

As I told Tommy, the rest of my day would consist of a nap and a little light ironing.  And that is just all that happened the rest of the day.  The last part sounds boring maybe, but it was just as most people's is--just ordinary.  Nothing wrong with that. 

Betty Boop
P. S.  I like reading in Proverbs.  Here is one for today:  Proverbs 14: 23  "Work and you will earn a living:  If you sit around talking you will be poor."  TRUE  Dot

HISTORY CLASS TODAY

Tommy is coming to the History Club today.  A topic of interest:  President Harry Truman.  Should be interesting.  As a late teen at the time, I was not too interested in the WW11 except for the sailor boy I liked a lot.  No not Truman, he came later and also was a sailor just out of the Navy when I met him.  But I digress.  Tommy is interested in the history and I hope he enjoys it. 

I did not see many people as I went to the Cyber for breakfast.  Could be because it was just 7:30.  I like it that way.  The ones I saw were mostly employees and they all had a spring in their step because on the way to work a few sprinkles were falling.  It does change your mood to think maybe this streak of no rain and high, high temps may let up.

Have you ever been aware of "Angels"?  I   have.  There is this one cook who works in the dinning room  that I run into almost every morning if I go down early .She always checks in the Cyber.  She seeks me out for a hug and a good word about how God made this beautiful day or something like that.  She always gives me a hug and wishes me a "Blessed Day."  How wonderful to be on the receiving end.  I give a lot of hugs and good wishes to certain people every day and always receive a blessing from them, but I have a feeling she is special for me.  Have s blessed day and give out a few hugs.  Who knows ---  You may be some ones "Angel" for today.

Betty Boop

90th Ellis Reunion

Yes the Reunion has been going on 90 years with very little breaks.  Maybe two time when it did not meet.  Although it is good and enjoyed by all. it is a little sad also.  I realized I was the oldest one there and the last in this generation except for one in Texas who is in a nursing home.  Mike did a good job of remembering the past and I realized over again what a wonderful family they  are.  I should say, we, because I am a part even though I had to marry one to be one.  I am sure there are many families like us, who have been friends for all these years, and every one is dear to me.  I realize the love and patience it takes to achieve such harmony.  I am sure over these years, not everything was or is perfect but I am glad for the respect and love we show to each other.  Not as many there as usual. but the food was just as good as it always is.  I missed Cecil's chicken and dumplings.  I  of course missed Truman.  I don't know who loved the reunion the most,  Truman or his Mother.  There were two things Truman expected of his children and there was no excuse.  We always went to Church and the Ellis Reunion.  I don't think our children thought of it any other way..  Hope to be there next year.  How about you all?

Betty Boop

BIG CLOSET SALE

Instead of telling you about the sale--I wrote a poem about it.  From my point of view. 

I rush down the crowded Hall.
With my pocket full of money.
Clear the way you'all
It is also very funny.

Just look at all the stuff!!!
Things from peoples past.
Of this I have enough.
Clearing out is indeed tough.

Oh! I need that blue angel for my collection.
And paper cocktail napkins too.
A picture for reflection,
Make me happy-how about you.

The proceeds go for a good cause,
I keep telling myself.
The thought makes me pause,
As I put treasures on my shelf.

Dot Ellis   August 2015

And another quote,  I am better at this than my own words.

Robert Fulghum has written:  The grass is not, in fact, greener on the other side of the fence .  Fences have nothing to do with it.  The grass is greenest where it is watered."

So I say, try to bloom where you are, but keep on the sunny side when possible.  Here I go preaching again.  This time it is more to me.

Betty Boop

CLOSET SALE

Yes, I went, just because it is fun.  I did not see much that I could not do without.  I spent the grand total of $1.00.  But here you get a  LOT FOR A BUCK.    I bought a package of unopened Christmas cocktail paper napkins.  Just like I am having a cocktail party.  Also a little 4 inch clay angel to add to my collection.  She is singing with the others just now, so I guess that is going to work out.  Also two ceramic raccoons.  Don't laugh.  I bought them to use on the table at the entrance to my hall.  You know the one I keep up.  I have about run out of things like that to display.  I like to accent the flowers or whatever I put there.  So 25 cents for each item, and I did not break the bank.  The fun is to watch the people, who will quickly tell you that they should be selling or giving away instead of collecting more stuff.  I agree but it is still fun to get a bargain.  Right Sophie?  Of course your mother takes pictures of her finds, which is the smart thing to do. 

Lunch with three dear friends was good. Nap.  Did a little ironing and now a little reading.  I tell you all these mundane things so you will know I am staying busy, entertained and out of trouble.

Betty Boop

GETTING READY

I mean we are getting ready for a giant closet sale.  We have one two times a year.  I had nothing to contribute, but it looks like some people did.  It takes two days and many helpers to get it ready.  Everything is canceled that usually is in the Activity Room. They wont let anyone in that is not working.  We can see through the glass doors and the anticipation is building.  Like anyone here has room for anything else in their apartment!!  I love to go and see and buy maybe $2.00's worth.  Everything is so cheap and you get a lot for your buck.  It is just fun to me. 

The early coffee club(not mine) usually meet in the Activity room --so they , some of them, were in the Cyber when I went to breakfast.  You know why I like breakfast there.  Because it is a very quiet,not many people, not much conversation sort of thing.  This morning it was too noisy and I had to be a part of too many conversations.  Oh well, I guess I should eat in my room if I want quiet and no conversation.  I learned more than I wanted to know about this one lady's life and it was not very good.  Oh well. she talked till I got on the elevator and I was glad when the door closed.  How nice is that?  Not very. 

Sweetly Be,
Betty Boop

SUNNY SUNDAY

And I really mean "sunny."  100 degrees and no help in sight.  August is starting out like July.  HOT!!  Stay inside is my advice, if you can.  I can.  Of course there are exceptions.  Church and lunch with whatever bunch I can.  Yesterday it was to Mr. Chen"s  for us.  I like the food there.  They have such good shrimp and veggies.  Amy, Paul, Sophia, M. G. and Ryan and me.  I have trouble hearing it all and keeping up, but I still enjoy just being with them.

Jan came in the afternoon and even though
 she claims to be computer illiterate, I think she is computer savvy. She has the determination and patience to get it right. She reads directions well.  She spent a whole afternoon with me trying to get books from the Madison Library on my Nook.  I now have three to read.  How wonderful, I did not go there to get them and I don't have to take them back.  All done electronically .  How about that for progress.  There is still something good to say about the "old" way, but I will move into the new age with grace and be thankful. 

Quote for the day: "Hey I did not know you are 88.  You pass me in the hall going so fast that you almost blow me over.  I am 87 and I can't move that way."  Needless to say, it made my day.

Betty (speedy" Boop

SUPER SATURDAY

I had lunch at Jan and Tommy's house.  Guess who else was there?  Yes Brody had spent the night with them and I got to go over for a visit and lunch.  Cary and David's anniversary was being celebrated by them.  Brody was playing in the carport and he had a broom sweeping the leaves away.  A broom just his size was being used with great care.  Of course he brought out the big box of sand and did all sorts of things there,  Life is so simple when you are that size.  He is such a good and calm child, due to the way they are brings him up.  I have always thought you do not have to scream and be rough with a child to make it work.  They certainly prove that point to me. 

Reunion coming up.  I am not really looking forward to it.  It has gotten so sad with so many gone.  But time marches on and we must keep up.

Betty Boop

SO-SO DAY

I did not enjoy breakfast very much.  They got my order wrong, even though I was the only one there..  They were out of whole wheat bread so I took a biscuit even though I know it is bad for my sugar and I ordered  sausage and got bacon. I just did not feel like sending it back.  I was anxious to leave anyway.  Joseph, the kind maintenance man,  was in there early doing some touch up painting  I  guess it is hard to fine a good time for that.  I am sure he had started very early.  It was not too pleasant so I was in a hurry to finish.  Hey the coffee was good!! So I found something good to say about breakfast and as usual it is always good to have someone prepare it.

Now lunch was better.  In the dinning room, I ate with three others that I did not know very well and that was interesting.  I went because they had fried shrimp and oysters.  Yes I know, I do not eat much fried food, but just once is o. k.  I will walk this afternoon in hopes it will not cause me much trouble.  I feel like I am such a lot of trouble.  I have to think too much about what I eat. 

I spent time in the Bubble this morning writing.  An essay and some poetry.  I get inspired when I write there.  Well that is about it so far.  Hope the rest is good too.

Betty Boop