THE BUBBLE or my Duck Dynasty

More observations.  I was in the Bubble (my private sun room)  at least I claim it to be mine, since nobody else seems to use it as much as I do.  I even arrange flowers on the table.  Anyway, just now while having a cup of coffee, I observed the ducks.  They caught my imagination when I saw five in a row.  I am not kidding.  "Ducks In A row".  just ahead I saw a circle of five or six just hanging out an discussing the weather and how bad the fishing is.  Over to the right there was a big group trying to get organized, I think.  All of a sudden as if a command was given, they all turned West and started swimming like they were running from something or else to something.  That is the shallow end of the Lake.  Better feeding I presume.  Then just as sudden, they all turned and started up stream. 
getting to the middle they broke up in groups again, except they left one lonely duck behind.  I watched feeling sorry for him when in the far distance behind him, I saw her.  (I think it was "her".  )  They swam together and seemed to say, don't feel sorry for us.  O. K. I want but I know spring is coming pretty soon, maybe being a romantic, I hope they get together.  End of story. but not for publication please.

Betty Boop

OBSERVATIONS

I read somewhere that it takes a lot of living to reach old age. Well I guess I have lived a lot, because I  am fast approaching the ripe old age of 87.  Can't believe it.  Never thought I would make it--in fact I never thought much about the fact that I was traveling along, headed that way.  My thoughts were of being a little two year old and being the apple of my  parents eye.  I was dressed up like a doll all the time and "made over" by everyone.  I remember that.  I always seemed special to those around me.  I was so small and cute and smiled a lot.  I remember that.  I also remember never having to worry about being taken care of, even though I know now that my parents struggled during the "Depression" years.  Life was simple then.  I could even walk to downtown or ride the bus and not worry about safety.  Even when the WW11 went on, I was in the dark about what was happening.  On to work and marriage I had stability.  Wonderful memories of raising a family were made.  I know I have not achieved great things, things any one would remember but time did march on while my life unfolded and all of a sudden it seems ---I AM OLD.  How did I get here?  And why?  But Hey! here I am still going.  I am not depressed.  Nothing like that.  Just amazed.

Betty Boop

SUGAR CLEANSING

After reading Amy's blog this morning, I decided I needed to throw away some of these sweet devils I have gathered like they were needed provisions.  Of course I must keep it a secret from my good friends here, but out goes that giant Hershey Bar with almonds {groan{ two boxes of Russell Stover chocolates, milk chocolate truffles, peanut butter fudge, Bourbon balls, fruit cake.  Hey wait that has fruit in it.  Yes and lots and lots of sugar.  Out it goes too.  Now I saved a cocoon cookie and some plain sugar cookies that can be doled out one at a time when needed,  How sad, to throw away gifts but it is for my best.  Thank you Amy for giving me the courage and strength to do it.  We both will be better off.  Of course I must work off the treats I have already eaten.  I too just had a physical am waiting for results of blood test.  Wish me luck too..

Betty Boop

CHRISTMAS DAY

We had a wonderful day at Jan and Tommy's house.  With our little new member it was fun.  MG. is getting good at the turkey.  So tender and juicy.  Everything was perfect.  We have some good cooks for sure.  Starting tomorrow--I am cutting back big time.  I have so enjoyed the sweets and I know better, but I have overdone everything.  Anyway, that is part of Christmas.  I can't wait to start to undecorated.  I started too soon and now I am tired of it all.        Well I hope you all have a good New Year and everything will turn out the way you plan.  

Betty Boop

hello

CHRISTMAS GIFT   Gotcha!!!!

Christmas Eve

Can't believe it.  I have been thinking of past Christmas Eves.  I still remember as a child--it would never come.  There is no feeling like a child's.  So fresh and expectant.  I never remember learning about St. Nick and is he real?.  I guess I still partly still believe.  Because he stands for love and giving and we all believe in that.  Big FRIED CHICKEN  NIGHT.  That brings to mind my Mother.  She dearly loved having Christmas Eve at her house.  How she did all that so long I do not know.  She loved us all so much and in my later years, I know how much of her good influence she had on me.  I was blessed but like all children, I had to grow up to realize it.  I love my family too and am looking forward to being with you all.

Christmas Gift!!  {another learned tradition]
Betty Boop

SATURDAY

Usually Jan comes on Saturday but too much to do has taken it's toll. Christmas is almost here and everyone is busy.  I delivered my last "happie this morning.  Every time I open the door I find a happie for me.  Too bad most of it is sweet.  I am having a hard time with self control  My goodness I must at least taste it all.  How can I thank them if I did not at least taste it?  Poor excuse!
  I just got a huge naval orange--my what a relief.  Everyone is so nice to give so much and I am blessed.

Betty Boop

ALL DONE!!

With Vince Gill singing to me, I am relaxing because I am done with my shopping.  Of course the dishes I am to prepare for Christmas Eve and Day are not done yet/  Unless you count the KFC  Corneal-  He had better be ready when I call for the traditional fried chicken for Christmas Eve. 

Every time  I open the door, somebody has left a "Happie" for me.  So much fun.  Amy took me to my favorite place to shop for gifts this  morning--  ANTHROPOLOGIE.  It was fun and hard .  I was pleased with my purchases.  I saw a blouse I liked a lot.  Amy said to buy it.  It cost so much more than I am used to.  She said consider it from Truman.  That sealed it.  M. G. met us back here for lunch.  We sat outside on the terrace to eat.  So mild, but rain is in store for tonight.  A lot I hear.  It is just too warm for December. 

Later.
Betty Boop 

TOO BUSY

Dear readers. however you are. even I f  you are there, I have been too busy.  It does not seem that what I do could take all my time.  But I am exhausted.  I hear this everywhere I go.  It should not be that way or even feel that way.  But being human --it is.  I was too excited for our Choir program.  I think it was O. K.  Everyone said it was.  Tommy, Jan, Amy, and M. G. came.  Bless them.  Yesterday I went with Irene to her Christmas party.  They told me there that she might not go without a family member.  Can't blame her.  It was such a joy to go with her.  She enjoyed it and sang every song and ate great refreshments.  It was a beautiful party.  All the sisters, even Sister Dorothea and Mary Margaret and head of St. Dom's and so many more came to make it festive.  I was impressed.  My sweet little new friend, Eva, was sick and could not come.  I hope she is better today.  I am busy delivering all these cinnamon trees and stars.  Lord help me, why did I make so many.  I am glad for so many friends.  Little "hap pies" are showing up at my door and am thrilled to be remembered.  I am taking this day to try to finish delivering my gifts.

Betty Boop

Sunday

Church was good and upsetting too.  I must get my act together.  Believe me, I am trying.  Filling my thoughts and actions with so many great things, I should be O. K.  I will keep trying.  Full day.  Our Choir is singing tonight for Christmas.  Can't wait.  I love being a part of that group.  We share a lot of fun and hard work.  Lunch with Amy's lids always is good.  Even though I don't join in the conversation much, I am enjoying the fun and delightful banter that goes on.  Something good is to be said by just listening. 

Betty Boop

Company for Lunch

Peggy and Jan came to lunch.  She looks so good and I am so glad.  We enjoyed talking and eating together.  I can't believe it is almost Christmas.  I do not do as much gift giving as I used to and it is a little easier.  Jan said Karen and Kathy and families are going to come for Christmas Eve dinner.  I am looking forward to that.  We will miss Jack this year and Truman too.  Fried chicken will be on the tap as usual.  And a host of other good things.  My we eat too much.  But so good once in a while to have special things.  But the best part is being a "big" family together.  Right?  Yes. 

Betty Boop

FELL LIKE A MILLIOMAIRE

I just got back from our employees' Christmas party.  Food and music and the best part. I was delighted to be one of the givers of the gift  checks to our appreciated employees.  We have the best in the world.  They were all so  happy to receive generous checks.  I  felt blessed to do it.  I still have a hard time believing I live in such a wonderful place.  Thanks to Truman and to the good Lord, I am cared for.  Just wanted to share my Joy with someone.  Thanks for reading.

Betty Boop

P. S. for yesterday

I said bake at 300   I meant to say 200 degrees.  My whole apartment smells good.  mamaw

CINNAMON CHRISTMAS

I promised myself I would not get into such a detailed project.  When Amy suggested \this for me to give my friends I liked it a lot.  Now my apartment smells so like Christmas.  Cinnamon, applesauce, and  get ready--Elmer's glue come together with this wonderful dough that you roll out and cut like cookies.  I used Christmas tree and star cutters.  Put them on a baking tray and either let them dry for three days or oven at 300 degrees for about three hours.  I have already made two dozen and am making two to three dozen more.  You punch a hole with a straw to tie a ribbon and tag of greeting and your name.  They are going to be a hit (I hope)  because they smell so good and can hang anywhere.  Thank you Amy.  I needed you.  People still tell me they have kept my little coffee filter Angels and my beaded candy canes that I made the last two Christmases.  I can't believe it has been this long.  It seems like only yesterday that Truman and I were preparing for everyone to come.  I do the best I can and these new friends I have made, make it all worthwhile. 

Must go to an extra Choir practice in a little while.  We want to sing pretty for you.  Then back to making cinnamon trees and stars. 

Betty Boop

MERRY MONDAY

It was "merry' alright.  A little too much so.  I spent the morning signing gift checks for  the employees.  With three of us who could sign and they had to be co-signed, for 360 checks, well it took a long time.  I got hungry since it was one when we finished.  I rushed to eat lunch and had to be at an early choir practice at one thirty.  We were having a Christmas party at two thirty.  Went on the bus to the garden houses where this nice choir member opened her beautiful house to us.  It was so nice.  Food and wine was great.  Since I do not drink much anymore, the wine really hit me.  Only a half a glass sent me home like a rag.  I skipped church and dinner with friends and just relaxed.  I have been trying too hard to do too much.  As much as I hate it--I will have to pace myself better.  ZI decided not to go to the great Top O Dom party that The Sisters put on for us.  It is so nice and to see Jackson lit up at night from the top of St. Dominic's makes our city look large.  I have been to this party two years and I decided I did not want to go this time.  A day of rest and no pressure tonight should go a long way to get me going again. 

Betty Boop

SUNDAY

Cold and wet.  On the outside.  Warm and friendly in the inside.  Church was special today.  Amy and her committee outdid themselves.  It was beautiful.  Lunch with M. G. and Ryan at Biaggi"s That's Italian you know.  It was busy.  I had corn, lobster bisque.  It really was good and hit the spot.  Went to visit Truman and left beautiful Christmas flowers.  On to St. Cathrine's to rest and then to visit my usual friends in Seania.  I took Eva and Middie  little hand made angels like I made a couple of years ago out of coffee filters.  They are so cute and delighted them both.  I went to see Irene also.  Amy picked Ruby and me up to go to hear our Choir in their cantata.  It was called an APPALACHIAN WINTER.  Beautiful music with a small orchestra.  It filled the church with beautiful sounds.  We have a small choir with a few invited guest and they sounded really big.  I overheard a guest say if you did not have the Christmas spirit before--you have it now.  Music is so important to worship I think.  Well, what for today?  I am helping to sign the Christmas  gift checks to our employees.  They deserve it and I am proud to do this.  Then choir (with a choir party)  then Methodidt Church service and dinner with friends.  Life is good.

Thank You Lord
Betty Boop

SATURDAY

The weather outside is frightful.  The fire is so delightful.  Yes we have a fireplace in the lobby and it does not put out heat.  looks inviting but not warm.  I miss Truman enjoying bringing in wood and having a fire each night.  Just at night as we were not prone to just sit in front of the fire or TV during the day.  No not us.  We had to be doing something constructive !!  Not a bad thing really.  He always got a lot done.  I sort of would be hot and cold on that issue.  But you know what--I feel guilty just wasting time now.  Of course wasting time means a lot of things.    End of sermon.  Cold wet and staying that way.  Church will be good this morning and the choir will sing tonight.  I am looking forward to that.  I have heard a lot of great programs here this season and I have loved it all but our choir at church is small but so good.  Jan came yesterday We always enjoy catching up.  They were babysitting last night to let Cary and David shop.  Then fixing dinner for them.  Now that is my kind of love. on both sides.

Got to go get ready for Church.  Another good habit.  When I was growing up there was never a question of not going to church.  I am glad for my upbringing.  It sustains me now.  

Betty Boop

LET IT SNOW?

Is that really what we want?  Not the South, because we do not know what to do with it!!  It is really gloomy outside.  But in "the halls"  it is looking good.  I just love the different approach to Christmas people have.  There is elegance, tradition, beauty", nothing"for some, and then there is me.  I have my collection of Angels out.  Some from different countries and States and 10 cent store , home made, cracked and mashed and all mine.  My little tree is the same.  It would not be Christmas without the bear with three legs, smashed baby doll, those from Holland, Russia, Hawaii , Germany. The Holy Land, gifts from children and many more.  All mean something to me.  Let others decorate a beauty and elegant tree and I will enjoy them. but mine is beautiful to me. Let us all remember the reason for the season.

Betty Boop
P. S. Do not forget the beautiful music.  I have a good collection.

PRESSURE

Even as I write this, I know it sounds stupid.  But I feel pressure all around.  I used to get sick after Christmas every year.  Too much to do and trying to do it all.  My little world has shrunk for sure but it feels fuller than ever.  Sometime I feel I have completely missed the point of Christmas, yet that is not true.  How do I get off this Merry-Go-Round?  The same way I always do--just be still and wait.  Sounds simple?  But it is hard to do.  I want to be so much to so many.  My little new friend Eva that I visit down in Seana said to someone who sat near us as I visited her, that I was the best friend she has.  O my, she is so sweet and I thinks I am drawn to her because she reminds me of my own Mother.     This is nothing new.  I will be fine.  I think a lot of people get sad at Christmas. 

Betty Boop

THIS AND THAT

This weather is strange.  Wet one day cold the next and then warm again.  Mississippi?  We always have trouble changing seasons.  The lights are all lit up here and we are now a "Village of Lights"  So very pretty and I am proud to be a part of decorating.  My little rag tag tree is up.  It holds so many old memories.  My entrance is again overdone.  Just had to put up all I own.  THE VILLAGER JUST CAME OUT.  I had two short stories and an interview.  I did of a new resident. Feels good to be "published"  Now I have two new assigned to me for next month.  Also a poem.  I love feeling needed.  Now we are working hard on the Christmas music from my choir.  We are pretty good for old "has been" singers.  The display case in the lobby is filled with Santa's residents brought to display.  You know my old Santa from the 60's and from Ben Franklin 5 & 19 store?  He had a price sticker of $1.25.  He never looked so good in the spot light.  The honey man is coming today from Raymond,  He comes twice a year.  Hand bells from Colonial Heights
was last night. I was too tired to go.  St. Joseph's choir tonight  So many things every day.  I can not do it all.  But you can see I try.

Betty Boop

WHAT A WEEKEND!!!!

We had a whop-t-do!  (I just created a new spelling to a good time)  I can't remember another Thanksgiving like it.  When I walked into Ryan and M. G,'s house and saw the loooooooog table I almost lost it because Truman came to me so strong.  He would have loved it.  He always wanted long tables with children mixed in and everyone together.  I have a good story about that and some of you have heard it.  Of course it starts me thinking of the past and how yet it is in  the past it is all still with us.  I thought I was going to be all right this Christmas but I am slipping a little.  Must be careful not to be too sad.  It did my heart good to see everyone having such a good time.  Mission accomplished Truman!!!!!. Wish we could celebrate with tea in our Betty Boop cups--Me the top and you the bottom half of the cups. 

When I need it--I go to Philippians 4: 12-13.  One that has helped me a lot.

Betty Boop

ANGELS?

Are angels real?  And is there one for my stupidity/  All hipped up and ready to go to Kroger for a peck of squash(that is how much it will take) for my contribution to the big Thanksgiving feast.  Casserole.  What would you do without them to feed a crowd.  Last count 25.  Anyway back to stupid.  I pressed some button wrong and my horn would not stop blaring and so early in the morning.  I pressed every button till I found the right one.  Took a while and I was wide awake by then.  On to Kroger down the Colony Parkway when I noticed red lights come on the panel/.  On and off.  What did it say?  I raced on to Kroger.  I got out and the panic button went off again.  I could not stop it.  An Angel (I know) stopped and took my remote and pressed the same button I was pushing franticly. Silence.   Hooray again.  On to shopping and out to home and two buttons went wild but thankfully no noise this time so I decided to head home fast as I could.  An Angel at the entrance I had never seen before came out at my motioning even though it was cold and was kind enough to show me my hazard button.  He remarked what a nice car I had and I said it was new (to cover my not knowing where my buttons were.  Please Lord, it is two. almost three years old so forgive me for telling him it was new.  Anyway, I considered him my second Angel for the day.  It takes an Army of them to watch over me.  I just put together vegetable soup.  Just in case I need it.   HAPPY THANKSGIVING everyone.  I hope to see most of you for dinner tomorrow at M.G. and  Ryan's.

BETTY BOOP

COLD DAY

I heard two ladies on the elevator complaining about the building being cold.  "When are they going to turn on the heat?"  They said.  Well the heat can be turned on by working the thermostat in each apartment.  I did not say that, because you can't convince some people when they have made up their mind.  Church was good,  Rod always does it for me.  Lunch with Paul, Sophie and Amy.  We ate at a favorite--Mr. Chen's,  The shrimp and veggies is the best.  I drank a pot of tea.  It was cold outside--tea time.  Nice nap and  then to visit friends who need a visit and can't get out like I can.  Thank the Lord I can still go as I please.  My new friend, Eva M. and old friend Middie C. and also Irene made for a pleasant afternoon.  Still full from lunch, I had a funny little supper.  Half of a cheese sandwich and a plate of fruit with (since I had no cottage cheese) sour cream mixed with a little mayo.. Good sub. 

Betty Boop 

NOEMBER 23--1946-2013

Today is the anniversary of out marriage.  Sixty seven years ago at 2:00 P.M. we stood before the preacher in my parents home on N. Jefferson street in Jackson, before family and close friends and promised to love, honor, for the rest of our lives.  How that love grew and grew till March 2011 when God needed him more than me if that is possible.  How young and naive we were.  What a wonderful life we had.  Some sad, frustrating, and struggling but that only makes love stronger.  Even after death I am closer than ever before to him.  You know about my "Memory Bank".  I visit it from time to time but try to live in the "Now" and not in the past too much.  So here's to love and marriage-when it is good it is the best.  Enough of that.  Hope to see you all soon.

Betty Boop

OFF DAY

I don't get many days when nothing exciting is planned.  I have to admit that it feels good sometimes to do what I want to do.  Of course that is a given anytime, but you know what I mean.  Nobody is expecting something from me.  I think it is a good thing, but too many in a row would not fly. 

Betty Boop

SUNDAY, SUNDAY

Church was good,  Thanksgiving pot luck lunch after was so good.  Paul, Sophie, M. G., Ryan, Amy and me all at one table had a mini get together.  M. G. is on a cooking streak.  I guess getting ready for Thanksgiving at their house.  She made that old time favorite, Chicken Spectacular and her now famous Apple Pie, also sweet potato casserole.  My  it was all good.  She is a real cook now.  I brought home nothing in my pot but Lima bean juice.  Always a hit.  The list is growing for Thanksgiving.  I would be in a panic with this many coming if it were me.  No I take that back, we always had a crowd.  How could I forget that.  Of course I forgot to go to the "Memory Bank".  That is what it is for.  Good memories are always better later than when they are being made.  You forget the frustrations and remember the best.  Same way with raising children.  You forget the bad part and remember the best.  I don't often wish for our big house and wonderful back yard and lake, but times like this I do.  So be it!!

Betty Boop

JINGLE ALL THE WAY

Merry Christmas to you a little early.  I helped as a member of the MAKE GOOD THINGS BETTER COMMITTEE (catchy title)  yesterday start to put up lights.  We do love lights.  Out back by the lake we put them everywhere.  Resident egret will have to fine another place to perch.  Oh no, he will love the Christmas tree on the pier that is made of lights.  Next Saturday we will finish up the front and the court yard.  Such fun to work along side of friends doing something everyone appreciates  I hope. 

We are having a Thanksgiving lunch after Church service.  Bet it will be good.  I am taking Lima beans.  Always go fast.  Rain will not stop us today.

Betty Boop

SHIVER ME TIMBERS

I wish you all could have seen the beauty I woke up to.  You know the big green space across  the Lake.  It was white as snow with frost this morning.  I heard the weather report the night before and he predicted frost.  I knew I could see it if I got up early enough.  I did and all the grass all around as far as I could see was white.  So pretty.  Of course it faded when the sun came up.  I do wish I could sleep through the night--but alas, I can't.  So I took advantage of waking early this morning.  Such a small thing, but yet big to me. 

Back down--I went to Wal-Mart early afternoon.  It seems 1:30 is a good time to go.  No kids and soccer Moms--just us old folks. 

Betty Boop

CLOSET SALE

It is always fun to have a closet sale.  We had a giant one today.  All proceeds go to the Employee Christmas fund.  I hope it did good.  Had a lot to sell.   I am a Trustee on the Christmas Fund and I get to sign, along with three other residents the checks and distribute them next month.  That will be a pleasure.  Our employees are the best anywhere.  They are so pleasant and helpful  and do such a good job.  We are not allowed to tip so this is one way to give to them.  There are other ways we raise money for the, too. 

Amy brought me copies of my latest poem to read to the Writers Group today and she brought stuff to make a Taco salad.  I just finished eating it and it was so good.  She is always feeding me.  Things have sort of  turned around since I used to send little additions to her meals long ago.   They say what goes around ---comes around.  So now it is coming  around to me.  Feels kind of good.  I have not completely stopped sending it around but not as fast. 

Betty Boop


THE LAKE

I am happy to have a view of the Lake

I've lived on one before.

New memories I must make

New sights and much, much more,

 

Sometimes the waves look very large.

Like they could really push a barge.

And look, could that be a Pirate ship?

Up and down it seems to dip.

 

When the wind blows just right.

I look and a sailboat is in sight.

As it rolls and yields to the wind.

A veiled message it seems to me send.

 

When the wind churns the water just right,

And the sun shines very bright,

I see a most lovely sight

Diamonds sparkling in the light.

 

Dot Ellis 

Creative Writers Group

 



VETERANS' DAY PROGRAM

Imagine my happy face when I looked up to see M. G. and Ryan seated up front and then Amy and Candy suddenly were there too.  Our program went well and we sang good, they say.  I wish I could hear us sometime.  They laughed at me sitting on the front row next to the tallest lady in the choir.  The stage had a screen on it and we had to sit right up close to everyone.  The place was packed.  How starved are we for entertainment.?  No really it just shows you the spirit and support we have for our veterans.  So many of our generation were touched in some way by war. Any way Amy and Candy  stayed to visit and then to lunch.  I enjoyed the visit.  We talked and laughed a lot.  I am glad we were on the terrace by ourselves.  If the weather people don't scare it off with all the talk, we may have close to a freeze tonight.  We do get excited by cold weather here.

Betty Boop

SUNDAY (already?)

It does seem to come around fast.  I am really glad.  To have lots to do and strength to do it is a blessing.  Sometimes I don't feel very strong.  That is sometimes my own fault.  I always say  thoughts create emotions.  So true.  But how do you control your thoughts?  Tell me and you will really have the answer. 

Lunch at M. G,'s and Ryan's house was good.  Mary Grace made an apple pie that was so very good.  First apple pie, she said.  Hit the spot for sure.  I delivered flowers to my new neighbor.  She was pleased.  Then another to a long time resident who has been especially good to me.       We sing this morning for Veteran's Day at a special program.  Veteran are special too so many here. 

RED WHITE and BLUE day.  We all in the Choir are to wear those colors in some combination.  Can't wait to see that. 

Betty Boop

LOVLEY DAY

What beautiful weather.  Just the day for adventure.  Since I get very little of that, today was a real treat.  Number 2 daughter, Jan, picked me up at 10 and we went to see my Humana agent and locked a better deal. we think.  Not as bad a change as I was expecting.  Then we traveled on to the Mississippi Farmers' Market at the Fair Ground,  It was fun and colorful.  Jan bought goat milk soap at two different places.  I bought Louisiana tangerines and Mississippi tomatoes , I had one for supper and it was o,k, but not as good as I expected.  We were getting hungry and stopped at Keifer's for gyros.  We sat outside and it was perfect.  I have never had as good a Gyro as today.  Yum.  Business was very brisk but we had good service.  Then we were feeling pretty good. so Jan took me to the new Belhaven building to show me how to navigate the parking garage.  It is a new place and I have not been there before.  That taken care of we went to the busy little place called Fondren..  What fun.  It has changed so much since the early days.  If I were young again, I would like to live there.  We went in this cute little shop and bought some more soap. Not goat milk this time.  Sophie gave us all some of this soap at her bridesmaid luncheon.  I bought some and so did Jan.  Tired and satisfied we came home to a nap for me.  Jan was supposed to clean her house, but she said a nap sure sounded good too.  I haven't had a "jaunt" like that lately and I really enjoyed it.  Thank you Jan.  I loved it. And I do smell so sweet after trying my new soap.  I think Jan has a good supply now, so don't give her soap for Christmas.  Oh, maybe that is just what she wants more of.

Betty Boop  

THIS AND THAT

I was sitting in the "bubble" drinking coffee and watching the beauty before me.  I am waiting for Jan to pick me up and we will go to the Insurance man and tie up new insurance coverage,  Then we will go to Jackson to the Farmer's Market at the fair ground.  I Haven't been there in a while.  Should be fun.  Then we will have lunch someplace.  I have an annual physical next week and my doctor has moved to a new building.  Jan will drive by there and put me at ease on how to find my way there.  Sounds like a good day.  Oh yes, as usual my imagination gets out of hand and I was wondering about the ducks I just saw on the lake.  Six in a group and way over to the side two.  Did they know a new feeding spot and kept it a secret>  Were they banished from the group for some reason?  Were they on their honeymoon?  Oh how silly.  Then I saw the resident Egret in a cypress tree.  He is usually in one or the other of them that circle the lake.  They are turning a beautiful rust color and he really stands out.  I wondered, as I have many times, if he has a mate. Maybe it is a she? Maybe they take turns at the Lake?  And maybe my favorite--they have a nest in the tree and you just see one at a time.  What do you thin?  This is how I get ideas for poems and stories.  At the moment, a poem is brewing from a comment I heard about these monsters of beauty that we tie so artfully  around our necks.  Lot of possibilities there.  I will keep you tuned in.  Many times I get an idea and it just wont jell.  Well I must go. for now.

Betty Boop

GOOD DAY

Always good when I see my girls.  Amy and M. G. came and had lunch and stayed for a visit.  Jan came in the afternoon and helped me decide on a new plan for my health insurance.  She is good at this and  I am so blessed to have her so willing to help me.  After a pretty good visit with Mr. M.  she took home stuff to read and we will see him on Saturday to make a new deal.  Very tricky, since my needs may change.  You never know what will happen so I need to prepare.  On a lighter note, Amy brought me some shrimp and grits.  I had a feast for supper--instead of that fat laden hamburger we were offered from a local bank.  They put on a hamburger feast once a year which is nice but who could resist shrimp?Exercise class is looming, so I must go.

Betty Boop 

DAY OFF

A day off means--no meetings, programs to attend, no classes to meet and something outside of St. Catherines'  You know, there is really another world out there.  Kind of scary too.  Get real, it was just a trip to hairdresser in Maywood Mart to get my hair cut.  I came back here and covered all that grey that I hate.  Fixed my own lunch.  Can't remember what it was.  But you could care less about that.  Nap and read my romantic novel. (must have one now and again).  Picked up my supper. and watched CMA awards.  Well I watched it on mute and read that book.  It is funny and good too, when I went down to pick up my mail and supper, so many people said where have you been all day. , I missed you.  Now isn't that just grand?  Well I guess I can't be missed today, I have a meeting this morning and then one this afternoon with my Humana agent.  Thank goodness for Jan.  She will be here to help me understand the changes I can expect.  OOOh me, I just hope the new cost will be affordable, because insurance is my lifeline now.  Well I must get with it..

Later
Betty Boop

LITTLE BITES

Amy mentioned in a recent blog her memory of my Mother feeding her little "bites" of food for breakfast.  That goes way back to my own childhood,  I wrote a short story about it in my little book to my Grandchildren called  CHILDHOOD MEMORIES OF LITTLE DOT. Do  any of you still have it?  I wrote a story called SHE WAS A "PICKY' EATER.  Mama would do anything to get me to eat more.  I was always so much smaller than kids my age.  I think I have mentioned that before.  I had fun with that little book with the figures I drew.  Not quite stick figures and not real art either.  If  you find it dear grandchildren, read it again.  It was for you.

Betty Boop

BUSY DAY

I have mentioned this before.  Monday's are just too full.  I am tired and I wont to go to bed.  I dare not go at 9:00.  I guess the time change has affected me.  It seems strange to wake in the morning and it is daylight.  It also throws my diet off.  Maybe I will soon adjust.  They are making a display in the glass case downstairs of Veteran's pictures.  Truman was one of the first. I took one in his white uniform with his hat cocked to the side.  My he looked so young.  All the men look so young.  War is an terrible thing.  I hope we have no more, yet it seems we can't avoid it.  It makes no sense at all.  We are working on a Veterans Day program and the choir is singing a program of songs.  We will be dressed in red, white, and blue.  Your choice.  Should be good.  I am getting a hair cut Wednesday or else I will have to get a dog collar.  I have really gone past my time to get it cut.  O Lord why am I telling you all this stuff?  I think I need sleep.  Good Night

Betty Boop

ANOTHER FIRST

MG for breakfast.  Not a first but first time in a while.  Always fun.  The real first was my great-grand-son came for lunch!!Brody was not very impressed.  When he woke during lunch, he said "wha! wha!, where am I?"  He let us know he did not approve.  He looked so cute in a navy sweat set with a jacket with hood and cute beige shoes.  Neither mama or grand momma could convince him he was safe here.  Can't blame him, all these creepy people gazing at him.  I did feel sorry for Cary, when we hurried down these usually quiet halls with Jan holding him and even her famous rock-a-by swing did not sooth.  Up the elevator and into the apartment we went.  Still did not like it one bit.  It worries no one to hear a baby cry here, In fact some said it sounded good and I think it was a rare sweet sound.  One we don't mind at all.  I hope the car ride soothed him.  It usually does.  Next visit he will be up to it and will love the attention.  I am glad they came and they are welcome any time.  Well I hope you got with the time change.  I like waking up to daylight. 

Betty Boop 

A FIRST

Had dinner with Emily Clark.  Her son sells wine remember.  Two other ladies joined us.  Emily brought a very nice bottle of wine and they brought us wine glasses.  Wine in the dinning room was a first for me. She said she did not know a thing about wine--she just drank what her son gave her.  It was nice and everyone wondered what we were celebrating.  It is rare to see wine there but I have seen it once or twice. Apparently some frown on it.  But we enjoyed  it. 

Betty Boop

HAPPY HALLOWEEN

The weather is threating, of course the weather men are excited.  Excited enough to scare the rain we need off.  I do love cloudy days and hints of bad weather.  It puts me in a cooking mood.  Since I have soup in the freezer from the last weather threat, I baked Morning Glory muffins.  I have  had the ingredients a while but could not get around to making them.  I had Halloween cup cake liners, they were perfect.  Maybe you have made these muffins.  Made with Betty Crocker carrot cake mix with added pineapple and nuts and raisins.?  I took them around to my close neighbors and will take the rest to my coffee club tomorrow. Just trying to spread a little sunshine.  Everyone likes home made stuff.  I am having lunch with Darlene and dinner with Emily Clark--so I am set for the day.  I live a good life, don't you think?  I do.  In fact I am very blessed to have "work" to do and strength to do it. 

Betty Boop

ST. CATHERINES' HALLOWEEN

While nothing is really planned for Halloween here, except decorations in the main hall and at peoples' doors, you still hear of parties in some apartments.  I have never been invited to one, I am glad, who knows what goes on behind closed doors?  However the candy dishes are being refreshed  at doors by the hour.  I know we are on a sugar high.  Back to childhood I guess.  We are expecting stormy weather for the night of Halloween.  That fits, but I am sorry for the real trick or treat children.  At least we can roam the halls.  Some perks for growing older.  Well hears to fun--have more of it.!!!!

Betty Boop

SWEET MORY

I decided I wanted some home cooked food.  I am cooking black eyed peas, boiled okra, turnip greens and a little skillet of cornbread.(my style).  I thought of how my sweet mama, when she cooked cornbread would always slice a sliver and eat it hot with butter.  She would give me a bite when I caught her.  I just pulled a small skillet of hot wonderful smelling cornbread out of my oven and in her memory, cut a small sliver , buttered it  and ate it hot.  Oh it was good. 

Betty Boop

HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY

Yes, yes I feel happy as a bug in a rug.  Some very nice men came and put the final touch on my disaster this morning.  I made myself a steak sandwich and iced tea and topped it off with a Halloween Snicker bite.  I felt I deserved .  I had to dust and put everything back in place and when I came to the computer, I just sat down and caught up.  I guess I missed it the most.  Kind of like talking to you all.  I guess I should be clever and write something cute, but this was not very funny.  The people here have been super nice and for that I am  thankful.  Surely I will have some good Halloween stories soon.  You really should see some of the decorations, mine included.

Betty Boop 

COULD THINGS GET WORSE?

As I write this, I am in my little nest at the end of my living room.  First I nursed my back injury back to health, then my knee took over.  That fixed and my eye said I will now take over the controls of this train wreck.  I am still fighting that one/  With new treatment, I am hoping for the best soon.  They say trouble comes in threes.  No fours for me.  The sprinkler system had a malfunction and backed up in the ceiling till it found a weak place and dripped and dripped till it broke through .  Water and ceiling all on the carpet.  Leaked in the bedroom where Lind, who was spending the weekend with me, was sleeping.  Woke us us at 3:oo Sunday morning.  I wont go into any more details but two big fans were brought and cleaning is done and we are now waiting for the sheet rock to dry to decide how to pro cede.  Looking at a while.  I  was calling Linda Henny Penny because she woke me with the news Sunday.  What a visit for her. 

Excuse me now, I think I will go read my Bible--How about the book of Job?

Betty Boop

BETTER BETTER BETTER!!!!

Thank you Lord.  I did a mild version of exercise yesterday and I don't seem any worse for the effort.  So if that is progress--so be it.  I will take it.  I am not a very good couch potato.  Whitney's blog about Karis dressing up took me back to the bag of old clothes and shoes and scarfs in the toy closet at Riverwood.  I loved it as much as my granddaughters did.  Most little girls love dress-up.  I told Whitney that the old night gowns were the favorite.  Don't forget  the flowers to finish the weddings.  I guess they were weddings.  Looked that way to me.  Spend the nights were fun to me too.  Nothing like little girls.  Oh Boys are great too.  Just had to learn how to relate to them. 

Better Tomorrow (always)
Betty Boop. 

P. S.  I saw a birthday card with Betty Boop.  Almost bought it --just because?

DULL DULL DULL

I declare, I will have to make up something or stop writing.  I can't come up with anything of interest.  All my blogger  friends come up with something worth reading.---me---just still pain in my back.  Now I ask you, who wants to read  if  ibuprofen is the best pain reliever and how much is safe to take,  How it is possible to burn your back with too hot of a heat pad.  Also this pain rub (equate) does not get it like the real thing. Another question, should I go to exercise class and how much should I do?  AND  How much GOLDEN GIRLS can you watch?  I have seen them all.  Love their outfits. 

I did go to Church and that was good.  Paul, Sophia. Amy and M. G. and I had Japanese  food for lunch.  Last night as I checked the outside light before I turned it off for the night I opened the door and someone had left me flowers!!!!  Since my admires are all female, I think I know who left them.  So that is the latest chapter in my exciting life. Stay tuned, it might get better.

Betty Boop

TOO QUICK

I bragged too quick.  I overdid  my new exercise moves with the weights and pulled a muscle in my lower back.  Since Wednesday afternoon, I have been taking pain pills and generally living on the heating pad.  Some better, but not well.  I should have known better.  I have been alright for a week and into the second week, I had to do this.  I am so embarrassed and mad at myself. 

Well I have at least written a poem for my next Creative writing class.  Not about pain, altho it might be my next title.  It is about humming birds--going and coming.  They have really put on a show for me.  I think I told you about that already.  But this is a poem.  Somehow  things just come out a poem lately.  They used two of them in this month's VILLAGER.  They are desperate to use my stuff.  My stuff seems sort of silly but that is what you get.  Comes out that way. 

Amy came and brought lunch from CORNER BAKERY.  My was it good.  Saved some for supper.  If you are interested--I will keep you up on my progress.  Even my maid told me what to take for my pain when she came to clean this afternoon.  Maybe I will not be tied down too much longer.  I hope not.

Betty Boop

NOT MUCH NEW

Have not written in the blog much lately,   Just in a dry slump I guess.  You know writers are like that.  Not that I am much of a  writer.  Just like to think I am.  

Betty Boop     

FALL

Feels like Fall is around the corner.  I will be glad when the weather stops teasing and gets on with a change.  I am glad to live where we have seasons.  Al tho they are hard to define sometime.  Al Gore you were right I think about your theory.  It seems we are warmer all the time. While I was eating breakfast at 6:30 I could see down in the pool three people doing exercise.  6:30 is a little earlu seems to me.  To each his own.  Church and lunch at Mr. Chin's was good.  His shrimp and veges . suit me fine.  Amy, Paul and Sophie were there.  Always good company.  They made me a little tired to hear all they have planned for their work week.  Even Amy has more to do than you can imagine.  How they do it is a mystery to me.  I went to visit M. G, and took her flowers.  She is recovering well.  Nao and then to visit Irene.  I guess my day was full too.  So is my Monday so I will get on with it.

Betty Boop

CORRECTION

I am that "little dark haired cutie'  NOT  dark haired curie.

TID BIT

Tid bit means a little bit of nothing.  Go ahead and check the dictionary -- you will not find it there.  Just a made up word. 
Got my hair cut finally.  I also made it darker.  Now I am that little "dark haired curie"  again.  It takes all afternoon to do this, but it is worth the effort.  I am still liking the new workout.  I got a new stretch band.  Top of the line--even has handles.  Now I am all set with weights and a ball.  I decorated my ball with a smiley face.  O. K.  What else is new?  Had breakfast with four other ladies this morning.  I guess changing our time from 7:30 to 8:00 is more appealing to others and it is fun to have more people talking.  We talked about many subjects.  One was the games we played as children.  Many were the same.  Do little girls still play hop scotch and Jaxs?  Any way it was fun.  Good way to start the day.  Since the days of pancakes made by Truman are in the "memory bank", I have found  another way to start Saturday.  Time marches on.  Speaking of time, I  redecorated my entrance for October.  Halloween, witches and goblins.  I like it.  Now for November I will remove the scary stuff and put in turkeys and gourds  and fall leaves.  Next comes Christmas.  Hey don't rush it.  It does seem to go by fast when you have plenty to do.  That is why I try to fill my time.  I just don't need to visit the Memory Bank too often.  Jan is coming to visit and lunch.  Another good thing. 

Betty Boop

DC TROY

Well I think I know him well enough to call him by his first name,  After all they all laugh at how think my file is.  I have been going to this clinic for many years.  They say things like--"We need a wheel barrow to haul your file around,"  Dr, Newman was pleased (I think) with my eyes.  As usual I did have a few complaints.  He looked at me and offered a few lame excuses for my issues.  I am sure he was thinking  "Here is this old 86 year old complaining and by all reports she should be blind, but yet she can see better than most of  the people I see each day"  Now he did not say that but I bet he thought I should be thankful and I am.  I know how precious my eyesight is and I have come through a lot to be where I am, but being human, I still want more or at least assurance I will see a long time.  Along comes the word I preach so much to others.  Faith.  I pray for more stronger faith each day.  On the lighter side--Amy and I had lunch at The Cosmopolitan after the Dr. visit.  It is the place in Fondren that catered Paul and Sophie's rehearsal and wedding dinners.  It was DEVI NE  Good fresh and so good.  All in all a pretty good day.  Thanks Be To God.

Betty Boop

TOP GROUP

Yesterday at Exercise class we were asked to divide into two groups.  Those who had trouble keeping up with the new faster and stronger video, and those who needed a slower pace.  Guess who had no trouble with the new one.  Me of course and half of the rest did too.  It is 45 minutes instead of the old one==30 minutes.  It is more like I needed.  I was getting tired of the old one, feeling like I was not doing enough.  I get my heart rate up in the new and sweat a little too.  The had someone do the slower one for the rest.t.  Hope everyone is happy because some just can't take change.  I know that is why I do so well up here.  I just "go with the flow" It sure has taken me far.  I have always been willing to try something new and better. 

I see the eye Dr. today.  I am anxious to see how the new eye drop he put me on last time is doing to the pressure.  Also I need to know why I have these eye infections.  Amy is going with me.  I need someone to listen and help me hear it all.  Sometime I can't take new things in. 

Later
Betty Boop

HELLO

My what a rain we had yesterday.  I just got in from Wal-Mart before it really started.  I got wet but did not mind. Monday at exercise class, we had a new workout.  Lady from ST  Dom's came and they made a new video  She put us through it and added 15  minutes.  It is better and more what I liked.  She added a ball to the routine.  I thought I would be sore because we used our weights more.  I will be going again this morning.  I think it will be more fun.  She even added music, which I like.  Did you read Amy's blog about the Sea Monkeys?  I really want some of those creatures.  Maybe if I am a good girl Santa will bring some. 

Betty Boop

SUNDAY

Sunday at Church we had a covered dish lunch.  It was good.  I miss Truman there so much.  But I keep going.  I brought flowers from Church and arranged three to give away.  One to Middie Crosby (my Riverwood neighbor)  What are the odds of that?  It always surprises me who I meet out here.  I have also met a little lady, Eva, across the hall from Irene.  I pop in to visit a minute with her before going to visit Irene.  I took her flowers and paper ones too a while ago.  She is so sweet and alert.  She was reading a book that I had just turned in.  A very romantic mystery.  We talked about that.  What can I say?  We never get too old for love or to read about it.  I think I will take her a new bookmark next visit.  They always pleased me .  Just a talk and smile helps most people.  Especially people like her.  Am I selfish to get so much from helping someone else?  After all it is not all about me. I am amazed at the things that cross my path. I know I am blessed.

Betty Boop
 






























































 

LOOK MOM--NO CAVITIES

WHEW!!  I don't know why I worry so about the dentist visit.  I do hate to go,  Left over memories from childhood I guess.  But all in all I got a good checkup.  I wish he would stop bothering me about this crack in a tooth that I have had a long time.  He wants to crown it.  You know, it takes a Kings "crown" to crown a tooth.  I think he needs a new car or something.  Any way I will take my chances.  I will do what is necessary--here and now. Somebody famous said that.  Makes sense to me.  I just have to preach a little. 

I went to visit yesterday before I went to the Dentist.  Irene, Middie  Crosby and my new little friend
Eva.  I took each a tissue flower.  Amazing what those  little flowers have  done for me. Well they made me feel courage to drive to Jackson to the dentist.  I can still do that and they can't.  I just heard the chimes ring in the Chapel tower,  They have been repaired.  Have been out since I have been here.  They chimed 8:00.  Maybe they will discourage the buzzards who love to sit on top of the cross.  I think I told you about them. 

Betty Boop
hic et noc  Latin for:  "here and  now"
Do what is necessary, here and now.

HIGHLIGHT

The highlight of my day was having my handsome and very smart grand-son-in-law speak at St. Catherine's this morning.  Paul did such a professional yet entertaining program.  The show on a big screen of Fondren  then and now was very good.  I am sorry for the small crowd, but the ones there were very complementary.  After all it was "get your flu shot day" and for some people, that is all they can do in a day.  Ha Ha. No really you never know what kind of a group will show up.  Maybe we should have charged.  Would have been worth is.  Paul is a good speaker and kept it moving and that is important.  He got a good crowd to interview for his video about past memories of Fondren.  Made my day.  Thanks again Paul.

Betty Boop

SUNDAY

Thank you for reading,  Sometime I feel I am telling too much that you don't even want to know.  Church was especially good Sunday.  Amy and I ate lunch at Brent's.  They have changed or maybe I should say added to the old time favorites.  Like olive-egg salad and hamburgers and all the milk shakes etc.  The brunch food looked real good.  We then stopped by to check on the Wolf's cat.  They are out of town.  I brought some beautiful flowers from Church and made three arrangements to give to some friends who needed a smile.  I then went to visit them.  People love flowers and visits.  O yes the cat was glad to see us.  A lovely sandwich for supper.  tomato, melted cheese and bacon (turkey) on toasted whole wheat bread.  and a big juicy plumb (which I ate on the balcony).  I am enjoying this little taste of fall.  The best is yet to come. My favorite season is Fall and it is so short.  Maybe it will last longer.  The weather seems messed up.  I am having a bowl of my homemade veg.soup for my lunch.  A small cornbread, also homemade too.  Sound good?  Come join me.  You would be welcome.  I am also working on (in mind) a poem on Cicadas and also hummingbirds.  Only in my mind--nothing on paper yet.  But the words will come soon I hope. 

Betty Boop 

THIS AND THAT

How about this "false" Fall weather?  I know it will not last very long, but it is wonderful!!  We had a Fashion Show Friday  with our own models.  StienMart put it on.   It was so much fun and our girls did great.  One guy who was one of the models' husband was ln the show.  He was brave or just a show off.  No really he is a willing volunteer for a lot out here.  It was fun, but I did not see me in any of the outfits.  I sat by a lady who lives in a village house and she told me about her Moon cats.  She has two and invited me to come see them I think I will try to go see them.  Sounds interesting, 

Oh by the way, I got to hold my sweet new great grandson yesterday.  It never gets old, to hold such a sweet little bundle from heaven.  He is a good looking feller.  I bet he will look just like his Dad.  Wont that be great.  Mom and Dad seem like old pros at this game.  I am proud of them too.  Well I must get ready for Church.  Always good.

Betty Boop

GOT LOOSE

I went to the mall this morning.  I needed makeup, and Dillard's is my store for that.  Clinique was having a Bonus time.  It is the only time I get lipstick .  I love freebies.  Dillard's was having late summer sales.  So was JC Penny.  My two favorite stores at the Mall.  between the two, I bought two pair of pants, nice fall colors , and 5 blouses..  They can be worn in the fall and now.  I think I did pretty good.  Of course I may discard a few things. But it is about time for some "old friends", as they do go out of style.  That has never really bothered me if I really like something and it feels comfortable.  I topped it off with my favorite thing to eat at the Mall. Chick-Fillet.  A sandwich and coffee.  So good to sit there alone and study the people.  Maybe get a few ideas for my creative writing class.  People are funny and interesting to watch when they don't know they are being watched.  I don't mean to sound creepy  but it is truth.

Betty Boop

PROUD!!!!

Yes proud and grateful.  Brody is so precious.  I can't wait to hold him.  I am so proud of Cary.  She is sure a wonderful mother already.  And David? I bet he will make that little boys life joyful and fun.  I am so thankful that all is well. 

Betty Boop

FEELING LOW

A recurring eye infection has stopped me suddenly.  I stayed in yesterday all day and treated it as I have before.  Maybe a little better this morning but not recovered completely.  Oh how I hate this.  Don't know why it keeps happening.  I go to eye Dr. next week--maybe I can wait till then.  I made split pea soup yesterday.  My own made up recipe.  With it I made cornbread.  Also made pickled beets.  Had no cloves (which I always use) so I put a small amount of cinnamon.  It does not taste the same but as the say, change is good. I also made tuna fish salad.  My style has apple in it.  Truman always liked it.  There are many ways to make tuna salad and I usually like them all.  Sounds like I kept busy.  Amy brought me from Candy two books on CD.  I am listening to TOM SAWYER now.  It is so good.  The reader is Patrick Farley.  I did not know him but he has a wonderful voice and it really comes to life.  The other one is SENSE and SENSIBILITY. I must get a Madison library card so I can check out more.  We don't carry them here at St. Catherine's. 

Well so much for my sob story.  I must not dwell on the bad and instead on the good.  I'll make it through this one too.

Betty Boop

HAIHAIL Part of the gang was here!!

Jan, Tommy, Cary, David had lunch with me today.  I am blessed.  Cary is ready and waiting, wont be long now.  She said she filled the freezer with provisions and David wanted to start eating them but she said no , they are for later and you will be glad you waited.  Not much time to prepare meals with a newborn.  Another sure sign that the time is short is--most women get a surge of energy at the last and she was headed home to clean the house.  I mopped the kitchen floor the day Linda was born. 

Jan brought me a beautiful book for Bay St. Louis,  ALICE MOSLEY Her life, Her Art, Her Legacy.  It looks so interesting and can't wait to enjoy it.  I wish I could paint.  Maybe I could be another Alice Mosley, 94, Or Grand Maw Moses or Theora Hamblett.  All of a certain age as me and all did primitive art which I love.  Maybe I will try some day .My primitive art turns into stick figures!        It is too hot to go anywhere.  I don't really have  to so I will just stay here and read.

Betty Boop

ART LOVERS

Amy took me to see the Monet collection at the Art Museum downtown yesterday.  We both enjoyed it so much.  Of course there was lots of other work to see too.  We do have a beautiful museum and a lot of good work is done there.  I guess that is about it,  Nothing outstanding happened here.  Tomorrow is Saturday.  I hope my blood sugar will let me eat pancakes., as I have not had them lately.  What will be will be..

Betty Boop

RED WHITE AND BLUE

I have this knit shirt that is red, white, and blue.  I like it because it fist well and is comfortable.  But, it really does stand out because it is bright.  I wore it yesterday with navy pants, looking to tone it down.  No.  First comment right off the  elevator going down was," my what a cute top".  O. K., I can take that one.  Then "O my you have on my shirt, did you see me yesterday?"  Then she said, "Yours fits better than mine".  I sucked in my "chest" and went on down.  Then what clinched it. "  My what an interesting shirt."  Do you think I ran back and changed?  No, the old me would have.  But the new me said,"bless their little hearts"  (an old southern saying"  And like Scarlet O'Hara, "I'll worry about that tomorrow",  Or would "fiddle-dee-dee. fit better?.  I have always been proud of a few people saying I looked like Scarlet.  In my year book as a senior, it was written that I had a waist line that would make even Scarlet jealous.  Not anymore I am sorry to say.  Oh, by the way, one of my best friends was the Editor of THE COOTTON BOLL"  That was the name of our annual.  It helps to have friends in the right places.  I put the shirt in my laundry basket.  Maybe I will retire it.  Maybe not,  What would you do?

Betty Boop

LABOR DAY

My Labor Day was good.  Fantastic lunch here.  The bread pudding with bourbon  sauce did me in.  It was sinful.  We had exercise class, Choir practice . and Church service too.  Full day and I finished the day by watching a two hour show of THE WALTONS  I loved that show.  It was back to a different time than now.  So slow and good.  I am up and going today.  WalMart with my good friend Darlene.  Such a sweet person and I enjoyed going with her.  We work together real well. What else will happen today?  We will see.

Betty Boop

THREE HUGS

Must be my day.  Nothing like a hug.  My first one was from my precious #3 daughter when she dropped me off  after church.  She helped me bring flowers from church to arrange in smaller vases so I could give them to people I thought needed them.  She hugged me goodbye.  What would I do without her?  I hope I don't ask too much of her.  Second hug came when I went to visit a lady I met last week.  She lives across the hall from Irene.  I thought about how small and sweet she was.  When I took them in she was so excited and got up and gave me a wonderful hug.  She said the flowers called for a big hug.  I visited Irene and then Middie Crosby who was my next door neighbor on Riverwood.  Took her some flowers too.  We enjoyed our visit and I will go back often I know.  On the way back to my apartment I received my third hug.  I met a special friend, Marilyn, and opened my arms and she fell in for another big hug.  She said she really needed it. Somewhere there must be a poem in all this, but I think I will just keep that story for myself.  I can't believe the friends I have made.  MY CUP RUNNETH OVER. 

Betty Boop

SATURDAY

HAVE YOU EVER WOKE UP FEELING NOT SO PERKY?  I DID THIS MORNING, BLOOD SUGAR ABOVE NORMAL AND DID NOT SLEEP WELL LAST NIGHT.  I CANCELED BREAKFAST IN THE CYBER AND FIXED MY OWN,  I REMEMBERED PIG-IN-A-POKE OR WAS IT EGG-IN-AHOLE?  ANYWAY I MADE ONE AND IT WAS SOOO GOOD.  THINK I WILL HANG LOOSE TODAY AND CATCH UP 

BETTY BOOP

PATSY CLINE

I have always loved Patsy Cline and the songs she sang.  Truman liked her voice.  He said it was co clear and understandable.  I have a CD of some of her best.  Today we had a program and we had a full house.  Shirley Marshall, our amazing Activity Director is so talented.  She dressed and sang Patsy Cline songs.  It was so good.  Her songs were "tear jerkers" anyway, but the way she sang them brought tears to our eyes.  And of course Alan and Patty were so good to accompany her.  I really did enjoy it.  She sang other songs also.  When she sang THE FIRST TIME EVER I SAW YOUR FACE really cracked me up because I  remember so well the first time I saw Truman,  You know the story so I will not relate it again, but I just knew there was something there and I wanted to explore.  I guess he did too.  I guess a good "cry" was in order.  I kept hearing that from friends as we went back to our apartments.  I think crying is a good thing in some ways.  I am learning so much about being a widow.  There ==I think that is the first time I called myself that.  I hate the word, so strike that out. --------think I need a walk.

Betty Boop

HUMMING BIRDS

I have been told that hummingbirds are aggressive to each other.  I went out on the balcony to rest my eyes.  I had been tweaking a story I wrote some time ago and never really finished it.  It is a little long and my eyes got tired.  Hummingbirds, I think I told you are all around with several feeders near me  Two kept fighting right in front of me.  They dashed a little too close for comfort.  I realized that maybe they were looking me over was because I had on a solid red shirt.  You know they are attracted to red.  I felt honored to see them so close, but I decided to come inside.  I hated to disappoint them.  

Betty Boop

YHE MIDDLE

I always thought the "middle" was the safest place to be.  Not first, which makes me afraid and certainly not last.  Although I feel last a lot.  Sometimes last is safe and you know what is best, because hind sight is better than foresight ?  Now does that make any sense at all?  Any point to this discussion?  No, not really.  Just had to write something so you would know I am still thinking.  However misguided my thinking is. 

I saw our resident white heron yesterday and also our resident buzzards (3)  Ducks, and a exciting hummingbird battle from my balcony.  Those little wonders are fighting for the feeders.  There are two next to me and two down from me and one on the other side.  They are aggressive little birds and fun to watch.  Well enough of my Nature Show--Sweetly Be 

Betty Boop

MONDAY ABOUT SUNDAY

Sunday was Sunday again.  That is a good thing.  I love to hear our clever young preacher.  He finds ways to help us understand God's plan for us.  After all today is what we have and we must live in it.  My highlight of the day is of course having lunch with my family.  We never know just what the mix will be--but always good.  Of course I am blessed to have flowers from the Church to give.  It always does me as much good to visit and give as it does the person I visit.  Yesterday was no exception.  I also saw a little lady I want to visit and give to next week.  Thank you Lord for putting people in my path that I feel I help.  I know they help me. 

A good Quaker advice, "Be present where you are."  Good advice, I challenge you today to try to be present where you are.  I will try to do the same.

Betty Boop

Friday & Saturday

Jan and Carol had lunch with me in the dinning room Friday and it was fun.  The lunch theme was Hawaii.  Roasted pig and all the foods that complemented .  It was very good.  Could not eat the dessert, but that was alright with us.  It was good to see Carol and visit with her.  I gave her a copy of TRU-BE-DO-BE-DOOoooooo.  I do hope my Grandchildren appreciate that book.  Truman wrote it for you.  Hunt it up and read it again.  It is just like him talking to you.  Read ENGEBI again too.  I do sometimes read some of it.  I love to imagine what a 21 year Truman(who had never been far from home) was like.  Can't you imagine how  brave and scared he was.  To have so many new experiences really changed their lives and in many ways made them what they were from then on,

MG and Ryan had breakfast with me.  A real "lumberjack" breakfast for Ryan, as he was headed off to help move furniture for his sister.  I had an omelet with tomato and mushrooms and half the cheese.  It was good and the company was excellent.  At eight o'clock in the morning, that is saying a lot.  They visited a while and were reluctant to get on with the day.  Now I have shampooed my hair and in a while will go to WalMart.  I have been here all week with plenty to keep me busy, but WalMart is a must, once in a while. 

Later
Betty Boop

GIRLS. GIRLS. GIRLS.

Well just two but they were fun at lunch,  M. G. and Amy.  Amy always does something special when she is here.  I framed the Beach step picture and she hung it under my other favorite beach picture  Several years ago Whitney framed three  poses of Truman walking on the beach.  I love it and look at it a lot.  Now hanging below him  are my favorite people in the whole wide world.  Add Cameron to the list.  Sorry he had to miss the beach picture.  We love him too.  It is funny how a small gesture like hanging a new picture can cause you so much pleasure when you pass and glance at it.  Thank you Amy.  (O yes, as I always say to myself when I look at Truman "You have the most sexy legs in town!"   .I always told him that.  Today tell someone you love an endearment,  You will always be glad you did. 

In the memory mode.
Betty Boop

ROAING 90's PARTY

No not for me ---yet.  Once a year we have a Birthday party for all residents 90 or over.  There are over 150 who are over 90.  Several are 100 and over,  Three of the 100s were there.  In fact one sat at the table where I sat and she sang every word to the sing-a-longs.  It was amazing.  I went to be with Irene, who is 92.  It was a wonderful celebration.  I felt actually young among them.  Beautiful decorations and food too.  Kind of gave me a lift.  One lady at my table kind of bonded with me as we sang along together.  Music is so wonderful.  People respond to music when they can't respond to other things.  One lady, who I know well, got up and danced with a nurse.  I mean she knew what she was doing.  Her son seemed embarrassed.  I could have shook him.  Did not faze her.  She had a ball and I was glad for her.  Irene forgot her pains and worries for a while as I took her back and visited her for a while.  So I had a good day.

Betty Boop

SUNDAY

Fall in the air.  I like this break in the temperature.  No kids to get off to school but I remember the thrill of a new beginning for everyone.  I don't understand my mixed feelings about Sunday.  Well I think I do but I wish I could get over the hard time I still have going back to Broadmeadow.  With not my usual days, I have too much time to think.  I try to fill it by doing things like visiting and taking flowers to someone and always being with Amy and sometime grandchildren,.  But the piece is still missing. 

Well it is Monday and plenty to do.  Maybe I will pull it together today. 


So Be It
Betty Boop

SATURDAY What again?

I am sure you are bored with my saying that, but it seems that way.  Last weekend was so wonderfully full.  I started the day right with my friend Darlene at breakfast.  M. G. and Ryan came and helped me understand  a few things on my computer.  My goodness I feel so dumb but yet a little smarter when  they leave.  Now if I can just remember what I "learned."  Jan joined us for lunch and we actually ate on the terrace overlooking our beautiful lake.  It was cloudy and a nice little breeze going.  We all enjoyed it.  Jan stayed and we filled out some stuff for HUMANA Insurance.  It reminded me of how lucky I am to have it.  A nice nap was had by me.  I shampooed my hair.  I guess you needed to hear that.  I sat on the balcony and ate a blueberry yogurt and let the wind dry my hair.  Let me see what else I can do?  Maybe see what the library has that I have not read.  It is still only 4:o'clock.    O yes, my CD was playing The Tennessee Waltz.  I could always get Truman to waltz to that song.  So I just waltzed and pretended we were together.  O my, no matter how much I cram into a weekend--it is still hard.  Will it ever get all right?  Do I really want  it to.?  Everything changes.  nothing is lost. 

So Be It
Betty Boop

TUESDAY

Hot dog day in the Cyber.  Think I will have one and some chili too.  Rain then shine.  The weather is changing.  I love to hear the cicadas singing.  Reminds me of Fall.  Then that time is marching on.  Exercise felt good this morning.  I am glad to have the class--makes me go regularly.  Creative writers Group meets today.  I have a poem and a story new to read.  I am sure enjoying this group.  Hope I don't run out of ideas.  Not likely, since new material is always around.  We are funny and interesting people.  Really we are.  You just have to listen and look.  Also be careful not to label anyone. No, no, no!!!  Think I will go iron  couple of blouses. 

Later
Betty Boop

P. S. to weekend

I can't wait to see Brody in his Uncle Bryan's look-a-like jeans and plaid shirt and shoes to add to the outfit.  So clever!!!!!  Ma Maw

HOOP-DE-DO 11111

However  you spell it, it was a full wonderful weekend.  First to have Linda and Joe and Whitney and Karis to visit was so good.  To watch Cary and David open presents for baby Brody was so much fun.  Sophie and Paul put on a party fit for SOUTHERN LIVING magazine,  Their neighborhood is so peaceful and beautiful  The trees are amazing.  Well you know me must talk about the food too.  So special and they spent such time and care in the decorations.  Well done.  Of course we did not stop with one party.  While all together and the Ellis Reunion being canceled this year, we decided to have a mini one at Jan and Tommy's house.  Jimmy, and Lois Caldwell came Sally was on a visit to Jimmy's so we had I think 18 people and food like the reunion--minus the fried chicken.  Some missed that but the other food was great as well as the visiting.  Just like Ellis reunion.  Oh I missed Truman.  He would have been in rare form in that kind of a crowd.  I felt he was watching.  I do hope some of my thoughts are right about him and heaven.  Of course I realize my mind can not know or figure it all out.  I have to wait my turn to see that.  But it is such a comfort to me to look up at the  sky and imagine I see him there. and maybe looking down on us.  See you later Babe!!  Oh yes Cherry, Peggy, Scott and Sheila were at the shower,  So good to see them too.    Thank you Lord for family.  People who need family and friends are so lucky and I am thankful for mine.

Betty Boop

THIS, THAT, AND THE OTHER

The big shower for Brody Alexander Merkosky is tomorrow.  What a strong sounding name.  It will be a family affair.  The kind we do best.  It will be at Sophie and Paul's house.  Even little cousin, Karis will be there.  Not to let the Ellis Reunion die this year,  we are having a mini one.  I call it the George Ellis Reunion.  A lot of his off springs will gather at sweet Jan's.  Of course we need to thank Tommy too.  Thank goodness Tommy is used to big family doings.  His family love each other too.  Jimmy, Lois and Sally will be here and that is how it got started.  We don't get to see them often.  Our lunch at Jan's will be pretty much like reunion food.  The best!!.  So we have a big weekend starting tomorrow when Linda and Joseph come. 

Guess what--it is raining!!Wonderful.  We need it and they do not promise much cooler weather however.  After all it is August.  I think most people are looking forward to the Fall.  We humans are never satisfied.  I do like the Fall season best.  Something to do with school starting.  But I do not have anyone starting back to school.  Just a habit I guess.

Betty Boop

WEDNESDAY----THE MIDDLE

My the week does go fast.  Here I am in the middle.  Good place to be (I guess),  I need to research and write a poem (laugh).  My WINK poem has gotten some feedback.  Not as much as I thought it would.  I think some people are afraid of me.  After all some take a wink seriously.  It is so hot.  I am glad I don't have anything to do outside today.  Guess I will do those little things I put off.  And exercise and read.  How does that sound?.    Oh yes did I tell you about the two buzzards that have taken up residence on top of the Chapel cross.  Now there are three.  It is funny to hear comments on them.  Something to talk about in the Halls.(or another poem) I need to stop these silly poems but they wont leave me alone.  Oh the curse of being a writer! (Ha Ha) 

Betty Boop

NEW WEEK

Full week is starting today.  Of course Monday's are always full and have added a meeting once a month on Monday. I t is a meeting of the VILLAGER staff.  I can handle that.  I like my new job there. It is cloudy today.  Hope for rain to cool us a little.  I had lunch with Amy, Sophie and Paul after church yesterday.  We ate at MAJESTIC BURGER.  I had a wonderful BLT and enough bacon for a month.  I got my fill.  Better not do that to many times.  Paul is going to speak here in September.  Can't wait for that.  I will have to pump everyone up for that.  He will of course talk about FONDREN.  He said Fondren  then and now.  Many out here knew Fondren early on--like me and Truman.  Our first apartment was there in the mid 40's. 

Well, I must get on with the day.

Talk to you later, Betty Boop

WHAT THE WORD WINK MEANS

The word wink, according to my beautiful dictionary, is of Old English origin.  It usually implies "deliberate movement in quick closing and opening of one or both eyes--one or more times."  It went on and on.  So I began to think about it and to research and found many reasons to wink.  Here are a few:

1.  To send a signal.
2. Pretend not to see.
3. To close a deal.
4. "O. K., you are right>"
5. Or does it mean, "I know something you don't know?"
6. Maybe Our little secret?
7. And then,  "Alright, it is time to start!" 

And then my favorite is a sign of endearment.  Or better put-to  "flirt."

I'm sure you can think of many more ways to define wink.  If you see me in the Halls, give me a wink, and let me interpret it for myself.
    
Dot Ellis
Creative Writers Group

LATEST WRITING IN THE VILLAGER

                                                                                       WHAT THE WORD WINK MEANS

SATURDAY

Saturday, and you know that means PANCAKES!!!!.  Doesn't take much to make my day.  Darlene, my friend, and I like to eat together on Saturday.  She is such a nice person and I like her.  I got stung by a wasp day before yesterday.  In the bubble of all places.  I was arranging fresh flowers for the table in the bubble and I reached in to the flowers and this "thing" darted  out so fast I did not even get a look to see what it was.  A wasp I think.  It stung my little finger and hurt so bad.  It is still swollen and itches like crazy. 

Jan and Peggy came yesterday for lunch and a visit.  I enjoyed them a lot.  Giving the "tour" to someone is fun and just reminds  me again that I live in this wonderful place and am blessed.  We are having a birthday dinner at Jan's for Ed, Cary, and the absent Bryan.  We will think about you Bryan, and tell a story or two.  The menu sounds good.  I am again featured in the VILLAGER publication.  My interview with a new resident and a silly story about the word WINK.  Gosh. where did that one come from?  More on that later as the story gets around.  I will write it for you in my next blog.  To be continued, 

SWEETLY BE
Betty Boop

Been Missing

Been missing a few days.  Not my fault.  The computer decided to take a rest.  Don't know why,  just tired of me  I guess.  Amy dropped by and took the battery  out and gave it a good shake and I work up.  So I am back in business.  I realize all my blogs are full of mundane things so thanks for reading.  It is just like talking to you. 

Betty Boop

GOOD SUPPER

Sometime, I just want some good cooking.  I went to Freshway  and bought fresh stuff.  I had wonderful baby yellow squash.  When they are young and fresh, all they need is to boil them and put butter and salt and pepper on.  Nothing fancy but when you pour them and their  juice over fresh made cornbread. it is fit for a King.  In my case a Queen.  Corn on cob is great/  Teamed with fresh ripe tomato and cucumber. well it does mot get much better. Tomorrow I will cook okra, butter beans, and a baked sweet potato. along with tomato and cucumber.The peaches are still good too.    Hungry??  Nothing fancy, but sometime that is just what you need.


Betty Boop

O. K.

Busy day.  Amy came, to take  me to eye Dr, for check up.  Everything is going alright  I appreciate the fact that he wants to make it better and keep what I have.  So he is adding another eye drop to help keep the pressure down, which causes eyesight loss.  So I will do as he says and trust him.  We waited an hour and more because he had two emergencies before me.  That is o. k.--if it were me needing emergency, I would want him to take care of me.  Our time was cut too short to do anything else, so I came home to eat lunch and get ready for the insurance man.  Jan gives me courage with him.  We both agreed he did not give us much we did not already know.  We will wait till October which is when even he will know more.  So be it.  I know how to wait.  Let me hear some news from you all.  I love reading even the most mundane things from you all.  They are news to me.  

Betty Boop

SORRY

I have fussed at you all for not blogging and here I am guilty too.  No excuse, just not  a lot happening worth talking about,  Amy came yesterday to lunch.  That is worth reporting.  I always love it when she comes to visit.  She is taking me to the eye doctor this morning, and Jan is coming this afternoon to help me with my Insurance man explaining new insurance changes for next year.  I am concerned as most everyone is about that.  Maybe I can afford it with new changes.  I do need it now more than ever.  As with other matters, I will be still and wait and try to understand and make the right choices.  I have learned a lot about my future business and I still have more each day.  I need you Truman.  Where are you?  I never get used to missing him. 

Betty Boop

SUNDAY

Bright sp0t in Sunday today was Church with Amy, Paul and Sophie.  We had lunch at CHINA DOLL.  It was very good.  I0ve Chinese.  We went by to visit their new kitty.  She entertained us and she is a beautiful cat. 

Went to visit Irene.  On the way back I met a lady who said the shower of rain we just had was filled with sunshine.  I asked if she knew what that meant.  She said of course, it meant the devil was beating his wife if the sun was shining while it rained.  I said right, I was always told that as a child. I remember trying to picture that.  The devil always, in my mind looked  scary in his red suit and long forked tail and horns.  But to me his wife was beautiful  How sad.  Any way we laughed. because this other lady had never heard that story.  Have you?

Betty Boop

PANCAKE DAY!!!

And they were good and so was the company.  Shampoo and then did laundry.  Jan came and we had a turkey burger at the Cyber.  I love her visits.  She is my friend as well as a great daughter.  I wrote a poem today.  Wont to read it?

DUCKS VERSUS GEESE

 

 

Said the Mallard to the Canada geese,

"What are you doing back here?

We longed for quiet and peace,

:Lost it again I fear."

 

"Please, said the geese, let us stay"

They promised they had changed

"No  No" said the duck.  Go away,

Or a scare  of the White Truck will be arranged"

 

Off they sailed, low in the sky.

Honking their protest as they flew.

The Mallard looked up and honked "Good Bye,

And I hope I have seen the last of you!!"

 

Dot Ellis  2013

 

The White Truck is the Security Guard.  He also chases geese. 

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STRANGE DAY

I don't know why I think it strange--just felt that way.  Those cheese omelets with tomato and mushrooms are so good.  I delivered a Birthday card to my good friend Betty R,  this morning.  It was topped off with what is my signature {I guess} small tissue flower.  She was delighted.  I love to add a little special touch to the cards.  People like it and it is so easy to do.  We had our giant closet sale today.  I do not know where all of the stuff comes from.  I do love looking at it.  Did not buy much.  I then went to  the Post Office and bought a roll of forever stamps.  My a roll cost so much, but I wont need more for a long time.  I don't mail much.  I then traveled on to one of my favorites--Wal-Mart.  Needed too much to take up to my apartment in one load--so some is still in the trunk.  Paper stuff.  I was exhausted.  Made myself a tomato sandwich (so good) and went to bed.  Revived, I went to visit Irene, then typed my interview and sent it to Mary Ann.  Hope she likes it.  Now I am typing to my blog and as getting hungry so I will go fix my supper.  I know one thing I will have,  An ear of boiled corn.  My supper wont be as good as last night.  I went to M.G,'s and Ryan cooked one of my old. old favorites--Chicken Tettrazinnie (SP?).  He did it just right.  I'll have to give him another favorites.  Poppy Seed Chicken.  O. K. that's all folks.

Betty Boop

DERMATOLOGY

O. K.,  I went.  Now I am covered with potential little blisters.  Now wont that look great?  One spot sent for biopsy,  Not too worried about that, just a precaution.  He said  that I must have spent a lot of time in the sun growing up.  I said not I really, I tried to  avoided the sun because of my freckles.  {which I hated}.  Well that is the end of my report.  Not much happening.

Betty Boop

NO WATER

They cut the water off at 9:00 this morning for repairs.  Of course we had a notice and I filled the bathtub to flush the toilet.  And drew some for brushing teeth and to drink.  Hopefully it want take long because I am reminded of how spoiled I am. 

I had breakfast with Darlene and Willie Looney.  Don't laugh at the name.  I am sure she doesn't think it funny, but I do, I must confess.  She has had a sad life,  A familiar story of putting your husband through medical school then having a family, then he left her for a young beautiful assistant.  Ho Hum--what else is new.  I have a few things to do.  Things I have put off.  Why do I do this?  It feels so good to get things behind you especially if you really would rather not do them.  So "Don't put off things till tomorrow that you can do today"  Not my words but good ones.

Betty Boop

P. S.

I would like some comments on your Blog!!!!!  mamaw

AS TIME GOES BY

Just think --this time last Friday we were wrapping up a week at the beach.  I have had fun telling my friends about it.  Now today I have pictures to prove it.  The step picture and the hug ball one are the best we ever had of our group.  I am posting them on the "BRAGGING RIGHTS" section of our board downstairs.  I can't wait to hear the comments.  I will wait till Monday when the activity director is back at work.    My neighbor met her family at Fairhope, Alabama  this past weekend.  She was there a long weekend and said it rained every minute while they were there.  Two small children were very  disappointed.  I am sure everyone was.  I made pumpkin bread for my coffee group this morning.  They liked it.  I hope to have pancakes on Saturday morning.  See I have slipped right back in the slot and picked up where I left off.     But the thing about it is that my memory bank received a huge deposit.  I check them out from time to time and enjoy all the good memories we made.

Betty (back home) Boop

HOME IS WHERE THE HEART IS

True.  Sometime home is at the Beach.  My heart was there a week.  Enjoying my family.  But I am back home at St. Catherine's now--and here is my heart waiting for me.  The VILLAGER came out while I was gone.  My interviews looked good and they published my poem--ODE TO BEETS.  I have a few more poems in the wings.  Paul and Sophie , it feels kind of nice to see your name in print, right?  I really am enjoying this "new found talent"  Talent?  Maybe they are just desperate.  I really wanted to join the new beginners art class but I just did not feel I could at this time.  Maybe later,  Well I must run and get ready for exercise class.  That I do fine the time for.

Not the NEWS FROM LAKE WOEBEGONE
Where all the women are strong
All the men are good looking
and all the children are above average.   BUT

NEWS FROM ST. CATHERINE'S
All the women are curious and weak
All the men do not care
And there are no children

Betty Boop

MATRIARCH????

My beautiful new dictionary defines Matriarch as a mother who rules her family. Another definition--A highly respected elderly woman.  Don't like either.  But I do feel respected, and loved.  Do you know many other families who could pull off this Beach Week deal?  O yes, I know there are many times when we all have to hide our feelings and make the best of it.  For that I am proud of you all, because the good outweighs the not so good.  Soon you forget and only remember the best, which  is :time well spent together.  Getting to know each other better.  For the children we are building memories that they will always have.  Each year is different.  New faces added to the mix, children changing, and some not there any more make it different.  At the end of the week, as we part and go to our own homes, I see love and respect for each other in your faces and a thankful heart for the experience.  Again I AM PROUD OF YOU ALL, and let us look forward to next year--God willing.,   Now who will wash all these dirty clothes?  THE MATRIARCH . of course.  Somehow that does not sound right.  Maybe the OLD GIRL? 

Betty Boop

FIRST STOP--MCDONALD'S

Tradition, don't you know.  Then Felix's for lunch.  Then Loxley.  I do like that stop.  I feel so rich when we go out with watermelon. peaches, corn, potatoes, tomatoes, and lots more.  I just may have trouble sleeping tonight.  I would guess that this "OLD GIRL" needs to get away.  What better place to go than to the Beach with my family.  Just wish HEAD HONCHO could be there too.  We will miss him and will think of him too.  We are so lucky to have this time together.  People I tell about it say they do not believe it.  Now I have met a few here who do the same kind of thing, but not many.  This is my last post--see you all soon.

Betty Boop

BETTER LUNCH PARTNERS TODAY

Yes I had a nice lunch with two friends and two more joined us too.  Blackened catfish brings people to the Cyber.  They know how to steam veggies too.  I have had a full day already.  Breakfast with Darlene.  She is going out of town for two weeks/  One week while I am gone.  We like our breakfast together.  I then took off  to Freshway for produce to take to GS;s  Then to the bank for cash and then to Kroger for a ham to take with us.  Then to  Walmart to finish my list.  I got back in time to have lunch with my friends and then a nap.  I made pimiento cheese for a crowd!!  Now I am baking peanut butter cookies.  In between I am checking off my list.  Boy I did not know I could still do so much.  If I am not careful, I will run out of steam and be a rag doll.  I hear we will have rain next week.  You know how that is on the beach.  It blows off quick  and gives you time to rest a bit.  Anyway, see you all soon.

Betty (busy) Boop
P.S. it is still just 3 o'clock!!!